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Subject: Spanked friends


Author:
Sabrina
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Date Posted: 14:21:54 06/14/22 Tue

When I was 11, 12, 13 or thereabouts I always hung out with these two girls, they were twins, I was a year older than them. I thought it was SOOOO COOL that they got spanked. I got grounded or had things taken away and I hated it, and it just made me mad and I don't really think it improved my behavior.
We would be out riding our bikes or whatever and stop in at their house. Their mom would ask me to step out for a while or go home. The door would close and then I'd hear a spanking. A real spanking with smack smack smack and waah waah. Sometimes I would try to get a look in the window if I could and I could and I could partially see their butts getting red with a paddle, or maybe it was a brush.
After a while they would come out and we would play or ride our bikes or walk or whatever like nothing had ever happened. I was fascinated by this, obsessed might be a better way to put it. I'd watch them try to sit on their bikes and wonder how sore and red their butts might be.
The same went with sleepovers and we had sleepovers all the time.
I don't think we ever talked about it. They were probably too embarrassed that they got spanked and I was too embarrassed that I was so curious about it. I wished my mom would do that. I wanted so bad to know what getting a spanking was like. They were punished, it was over and done and we went back to what we were doing.

I just thought I'd pass that along.

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


Author:
Maddie
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Date Posted: 03:30:48 06/15/22 Wed

Cool story. I can kind of relate, although I never actually witnessed a girl getting spanked. I was never actually grounded either.

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Douglas
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Date Posted: 19:36:24 06/15/22 Wed

Sabrina,

I was also fascinated with (obsessed with) how other kids got spanked starting at about 10.

Unlike you, my parents spanked me plenty, which was something I was really embarrassed about. But at the same time, I was longing to know how other kids got spanked.. but I was always hesitant to press my friends for details because they would probably want to know about my spankings too. I was also afraid someone would realize I was obsessed with spanking.

There were also times when a friend would ask me what happened after I had gotten in trouble... To avoid having to admit that I had been spanked I would lie and say I was grounded for the weekend. But then I had to "ground" myself so my story made sense.

Yeah, it really sucked being obsessed with spanking and also super embarrassed by it at the same time.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Paul
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Date Posted: 02:41:26 07/01/22 Fri

I was exactly the same way Douglas, too afraid to ask about friends spankings because I was super embarrassed over getting them myself and didn't want the thought of spanking entering their minds while I couldn't get it out of mine!

It was best not to ask anyone because they'll no doubt say those fearful words "what about you?" and people forget how scary and embarrassing than can be at that age, it was very intense.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Grumpy
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Date Posted: 09:25:54 07/03/22 Sun

Another factor in others knowing from discussions I witnessed was older kids not wanting to admit they got over the knee spankings. I remember a 14 year old girl all dressed up like a grownup in skirt pantyhose and heels getting teased by her older sister that she still got spanked. The girl admitted it, but denied that she still “got it over the knee” like her little brother did. And guys would admit to bending over or lying down for the strap but not want to say they still went over their mom’s knee.

Have others noticed reluctance to admit or talk about aspects of their spankings?

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Douglas to Paul
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Date Posted: 09:42:58 07/01/22 Fri

When I was a teenager, I was sooo obsessed with thinking about spankings.

I got many painful and embarrassing spankings starting at about 10 and continuing until I was 15. My parents primarily spanked me with a folded leather belt...I always got spanked completely naked which my parents did deliberately because they knew how much it embarrassed me.

I often did things like arguing with my mother that I knew would get me spanked but I just couldn't help myself. I didn't like the spankings at the moment they were happening but afterwards, I'd replay the spanking over and over again in my mind while I masterbated.

But my biggest fear was when someone found out that I was still getting spankings from my parents... Sometimes it was because it happened when I had a friend over, sometimes it was because neighbor kids heard me crying and and sometimes I had to shower in PE class with obvious belt marks on my butt and thighs. The worst was when my mother would start talking with another mom about how I was disciplined...

I grew up in the 70s when spanking was much more common...does any of this sound familiar Paul? Tell me about your spankings if you will please?

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Paul to Douglas
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Date Posted: 06:10:32 01/05/24 Fri

I am so sorry Doug, I never noticed you asked this until now, even though it's been way over a year, I hope you end up seeing this somehow, better late than never I guess.

I had a similar experience to yours but I never tried to get spanked and didn't have any "fun" by myself after either.

I was mostly spanked by my mother growing up and sometimes my Dad. I'm not sure what was used most on me but I remember hating the hairbrush the most, it was even worse than the belt imo.

I also had those experiences in the school showers and would sometimes have a spanking overheard, however my parent's never spanked me while a friend was over, I knew better than to misbehave when they were there.

I also hated it most of all when Mom would talk to another Mom about how she disciplines me, I'm with you there, although you would often get to here then how other kids got it and that could be interesting, even more interesting next time you seen them.

My spanking's didn't have to be naked like yours, mine were bare bottom but I almost always had my clothes on (just bottoms around ankles), typically over the knee and that just added to the embarrassment but they weren't all like that especially when I got older, then it was more bending over stuff like the arm of the couch or placing my forearms on my bed and that kind of thing.

