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Date Posted: 01:35:14 11/15/02 Fri
Author: pekat
Subject: Hmmmmm.......
In reply to:
Sugar
's message, "HA! As it seems I had the last word anyways ..... here's a few more!" on 21:43:00 10/16/02 Wed
For some strange reason, I feel compelled to respond to this post. Lord knows it's been a long time since I've been here, but this situation was brought to my attention and it's something I'd like to add to.
There's a lot here to comment on, so bear with me. *g*
First of all, Caro? Your attempt at lightening the mood didn't go unnoticed. Aljo and Jo are going to have to respectfully hand over the groaner award because that 'speaking of cottage....' joke was not only funny but the timing, my sweet, couldn't've been better. *ggg* You absolutely rock (((Caro))). *g*
Bill? It seems that we all have a 'sugar story' hmm?
And it seems that they're all doosies. Mine? I buried it a long time ago, and that's where it'll stay. (lol I can hear those of you who know, giggling at me already. ok ok...so I may have had a teensy little bout with it. LOL)I guess some people just have that innate ability to handle a sword, and annmarie proved herself quite proficient at cutting where it hurts the most but at the same time keeping a smile of innocence on her face. ((Bill))
Cake? hehehehe......thou dost speaketh the truth, hmm? LOL
((cake))<--wow, been a long time, hmm? *g*
Red? While I was busy making googoo eyes at dreamy, you must've been rootin' around in my brain. You stole the words right out of my head and I agree with every single word you said. Screw what she thinks of smooches ...c'mere and lay one on me. ((lynnie))
Laney? I suppose the reason why sugar is so obsessed with the lounge is because there's people like you in there. You're another one who goes trick or treating in my brain. My God woman! This may not be true, but just from your posts, I can't help thinking how exactly like me you are! Friggin scary! But we can analyze that over margaritas and botox injections at a later date. ((laners)) *giggle*
And Pete? sigh.......
It's not easy to slam doors shut. Especially when you thought there were open arms on the other side. ((pete))
But at any rate kids, I think sugar taught us all a valuable lesson and for that we should be grateful:
Be careful who you open your heart to.
Despite what sugar thinks, the hugs are real and so are the smooches. Relationships, whether they're online or in 'real life' are no different. They both require patience,understanding and love. It's all about balance. Not balancing online and "real life", but rather, balancing and being responsible for your own mental health.
Goodnight dear hearts, sleep well.
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ermmmmmmmm Pekat? -- Caro, 21:33:32 11/18/02 Mon
Geeeeeeeeeezus woman!
I wasn't trying to lighten up the mood, I was merely being myself, and for whatever this is worth, I still absolutely care for Anne-Maree and always will, even though I have/she has told each other off quite a few times, but that's the extent of our "spats" per say.
And what I'm grateful for? That I still have friends whether or not they agree with my decision to still be in contact with Sugar.
I've learned, not only from being online, that people change, people get angry, people say nasty things, do nasty things, people laugh, cry, "scream" at each other, but out of all that, I know that *I* can always count on Anne-Maree along with tons of others online.
I've said before that without Dreamy around one day, I don't think I would have had the "ear" I needed a while back. I've said that about Anne-Maree. You know as well as I do that you've been there many o' times for me, Pekat and for that? I am forever grateful :-)
I know that for me, personaly, hugs, smoochies, etc. are true, and for Gawds' Sake, if someone doesn't agree, I respect their decision. Also, I know that when I get a message from either Anne-Maree, Tom, yourself, Aljo, Cake, Jo, etc. telling me that they are thinking about me, how can I ever be wrong in knowing in my Heart of Heart that someone, somewhere, cares about me :-)
Lots of people came and went in Acro, the message boards. Some I miss terribly, some I couldn't care less about in all honesty and I don't think about them at all. Same thing applies offline, doesn't it?
I totally agree with some closing the door on Anne-Maree if their experience with her were all that bad. For myself, so far, even though it's not always been rosey, I care deeply for her and I don't think that I'll ever be able to forget about her as she was, as she is now, as she will be for me. Same thing applies for lots of others. For example, things might not have worked out between myself and 2guddy, but I care for him deeply also. He was and always will be a friend, a confident more so then others in which I simply get laughter or anger from (I won't mention names here).
There are also some that have angered me so much that even though I'll be civil to them, I will never ever open my Heart to those people (again, no names need to be mentionned here), and in saying that, I do completely understand your choices and other's choices in moving on because I have done the same to a few people even though I was told "Don't you think that maybe so-and-so might have changed?". In my Heart of Heart, I make my own decisions in Life and for some reasons unknown to myself at this time, I just can't forgive some moves people have done to hurt me or close ones and I don't see the day where I will fully excuse their actions. Make sense? ;)
Believe me when I say this, my friend, I Love You with all of my Heart and always will because I know, deep down, that whatever road I will take, whatever choices I will make, you might not agree with those, but you'll always care for me, and I realize that fully. That's what makes friends be friends.
:-)
Sincerely, a friend forever,
Caro
PS ((((((((((((((((((((((( Pekatttttttttttttttttt ))))))))))))))))) major smoooooooochies
LOL
PPS Still looking for who cut the cottage cheese, have you found out yet? ;-) :P
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Re: Oi Caro -- Bull, 05:05:27 11/21/02 Thu
Just wanted to say you are one amazing woman.
For what its worth, you know I stuck at AM's side when most others didnt.
I haven't taken any sides on this... if they exist that is, my post was for one reason.
I believe she has become a nasty and bitter.
Don't ask me why, I have no idea.... I simply got sick to death of her coming out and deliberately berating and insulting people in a totally UNPROVOKED manner.
The Anne-Maree I used to know would never have done that and would certainly have berated any person that did.
She used to be someone I used to laugh with and I honestly ALWAYS found her online company fantastic.
I now find her just nasty... thats all.
ttfn
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Hey, Bull? -- Caro, 14:56:02 11/24/02 Sun
Thanks, but I don't think the compliment was necessary, even though it's very much appreciated.
I realize you've stuck by lots of people, including Sugar, more then once, more then a dozen million times and it shocked me as much as others to read that you'd had enough of Sugar's antics.
You've even forgiven little ol' me for blowing up publically at you a few times. Lord knows I'm fired up on some things, sometimes.. well, erm... lots of times... LOL
I'm just glad we are passed that and that we can just be "friends across the internet pond"
PS I'd like to grab you by the Bull horns someday... LMAO!
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