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Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Callum [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 13:16:24 10/18/25 Sat In reply to: Grumpy 's message, "Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee?" on 11:00:47 07/15/24 Mon Ive got no memory of ever being smacked OTK. As a youngster when smacked open hand it was mostly done just standing where i was. With the yardstick when it started getting used I had to bend over the back of a chair. Being an implement of substantial length (like a cane), otk wasnt practical. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:33:57 10/19/25 Sun Yes, I do believe most children/teens are spanked over their parents' knee. Growing up my siblings and I and along with our friends were also spanked OTK. My siblings and I now spank our children/teens over our knees, and I know the majority of my kids' friends still are spanked OTK and my friends still spank over their knee. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Bobby711 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:06:55 10/19/25 Sun In our family and friends family, it is over their knee; except if the strap is used, it is bent over something. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Callum [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:32:07 10/22/25 Wed Hey Bobby what were you usually made to bend over to get the strap? Some are made to lie face down on the bed. It was always bend over the back of the chair for me and both brothers [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Bobby711 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:26:14 10/22/25 Wed Mostly over the back of a chair or the sofa. Sometimes it was over the bed and once over the hassock in the family room. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Callum [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:06:17 10/24/25 Fri Whats your thoughts on being made to bend over Overwhelmingly i think I was made to bend over so it would hurt a lot more, i think it did. Yardstick over my bent over bottom was unbearably bad. Also, kept my hands out of the way from reaching back. I was made to either grab the chair arms or palms on the seat. Was very much forbidden to move my hands once they were in position [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Alfred22 (for Callum) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:29:23 10/26/25 Sun I am impressed that you got it with the yardstick. Yardstick spankings are dismissed way too fast here. They can easily match the effects of other implements, as they clearly did for you and for me. My mother was very reluctant to spank my hand so if I reached around, she paused and demanded "Move your hand NOW!" Very slowly I would withdraw my hand. Sure enough, as soon as I did, another spank landed and I hastened to put my hand back again. This dialogue always accompanied my spankings. I am impressed that you could avoid reaching around. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:24:57 10/26/25 Sun here is a little thought you may want to try. Take the approximate number of spankings you have received and time that by the approximate number of swats per spanking and you will be surprised at your final number. The majority of you will be surprised when you see that you were given well over 1000 swats and over 100 or more spankings. For example, my 15-year-old son has been spanked OTK from age 4 to the present. I estimate that he has received so far in those 12 years at least 100 spanking and each spanking was approximately 30 swats total with hand and implement which equals 3000 swats. I know he has been spanked more than that, but this is just to show you an example. Anyone cares to estimate your total spankings and swats. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Callum [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:43:07 10/26/25 Sun Both yardstick kids Alfred! Couldnt agree more! Yardstick as an implement should be up there with paddle and belt. Cane and switch still the worst of the worst! Would have been more impressive if id taken the yardstick without the level of crying it usually got out of me. Hurt so bad most the time [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:09:38 10/26/25 Sun Sounds like less than 10 spankings per year. Is that because he was well-behaved, or because cause you didn’t spank for most offenses? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Anna to Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:08:53 10/26/25 Sun Grumpy, I was just using that as an example. He has received a lot more than what I used for an example. He has received probably double or even triple the amount of spankings. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:53:13 10/26/25 Sun If you are willing to answer, how often did you spank, and did they vary much? Reason I ask is that a female co-worker stressed how she appreciated her mom spanking her, but when someone asking about her spankings, got the response that the consisted of one swat. So I conclude from that and other comments that what people mean about it can vary greatly. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Anna to Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:47:50 10/27/25 Mon Grumpy, Between the ages of 5 and 8 they were al spanked at least once a week. Those spankings were on bare bottom with hand only. Between the ages of 9 and 12 spankings were at least 3 spankings a month. Those spankings were given with hand and spoon. Between the ages of 13 and 15 they were still getting at least one spanking a month if not more at times. Those spankings were given with hand and Jokari paddle. Between ages 16 to present they are spanked at least every 8 to 10 weeks and again sometimes more. Those spankings are given with hand and mostly with the Jokari paddle. All spankings from the very first to the present are always over my knee on their bare bottom and thighs. Grumpy does this answer your question. Feel to ask any other questions. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:50:34 10/27/25 Mon Anna, when you say "bare bottom and thighs", how far down do you go usually? I've found the thighs are definitely more sensitive. