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Subject: Re: smoking and personality...


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Milo
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Date Posted: 13:10:51 05/07/07 Mon
In reply to: Linda 's message, "Re: smoking and personality..." on 00:08:35 05/04/07 Fri

Linda, I’ll go for the second option (telling her she captured my attention) as she doesn’t look like a person who wants to be told she is “hot” by a person who almost didn’t talk to her before. In addition I wouldn’t be very comfortable doing that. I will let you know about this whole thing…

I am not sure yet if I find it erotic to watch at girls smoking, I guess I do somehow, but I am still on my way exploring this side of smoking which I never took into consideration. Sara is the first person that makes me feel like this, before that I found smoking a rather senseless action. But now I feel things are slowly changing. To put in a simple way, it’s like when you start looking at older girls rather than at teenagers; it’s something of an evolutionary process, but is this normal?...



>Personally, Milo, I don't think that you will score
>any points with Sara by telling her that she looks
>"cute" smoking. I think that many girls who smoke in
>public like to think they look very hot and very
>desirable, not "cute".
>
>If you're not comfortable telling her that you were
>turned on watching her smoke, then tell her what you
>told me - "Sara, when I saw you smoke, you really
>captured my attention". If she smiles and says
>"Thanks", that means she wants to hear more from you,
>and you could say "I really think that you look so
>mature and confident when you smoke". If she reacts
>well to that, then take it from there. And if you
>don't expect to run into her within the next month, I
>think you should call her, whether or not she already
>has a boyfriend. Who knows, maybe she has another
>smoking friend she can introduce you to.
>
>As far as why you like a smoking girl more than one
>who doesn't smoke, I feel the same way when I watch
>attractive guys and girls smoke - it's very erotic. I
>can't really explain why, and one of the things I like
>to learn on this board is what turns other people on
>about smoking. Some people like to see a lot of
>exhaled smoke, others like to watch deep inhales, etc.
>
>
>Anyway, good luck and keep us posted.
>
>Linda
>
>>Linda, well, I'm not sure if I already really like
>>Sara. For sure she captured my attention a lot. She
>>lives close to the place I am staying but I think she
>>has already a boyfriend. Anyway next time we meet I
>>could make a remark about her looking cute smoking
>>just to see how she'll react. At least this gave me
>>something to think about, why do I like a smoking girl
>>more than one who doesn't smoke? Any comments or
>>similar experiences?! I'll keep you updated... (Milo)
>>
>>
>>
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Re: smoking and personality...Will18:44:18 05/07/07 Mon
Re: smoking and personality...Linda01:10:06 05/08/07 Tue


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