Sorry it took me more than a year Doug, my mistake.

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


Author:
Sandy
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Date Posted: 13:04:46 06/16/22 Thu

I witnessed my boyfriends college age sister get a paddling over her dad's knee on her bare bottom.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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spanking dad
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Date Posted: 14:01:21 07/07/22 Thu

Was she a brave girl or did she beg as knickers were lowered and kick and scream whilst paddled?

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


Author:
Unclebob
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Date Posted: 11:07:45 12/10/23 Sun

Was your BF there too? Had he seen her spankings before? Please add more details. How bare was she?Was there corner time?

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


Author:
Favors Spanking
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Date Posted: 18:38:33 06/16/22 Thu

Sandy,

Do you know what she was paddled for? How was she dressed? Were her panties just pulled down to her knees of off entirely?

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 21:15:22 06/16/22 Thu

All that time hanging out with them and you couldn't get any details? Like what they were getting spanked for, especially since it seems like they were spanked often. At least their mom didn't spank them out in the open like some horrible parents.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Sabrina
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Date Posted: 01:26:39 06/17/22 Fri

I knew that pushing for details would embarrass them. That's a lie. I knew that if I would push for details I would out myself of my secret interest (obsession).

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


Author:
Sabrina
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Date Posted: 01:49:42 06/17/22 Fri

Also, my 5th grade teacher had health problems so we had a frequent sub. She would often talk about spankings and one time said she got the switch. Even then I thought it was a little creepy, but still I listened uncomfortably with my legs nervously swinging back and forth creating a certain vibrating effect, if you catch my drift.

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Maddie
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Date Posted: 09:31:22 06/17/22 Fri

Oh yes, I definitely catch your drift. Most of my school days from grade school to university were spent knocking my knees together under my desk. A certain vibration indeed.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Dana
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Date Posted: 00:29:21 04/11/24 Thu

> I knew that pushing for details would embarrass them.
> That's a lie. I knew that if I would push for details I
> would out myself of my secret interest (obsession).

Yes, absolutely. Growing up I always wanted to know every detail when I heard someone got a spanking. My ears were open, but spankings were not talked about much because it was embarrassing, not just for the one who got it, but for me to listen to in public conversation. I did not ask the questions I wanted to ask because if anyone found out I was so fascinated by this most embarrassing subject, my shameful secret would be out.

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Steven
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Date Posted: 13:17:12 07/20/22 Wed

Did any of you actively desire to be spanked by a friends' parent or willingly try to be? I admith thinking about it all the time.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 13:24:40 07/20/22 Wed

Not that i recall, just a few teachers.
Did you ever witness them spank your friend?

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


Author:
Daniel (Experienced)
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Date Posted: 13:03:00 09/20/22 Tue

" ... The worst was when my mother would start talking with another mom about how I was disciplined...

I am much older and my teen years were during the 1950s.
In those days just about every child was spanked on occasion.
Some were public and others, usually girls, were in a closed bedroom. I remember several times after having done something wrong, mom called me to the kitchen or dining room to confront me right in the middle of one of her weekly book club or Canasta game meetings. This was before TVs became common, and most moms were housewives who would rotate the clique's meetings from house to house..
I'd be told to unbuckle my pants and step out of the leg. Then she'd say, "Off with the drawers." I'd sometimes beg for mercy. But eventually down the undies would come and I'd have to endure a short lecture about my crime while my tiny peepee was exposed.
Then, as you all might expect, I'd be over her knee and the spanking would start. Finally, I usually had to stand and turn away so they could see my heiney and its redness. Also probably I'd get fifteen minutes corner time.
If one of the other neighborhood kids, male or female, needed to ask their parents for something, they could come in and see my exposed genitals or behind. The reverse was also true as I saw most of the other kid in a similar situation and was fascinated by the sight of a playmate's heiney exposed over his parents lap and his testes squeezed and visible from the underside.
Once one of the neighbors heard me through a screened window. experimenting with some new colorful words . Words the older boys used and I actually did not know exactly the meanings.
Mrs Bochegalupe called me to her back porch and asked me if she should tell my mom. I begged her not to do that. It took a few minutes, but she agreed to do the spanking. I remember how fast and easily it was for her to have me half naked and spread over her lap. Later I learned that she had lost two sons during the war, so she really had plenty of experience. Somehow my mom heard about it and I got a second spanking. mAfter that she always seemed extra nice to me.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Steven
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Date Posted: 11:14:20 07/21/22 Thu

I heard a couple of spankings but never saw any unless you count school.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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SamH
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Date Posted: 16:24:24 09/23/22 Fri

I grew up in the 60s and was spanked by several
Of my friends moms and all spanked bare to tears. Being bared and spanked by them even at 15 somehow seemed normal.

