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>Thank you Alex > >I agree with everything that you are saying. I had a >chat Abby's friend's mum last week, the medication has >helped her a little bit, now I have been asked not to >name her so I will respect that as her mum has been >reading our discussions on here. So I mentioned to >her mum that girdling her will be difficult as she has >no real role model apart from Abby, but Abby is still >learning about the benefits of wearing a girdle. Now >this ladies daughter is no wear near as active as what >Abby is, this kid is arty. So I have put it so her >mum that perhaps if her daughter was willing to try >shapewear and she can see what Abby is gaining from >it, that perhaps her and her daughter could take this >journey together? I would help them get started, by >going to a Department store and just try some cheap >home brand garments and see how they feel and once we >get the right ones they try them for a period of time >before reviewing it down the track and if they are >happy and want to continue then I would take them both >off to the store the Girls, My Nan now gets fitted at >and my self to be professionally fitted. This way she >is going something foreign to her with her mum and >will know what her mum is feeling. They are going to >think about it and get back to me. I have invited >them around and they can see the different garments >that the girls all wear and they said yes. We shall >see what happens! > >Clara > >>>I have been asked by one of Abby's friends mum for >>>help with her daughters figure. She was very >>>concerned her daughter was developing a weight >>>problem, the Dr agreed and has put her on a appetite >>>suppressant but she know my girls wore old fashioned >>>girdles and wondered if that might help her >daughter. >>>I did admit from my experience that I did start >eating >>>less when I become girdled, I did point out that I >>>can't guarantee being girdled would help but also you >>>can judge a book by it cover and if you go down this >>>path her daughter must be willing and the gridle >won't >>>make a overnight difference that it will take time as >>>her daughter adjusts and becomes accustomed to the >>>control it gives. So she it going to go and discuss >>>it with her daughter, will see what happens. >> >>Yes, I agree that a girdle can help with weight loss. >>It will take some determination, as it will take full >>time wearing. Not just every now and then. It will >>need to be either high waist or all in one, or best >>probably a corset. Regular rise to the waist will not >>help much as the stomach is above the waist. A firm >>control longline bra might help. As a girl she is >>lucky that everybody thinks it is perfectly normal >>female attire, and doesn't have to worry about wearing >>it. (As a guy I always make sure nothing shows. >>Maybe nobody would actually say anything if a shoulder >>strap showed or whatever but I wouldn't be comfortable >>about it. Very unfair!) >> >>Unfortunately I weigh more than I should and try to >>loose weight. 10 years ago or so my wife and I were >>going to an annual event which starts with a banquet >>the first night. Having been there before I knew it >>would be extremely good food. Put me in front of an >>excellent all you can eat buffet, and I will have more >>than I should. Having at that time lost some, I >>didn't want to ruin it all. I decided to put on some >>pretty tight girdles and shapewear to prevent me from >>pigging out. My wife thought that was an excellent >>idea. I had a delightful about a week before leaving >>trying on different combinations to make sure I could >>wear it all day. It was a bit of a drive and from >>leaving in mid morning to bedtime I would not be able >>to change. So I was well dressed for the drive. (I >>don't have any really strong ones so I have to layer >>up.) >> >>I have noticed that different items do not always go >>well with others and are less comfortable. I did get >>good combination that was both pretty tight and >>comfortable. It worked well. For the banquet I >>really couldn't eat any desert, not for lack of >>wanting to. Overall it was comfortable enough that I >>left most of it on overnight.

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