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Date Posted: 07:59:21 07/14/09 Tue
Author: Mahri
Subject: Still trying to catch up here :-) I don't think anyone, besides Pamela, can say whether she did the right thing or no. I mean we have opinions of course and we might think we'd know what we'd do in her situation, but we really don't if we haven't been there....*think* being the key word imho. She herself might not even be sure it was the right thing to do or not. At the time, her emotions and feelings are guiding her and there's not much time to make a decision. She could later, with more time and in hindsight feel differently and regret and wish she'd made a different choice. I do think Jamie was right to support HER decision, whether he agreed with it or not. Casey? Hmmm, they aren't married yet but I believe he should've played a role, at least been told - but I totally understand why she chose not to include him.
In reply to: Elaine 's message, "Exit Unicorns, Chapter 22 ~ Losing Maude" on 05:52:58 07/14/09 Tue


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  • IMHO she made the best choice she could with what she was feeling and dealing with in that moment. I can't imagine going through something like this alone and it seems to me you'd want the support of someone close and obviously Pat wouldn't be able to handle it. Maude...well I think naming the child/fetus made it much more personal and therefore harder to let go. Jamie will always be Pamela's friend of the soul and I can't imagine him not helping her, ever. As for Casey, I think his role is more than just Pamela's fear for his life in seeking her vindication. IMHO it's also the fear that seeing a child daily that isn't his would constantly remind him of his not being able to protect her and that would slowly eat at his sense of pride and honor. (NT) -- CindyS, 11:50:38 07/14/09 Tue
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