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Date Posted: 13:28:27 04/16/05 Sat
Author: Stef
Subject: Re: My story
In reply to: Sam 's message, "Re: My story" on 01:58:54 04/13/05 Wed

hey Sam,

welcome to our forum here! :)

I totally agree on your point of view, that the real thing that matter is LOVE, the love to your lover and not if your lover is a boy or a girl. I think that everyone who believes in a religion that bases on the values of being good, help each other, love other people can’t tell us any reason why your love should be less worth then if you would live in a straight relationship. Actually, couldn’t it be the way that you choose your lover way more being aware that it’s LOVE that you feel for her and not for any other reasons like social security, money, etc?

Your story is awesome and beautiful! feel free to and a bit more of you and how you discovered Lost and Delirious and we can add it to our reviews, if that would be okay with you. :)

You didn’t add your email address so i guess no one can send you an email by now.

take care,
Stef


>Hi! I'm a girl from Italy. What can i say? I can
>understand you! I think that everyone who saw lost &
>delirious and spent a minute to think about it and
>maybe cried can understand you!
>My story is still "behind the curtain" but it's the
>most important of my life. I'm 24, my girlfriend is
>23. We've been best friends since i was 17, we know
>everything about each other, we read in our mind even
>without words and we share our lives so very deeply. I
>couldn't lie to her even if i try but i keep the most
>important secret in my mind for years. And she did the
>same. More than one year ago, i could not stand
>anymore, i was going crazy 'cause my feelings were
>coming out as a storm...i thought i could not lie, no
>more. And one day, in the morning (after we slept
>together because her parents were away) she kissed me
>and everything was said. We spent an afternoon telling
>all the things we kept inside and showing secret
>letters! After that we kissed all night...it was the
>most wonderful night of my life. Then we started our
>relationship as lovers. A few people know about us, a
>few friends we can trust. She told everything to her
>family (she's really like Pauli of L&D) but i can't.
>My family is very catholic and they are of very
>restricted views. We are in the country of the pope!
>Here homosesuality is considered a perversion in the
>name of a cristian moral that church men (men not
>God!!!) have built. I'm very cristian too and the God
>that they made me know is not evil, He couldn't never
>stop to love one of his sons or daughters only because
>he loves! It's only love. I'm only a girl who loves a
>girl, as you said. That's all. I don't know if i'm
>lesbian or bi and i think it's not very important now.
>I think there's no choice you make about it, you
>simply fall in love. I'm only asking the freedom to
>love the only one on the earth that made me feel this
>way...happy! I'm happy with her, she wants me as i am
>and my dream is to live with her for the rest of my
>life. I think it's very easy to understand...but every
>day i face a reality in which people look at us as
>strange phenomenons or animals in a zoo if we take by
>the hand or kiss, they laugh, they even took photos!I
>feel as my rights are stolen! And sometimes i really
>hate all the world.
>Your story is very touching. Trusting again is not
>easy and maybe some loves happen one time in
>life...but you have the right to be happy. If your
>boyfriend really cares about you, he will understand
>and accept you.
>You can write me every time you want by e-mail.
>Good luck

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