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Subject: Re: Getting Addicted


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Paul (Horgan)
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Date Posted: 03:32:32 04/05/24 Fri
In reply to: Smoking AI 's message, "Re: Getting Addicted" on 13:36:36 04/04/24 Thu

I managed to persuade my wife who was had, since meeting me, become a heavy smoker herself, that it I wanted her to help me get our kids smoking it was quite special for both of us to be a part of this process and see our children learn about the pleasures of smoking and become aware that it was their mum and dad's belief that they should accept that they were going to become proper smokers too and would quickly get addicted like grown up. With lots of loving reassurances, our little boy and girl soon became aware that they felt a need to smoke and that this need would be one that was to be a constant part of their childhood. Both our children were aware of my own childhood smoking and trusted me as I actively encouraged them to smoke increasingly heavily. I am grateful I had my wife beside me to make the kids feel secure with being such young smokers and to help them establish, within only a couple of months, about a packet of their brands of fags a day each. I have no doubt our children felt special being smokers and our son has been only too happy for us to have also helped his little girl to become the gorgeous young 9 year old who has smoked addictively since she turned 5.

There is no denying that, to begin with, it is quite frightening for a child to know that there little bodies have become totally controlled by a harmful adult cigarette smoking addiction and that they no longer have any control ovethe powerful need they will have as children everyday to maintain and feed their lungs with toxic smoke. It has also been the case that even though to begin with children feel shy about being a smoker, once the dependence become more established, there need to smoke soon outweighs what others m8ght think about their smoking so young. In our family, we have, without being ridiculous, been quite open with people we know that our children were smokers and have known they are legally allowed to smoke in numerous places including the car and some public places. Our granddaughter now feels quite safe to often smoke in front of her friends and loves how pretty she is often told she looks smoking.
After a while, it gradually become quite normal for children like and our kids to light up without thinking too much and take on the smokers identity and lifestyle if being a smoker.

I'd love to hear others thoughts.

Smoke rings, p

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