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Date Posted: Thu July 24, 2003 12:51:48
Author: hello
Subject: 戀愛問題(一)--------怎樣才算拍拖?
In reply to: chow_chi_ho 's message, "願大家分享各人的愛情經歷..." on Mon May 19, 2003 00:13:55

其實我都有關戀愛的問題唔係好明白:
係唔係一定要有一齊行街、食飯、看電影、拖手仔、或有很親蜜的接觸才算戀愛,曾和朋友說起自己以前曾經喜歡過一個人,我o地冇一齊去逛街,shopping,亦沒有一起看過電影,也未拖過手仔,但我們郤深知對方都是喜歡自己的,我倆都給對方很多機會單獨相處,彼此認識,雖然不是做之前所講o既o野。有時有人向我倆其中一人獻殷勤時,我倆都會在意對方的感受,為怕對方誤會都會用言語和行動來暗示「我和那人是沒有任何關係的。」
認識我們的人都以為我們正在拍梗拖,但我們也沒有怎樣向對方表示過甚麼,其實我不怕人誤會我們,因我實在喜歡他,但我因不知他究竟想怎樣而很不安,我o地都因對方而很煩惱,但我們都不敢對對方表白,直到他開始冷淡,我才鼓氣勇氣問他,雖然我又有點問不出口,但他明白我的心意而答覆了我,他因為一些原因,暫時不想談戀愛,我其實有點嬲他為何又給我們機會有開始,但畢竟我對他的喜愛過於不滿,甚至想過會等他。但心裡常牽掛著一個人是很不舒服的,總之就很辛苦,我確實好不容易才不再在乎他,不再被他影響。朋友聽後很奇怪,她覺得我和他沒有一齊行街、shopping、看電影、拖手仔根本就沒有和他戀愛過,為何會這麼難放下他?
我很奇怪,為何在一般人心中拍拖就是這些?其實唔係心最重要的嗎?每個人的興趣都有不同啦!若要我常常行街、shopping、看電影我才覺得為難了我呢!但我至少在他結婚時,我雖然未至於很樂意的為他們祝福,但至少我也覺得他們這對是很合適的,比我和他更合適。但這朋友呢?近來,當她收到前男友的喜訊時,將他和那女人都踩到很低,好像他沒有和她一起是他的損失,而她沒有和他一起就真慶倖,當時我心想:「或許他和那人一起比和妳在一起會更幸福呢!」難道對一個自己曾經愛過的人會如此刻薄的嗎?你o地以前曾經「拍過拖」啊!

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