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Date Posted: 15:55:43 08/03/24 Sat
Author: Bonnie's Kid
Subject: Re: DOES ANYONE SUSPECT THEIR PARENTS HAD ENEMA FETISH
In reply to: Sue (UK) 's message, "Re: DOES ANYONE SUSPECT THEIR PARENTS HAD ENEMA FETISH" on 01:40:23 07/28/24 Sun

>I think (based on experience) new parents suppress, or
>rather divert, their fetish -
>(not the word I would choose because it's linked to
>sex - "obsession" is better) -
>but it's a losing battle and eventually some adverse
>circumstances bring their obsession to the fore, and
>they start looking for excuses to inflict it on their
>kid, becoming more sadistic.
>All the above applies to spanking and also to
>anally-inserted evacuants.
>My parents took five years to formally make the
>spanking+suppository punishment routine a "normal" (?)
>event, and after that it was an ever-present threat
>for my sister and I. They also took six years to
>introduce the enema and the bisacodyl suppository
>(with the connivance of doctors/nurses). And they took
>eight years to start using potentially-dangerous items
>as rectal stimulators. And in both cases, after that
>they were an ever-present threat.

As a kid, I was unaware of "sex" or it's implications relating to a "fetish" where enemas, suppositories, douching, or Rt's were involved. You are correct in using the term obsession as it may relate to my family. Perhaps, our family doctors and their nurses fueled this obsession. It may have been expedient to prescribe these treatments as they were consulted often, but didn't have other ideas.

I have posted about being locked out of our apartment when dad was back in town and grandma told us that mom and dad needed some privacy. Early on, after finding the wet enema and douche bags hanging, my sister and I thought that was only because they exchanged enemas.

It was quite later on, as sex was now on our minds, that certain habits began to make more sense. Besides, I had discovered some very positive and enjoyable aspects of an enema. I am sure my older sister did as well, even though the sexual/sensual aspects weren't shared and secretive.

I've posted elsewhere that those early enemas from mom and grandma were miserable, and seemed very punitive. I did get thumped on when I resisted. My sisters were very cooperative however and they were rewarded after getting their enemas.

As I aged, and had other interactions outside of our family, I began to become more educated in many aspects of life. That included having been treated in hospitals as well as interacting with others who shared their own experiences with those embarrassing procedures. My eyes and mind were opened and I re-evaluated my own thoughts and habits.

While certain topics are quite subdued in public, I honestly appreciate all of you who share in forums such as this. I have made the rounds to most other forums and have learned a great deal from many of you as individuals. I have also been fortunate (or blessed) as one poster often shares, to have had some face to face or direct communications relative to these subjects.

One poster (AV) indicates it is "therapeutic" to have forums such as this. I merely appreciate the openness due to the unique subject matter. I do apologize if my lengthy posts are offensive to those of you other posters. The reality is that the vast majority of my enema experiences are female related.

Best to all of you!

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