One mom spanked differently and that excited and embarrassed me. Instead of just baring us she spanked us naked bent over the arm of a chair with a strap. But some how being naked before, during and after in the corner excited me enough so that I misbehaved on purpose to have her punish me.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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neale (Wow! what a shock)
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Date Posted: 13:29:00 04/10/24 Wed

I was staying over at my best friends' house We were 16+ nd he was a big strong football player. Dor verbal disrespect to his mom she ordered him to bring the paddle a d to bsre his butt and kneel on the ottoman (sp) bare butt up and she paddled him bare and damn hard he was a big guy with a big strong butt so she had plenty to work with! He took it well. Neither seemed to care or notice i was standing there.
Later that and he nad his mom were laughing and talking. evening everything was fine we all played cards WWWhen we went to bed she came in and rubbed lotion on his butt very kindly. I thought as developed as he was maybe he would not want his mom rubbing his bare butt--Quite to the contrary--he thanked her

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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SamH
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Date Posted: 23:25:36 10/15/22 Sat

I grew up in the 60s and I was spanked be several of my friends moms. All the moms spanked bare bottom.and had no problem spanking me up until age 16.

One mom was different in that she spanked us naked with a leather strap. Somehow being naked was much worse than being bared, but I admit I misbehaved at her house to have her spank me.

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


Author:
peter (Sabrina)
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Date Posted: 05:45:01 07/21/22 Thu

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Grumpy
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Date Posted: 11:51:21 07/21/22 Thu

In discussions with friends did you find that parents in your circle, neighborhood, spanked more or less the same way, as to position, baring, which parent was worse, etc?

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Tanie
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Date Posted: 18:45:21 07/24/22 Sun

i am 14 and still spanked mostly by my stepdad who spanks me pretty often about once or twice a week but i do like to talk about it with other girls who are also spanked

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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 22:08:09 08/27/22 Sat

Why are you spanked so often?

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Lea
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Date Posted: 19:53:10 08/27/22 Sat

Hi Tanie,
Please tell us how he spanks you, in details.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Tanie
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Date Posted: 17:59:53 09/01/22 Thu

It is not so often.
We are talking about my regular or maintenance spankings.
He spanks me over his lap, with hand.
Before spanking I usually must take off my panties for myself and to lay over his lap.
He usually spanks me very firm, not so fast, about 5 min.
After a proper spanking my ass is very red, warm and sore.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Maddie
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Date Posted: 07:19:15 09/04/22 Sun

O.k., let me get this straight. You are 14, your step-dad punishes you and also gives you maintenance spankings...

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Rainy
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Date Posted: 17:49:43 09/25/22 Sun

What a fantasy

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Tanie
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Date Posted: 15:25:27 09/04/22 Sun

You are right.
But I am pretty okay with that.

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Maddie
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Date Posted: 14:48:00 09/05/22 Mon

Of course you are.

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Tanie
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Date Posted: 17:44:28 09/16/22 Fri

Are you okay with regular spankings?

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Dee
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Date Posted: 01:53:27 12/11/23 Mon

Today as a mom I talk with other moms and my kids friends are spanked too.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Unclebob
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Date Posted: 16:44:17 12/14/23 Thu

How much detail do you and the other moms go into? How much do you tell them about your spanking process? Does it mortify your children if they hear the discussion?

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Anna
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Date Posted: 02:37:14 12/11/23 Mon

When my kids were of grade school age, their friends' parents and I had an agreement if our child needed a spanking while at their house, it was given. Today they are all teenagers, that agreement is still in effect.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Deb
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Date Posted: 02:57:05 12/15/23 Fri

Same agreement here and stands as teens too.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 08:22:31 12/15/23 Fri

How often has anyone actually spanked someone else's teen? I would think that such a spanking would be rare and noticed big time. If one happened, what were the comments about it?

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Anna to Alfred22
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Date Posted: 04:09:33 12/16/23 Sat

It is rare that I still spank one of my teen's friends, but it still happens. this year I spanked 3 teen girls and 3 teen boys. all spankings were with one of my teens.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 06:08:08 12/28/23 Thu

You seem to be a fun mother and I would suspect that your house, being so full, would be wildly popular with other teens. I also believe guests are keenly aware of your spanking policy:

Misbehave HERE, Get Spanked HERE!

Do you get any resistance from guests? I would doubt it, at least for the first three licks! Then when they realize that it is for real, things might get a bit animated!

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Corrected
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Date Posted: 16:51:41 04/10/24 Wed

Can I come live with you?

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked friends


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Laura
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Date Posted: 05:33:42 12/21/23 Thu

A group of my baby brothers friends were discussing life when one girl admitted she never remembered being smacked. The others tormented her for being a spoiled brat but she was the only one in a mixed group of about a dozen who didn't openly admit it still happened. I'd never have admitted it happened to me at that age. I was bad enough they'd assume it used to happen to me. Thankfully no one discussed how they were smacked.
They were all 15 or 16 and this would have been about 2006. We live outside of London.
A bit later the NSPCC published a report and were outraged that nearly half of teenagers have been hit as a punishment in the last year. My brother laughed. If it was based on my friends it would be 100%.

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