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Subject: Re: Bad days


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Mael
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Date Posted: 11:27:56 01/31/05 Mon
In reply to: Sage 's message, "Bad days" on 00:44:19 01/31/05 Mon


Reading the post doesn't bother me at all. I know exactly how you feel. It might not seem like it, but I do. I been going through the same thing the past couple months, ever since October. I'm going to school for psychology but I don't know if I want to do it. I am still going however. I think thats the best thing people our age can do. Most people I speak to that are going to college around our age or the same way. I think it just has something to do with being around 20, I don't know why. There are 2 girls that work at the Y that I've talked to that are both going to college and have no idea what they want to do. But they are still going. I think thats all we can do till we figure out life better. Just pick something and go with it, even if your not sure that its what you want. The fact is, if you have a degree in something, you can get a far better job than if you don't. The overnight exec at target has a degree in the Culinary Arts. He has a degree in cooking. The only reason he got the job as an Executive is because he has a degree, even though its in food. Most places are like that. They don't care what you have a degree in, as long as you have a degree.

What are you going to do with your life? What is left in life? If you aren't happy just helping yourself, maybe you should try helping other people. I know nothing makes me happier than seeing someone happy because of something i've done.

We already discussed the pointlessness of life without God. Remember how I said that if you don't deal with it now you will just deal with it later in life? And I said that it's good you figured it out now when you still have time you change your life?....and that most people don't figure it out till they are almost done with life? I can't say anything else other than that you will continue to experience this feeling until you do something about it. I suggest reading about God or talking to someone about it in person. I don't know about you, but for me, talking to someone about my problems is extremely hard, even to my parents. So I understand if thats something you can't do. If you were gonna talk to someone, other than your parents, I would suggest Paster Gary Kahn, at Desert Streams Church. Maybe it sounds ridiculous, but pastor's are known to be counselors and give the best advice IMO. They don't care about money, only about you. You could talk to a therapist, but they would only give you some drug, so they could make money. They don't care about you. Paster Gary would. If you want to talk to someone, I would say him. At least consider doing that before killing yourself. After all, if you plan on killing yourself, what do you have to lose by talking to someone first? I can give you directions to the church, maybe even the number if I can find it.

You have to do something. If you do nothing than nothing will change.

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