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Subject: Re: Advice please


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Date Posted: 16:51:30 01/05/13 Sat
In reply to: Confused 's message, "Sometimes a girl needs a damn good spanking" on 18:34:07 12/06/12 Thu
 Since going back to school my youngest seems to be in a deep blue funk. I know she loves school, has a thirst for learning, is one of the most well behaved students and top of the class (and not ashamed to let everyone know it). So I don't think it has to do with being back in the structure of the classroom.
One thing is her best friend who she almost exclusively hangs out with has been playing with other kids. I think for about the past year her maturity has been kicking in and she is learning about love. certain things indicate that she has feelings for her friend. I am not alarmed by this quite yet because at that age children are a bit confused about love and gender. It all works itself out as they get into their teens so I understand. One other thing is I'm absolutely certain that she has a very serious crush on an adult male. I'm also quite certain that this poor guy is unaware. My daughter can be quite a talker about things she has learned, silly things, things that went on during the day, but when it comes to matters of the heart she is very protective. She does unwittingly give many clues though.
Since being back at school last week she has been very quiet and seems almost suffering from depression. I'm very concerned about her. She just doesn't have that bright, outgoing appearence she usually does. She has been quiet and moody. Not misbehaving. Those of you who have children probably know what I'm talking about.
I'm wondering if maybe a spanking might snap her out of it. Not a good spanking I would give her if she misbehaved, but just a spanking. I know that probably sounds absurd and that the reasonable ones on here whose opinions I value will probably advize against this. It's just a thought. What do you think?
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Re: Advice pleaseAlfred (for Confused)18:49:31 01/05/13 Sat
Re: Advice pleaseMaster Mike23:23:36 01/05/13 Sat

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