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Anna to Caring through action [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:42:00 10/27/25 Mon Hi CTA, I spank about halfway between the knees and bottom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:34:06 10/27/25 Mon Thanks for the chance to ask more. As tge got older did they complain about going over your knee, and or did you have any trouble getting them or keeping them in position. Reason I ask is that once a girlfriend of mine was asking her younger sister, about 14, if she still got spanked. She admitted to spankings but she blushed and denied going over her mom’s knee when asked. My girlfriend told me later she thought she was lying. And I remember from my childhood how guys might even brag about gettin the strap from dad, but would never admit that they went over their mom’s lap. The over the knee position seems almost universal and practical. It presents the bottom and prevents the spanker from hitting too hard. It also seems romantic when depicted in old films when the hero spanked the heroine, as a standing spanking would seem brutal. Sorry for going on so much, but with you as a veteran spanker with a PhD in over the knee I’d appreciate your thoughtson all of this. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Anna to Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:50:24 10/27/25 Mon Hi Grumpy, I never have a problem with putting them over my knee. They know that if they do not cooperate or resist, their uncle will be called, and he then will strap them first then go over my knee for their paddling. They all still plead and beg not to be spanked and to please leave their underwear up, but they know all spankings are OTK on bare bottom with hand and paddle no matter their age. My 17-year-old daughter was spanked last night before bed for not giving me a note on Friday after school for her behavior. I paddled her bare bottom, and she will be getting a full hand and paddle spanking when she gets home from school today. Any more questions, feel free to ask [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Bobby711 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:06:41 10/29/25 Wed Hi Anna, in our house, all spankings are bare bottom over mom's knee. Since I have a tendency to do a lot of kicking, I have to go over her left knee, her left hand grabs my free right hand and her left leg goes over the backs of my legs. There is no way I can break loose or cover up. As in your situation, mom has a close male friend shoe has been and can be called to give the strap if needed. Then, you still have to do over mom's knee. I discussed the two spankings your 17 yr old got with my mom. My mom agreed with you completely and the same would have happened to me. Withholding information by not telling mom what I did before she found out from others is the same a lying. Therefore, two spankings are warranted - one for the offense and the second for the withholding or lying. I can say that I do not lie to mom and do not withhold information on purpose. It just does not pay. Also, I do not argues or talk back about having to go over her knee. I hate getting that strap. My question is: did your daughter have to go into the corner after each spanking? Thank you [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Anna to Bobby711 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:28:30 10/29/25 Wed Hi Bobby, Her first spanking she did not go to the corner but was sent straight to bed 2 hrs. before her bedtime. The spanking she received after school, she did have to face the corner for thirty minutes. I will say that when she , one of them is getting her second spanking her bottom was still a bright pink, so it took no time for her bottom to go back to bright red. May I ask you your age? How often are you spanked? When was your last spanking? With five kids it seems I am spanking at least one or more during each week. Feel free to ask me questions if you have any. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Bobby711 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:11:58 11/01/25 Sat To Anna: Yes, I am almost 20 and still get spanked it seems 6 weeks plus or minus. I am very active in my Community College and tend to push the envelope on things. Lately my bedtime and sassiness have been problems. So, my last spanking was just last Thursday for being late to bed. Any other questions? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Bobby711 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:47:42 11/02/25 Sun Hi Anna, I just realized that I have to ask about your comment: Her first spanking she did not go to the corner but was sent straight to bed 2 hrs. before her bedtime. What time is her bedtime or what time was she sent to bed? In my situation, my bedtime is 9:30 and if my mom sent me to bed two hours early, that means I would be in bed at 7:30 pm. The earliest I am sent to bed is 8 pm or 8:30 usually. In my situation, would you send me to bed at 7:30? Thank you, Robert [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Anna to Bobby711 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:34:45 11/02/25 Sun Bobby, Her usual bedtime is 9:30, so it was 7:30 that night when she went to bed crying. Bobby, I have sent my kids to bed as early as 5:30pm after giving them a serious spanking. So, yes, I would have sent you to bed at 7:30 that night or earlier if your spanking was given to you earlier. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Bobby711 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:30:49 11/03/25 Mon Hi Anna, The last couple times I was sent to bed early, the time was 8 pm. Then again, my bedtime for a long time was 10 pm. Since then, my bedtime is now 9:30. So, I guess my mom could send me to bed early at 7:30. I do thank you for your responses to me. Then again, my mom does monitor my online activities and knows I post here; I am hoping though she does not see the response from you om this topic of early bedtime. If relatives or friends are over, would you still send to bed early? Also, when sent to bed early, I presume being able to get out of bed for bathroom and such is okay? Once in bed, is staying in bed until a certain time in the morning required. I have to stay in bed until 6 am, regardless. If I understand you correctly, if I was given a serious spanking like at 5:30, then I could conceivably be sent to bed at 5:30? That would be awful. Thank you [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think most kids are spanked over the knee? Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:19:30 10/28/25 Tue Why the two spankings for one offense? Were they different types of spankings, and did (dos) she know a second one was coming? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]