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Date Posted: 19:21:29 04/17/05 Sun In reply to: Nicole 's message, "Just wondering...." on 09:15:23 04/17/05 Sun I'm unfamiliar with Sylvia P. or Anne S. I'm not sure I'd use the same terms (prey/predator), but in essence I agree. The "prey" may willingly surrender and accept "I own you, bitch," as long as it comes with an unconditional "and there is NOTHING you can say or do that will make me withdraw my love for you." The predator/prey both have responsibilities. And you're right, it would get boring and/or bloody if they screw the role up, or rather, break their agreements. In this age and culture, men have been feminized, and women masculinized. It's often seen as weak to really be in ones' femininity (and power associated with that), and other females will "prey" on her if she is. One result of the Womens' rights movement (among other factors) is tearing down the idea and will of men to really be in their male power and role as well. It takes some training, reminding, and patience, to step back into these roles. I've seen it done well by many couples (wish they could be at the course next Sat.) -- it just isn't the social norm yet. Or maybe I haven't found the center of that frequency. Obviously not, as I'm not in that role right now. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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