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Date Posted: 21:54:30 09/24/23 Sun
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Emmie Sue
's message, "Re: Thea" on 16:02:13 09/21/23 Thu
I'm still sick, so my brain is a little foggy and I'm a little cranky, but I'm also bored and I napped so much during the day I can't sleep right now. I'm going to write the long reply now, but I expect you to keep that in mind while reading it.
We're not talking about Berryblue. We're talking about you, and there's no point trying to hide how naughty you are. I already know you're not a perfect angel.
I'm not sure if you're being purposefully obtuse or if you really didn't understand my original comment. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. If you needed a few quick swats, it would be with you standing up, over your jeans (or other bottoms). If you did something that warranted an actual spanking, rather than some warning swats, we would go up to your bedroom. In that case, I would pull your pants down myself and then guide you across my lap. If you weren't comfortable having your panties down at all, we wouldn't have to press the issue--I'm certainly capable of making you regret your behavior with a thin layer of cotton between your bottom and my implement of choice. However, there are two main ways to get over something that makes you uncomfortable. Ease into it, or go full-throttle (in a safe environment). Personally, I'm a fan of the latter, but I wouldn't force that upon you because forcing someone into a situation they're uncomfortable with without their consent heightens the anxiety going forward.
You certainly wouldn't get away with avoiding chores at my house. For the first week or two, I would give you verbal reminders if you'd forgotten to do something. If you obeyed immediately, that would be fine. If you disobeyed or backchatted, I'd swat you. After the first week or so, I would expect you to remember on your own or have your own system set up to remind you. If you needed help creating a system, I would help you create to-do lists or set up phone alarm reminders, or something like that.
At that point, if you didn't have a chore done at the appropriate time and didn't ask permission to do it late, you would get spanked. My standards on room tidiness aren't that strict. If trash is in the bin, dirty laundry is in its basket, there's no food in the room, and you don't have to watch where you're stepping, it's fine. I don't mind if clean clothes aren't immediately put away if they're out of the way and I don't mind if your desk is covered in paper if you're not losing things.
It does need to be clean. You'd need to vacuum it regularly and there should never be any odor or bugs. I'm very strict on not leaving food in bedrooms. While I eat in my room sometimes, you would have to earn the privilege to snack in yours.
I'm also not happy about the dishonesty, Emmie Sue. I expect you to consider what you're saying to me and whether it's accurate. Don't try to sugarcoat things or make yourself look better. Lying is not acceptable.
"I do have a habit of getting assignments in late. I'm pretty good with all my teachers, so I can persuade them to give me an extension" is what I meant at the beginning of my message. You're very naughty. You should be doing your work on time, not relying on your ability to "persuade" your teachers to give you an extension.
If you think the rules I've listed count as a "lot", I'm a little concerned about what standards you set for yourself. Spankings wouldn't be the first resort for behavior management, but if you needed it, yes, you'd be over my knee three times a day. That wouldn't last long, though, I'm sure. I'd whip you into shape.
I'm not sure how accurate it is to not be able to sit comfortably afterward. The most I've managed on myself is a little discomfort for like five minutes. You'd certainly find out, though. :) (Read that smile as a little threatening, because it is.)
Is your stove gas or electric? I'm very sceptical of the claim that it wasn't your fault a fire started.
If you misbehaved in front of your friend, and I didn't know whether this friend was aware of your arrangement with me, I would whisper in your ear to go to your room and stand in the corner. I would make some kind of excuse to your friend and send them home with some leftovers. I would make you wait in the corner for a while, then give you a good, hard spanking. You would be punished harder than you would have if you had misbehaved in front of only me, because it would be disrespectful to your friend to ruin their night over.
If they did know about your arrangement and had previously consented to witness your punishments, I would send you to the corner of the dining room instead, and your friend and I would finish eating while you stood there. Then, I would tell them you were going to get a good spanking and ask if they wanted to watch.
If they did, they'd be invited to the living room, where they could sit on the armchair while I sat on the couch. I'd call you into the room and send you to get the implement of my choice, then spank you in front of them.
If you and your friend both misbehaved, it would again depend on whether they were aware of the arrangement. If they weren't, I would probably tell them that I wouldn't allow them in my house if they were going to make those kind of choices. If they were aware, I would give them a warning that if the behavior didn't stop, they would have to choose between being banned from my house and being spanked.
Cornertime would be with your pants down. It would be okay if you fidgeted, but the fact that you "really can't stand to be in one spot for too long" means it would be an effective punishment.
Mouthsoaping isn't just about the taste. I mean, soap tastes worse when your mouth is being washed out than if you just accidentally get a little bit in your mouth, but that's not the main factor. It's about the vulnerability and the active acceptance of your punishment. You have to keep your mouth open even as your mouth is being scrubbed, even though it's uncomfortable.
Also, you don't want to swallow the soap, so you'll end up drooling. After a few minutes, the soap starts to sting, too.
Hot sauce was one of my mother's preferred methods for dealing with my younger siblings' backchat or potty mouths. She tried it once on me and I asked for more. Actually, that reminds me of why I didn't get spanked as often as them--she likes to tell this story of a time she tried to spank me, and I just started laughing, and no matter how hard she spanked me, I wouldn't stop laughing. Apparently that happened a few times, and then she gave up.
There would be no point in using it to avoid taking responsibility for your actions, but it wouldn't be entirely useless. And if you were being spanked for fun rather than actual punishment, you'd be allowed to use it without having to take a second spanking later. But, I'd like to think I'll be able to tell if you're getting close to a completely overwhelmed point where you might want to safeword and change up the pacing or intensity of the swats in order to help you ride it out.
If you wanted to experience a "real" punishment spanking, the sort with no possible safeword where you go past what you think you can handle and is completely overwhelming and unbearable in the moment, that's something we would be able to do after getting to know each other better first. I think the main thing that keeps an event like that from being traumatizing would be the aftercare and talking through it to process it afterwards.
The one I got wasn't that expensive. It wasn't cheap, but it wasn't the nearly-a-grand versions. It's the "spanker machine" which was about $165. It's no louder than any other spanking and it's compact and discreet. It fits in a drawer when I'm not using it. Having to move around to get good coverage is a definite drawback, though. But if you look it up, you can see videos of the machine being used--it's pretty intense.
My students are 11-13. I'm not going to discuss them here. I know some people here discuss fantasies rather than reality, so their lines are different and I'm not mad at you for asking, but I'm not going to talk about my students on a forum some people use for gratification.
All of the aids/paras I've had have been older than me. None of them have had crushes on me, to my knowledge, and I wouldn't describe any of them as "dimwits". Indeed, I wouldn't describe anyone as a dimwit. That's the kind of attitude that would get you a spanking if you were at my house. Other people's bad behavior doesn't give you the right to insult them. I also have never wanted to spank anyone I've worked with. My spanking fetish stays firmly separate from my professional life.
... I did have customers who I wanted to thrash, back when I worked at a grocery store, but I think that's different because I wasn't in a position of authority.
"Does that mean that besides being a disciplinarian that you would also desire to be spanked?"
I tend to tell people I'm 90/10 dom/sub but 60/40 top/bottom. I'm more interested in the masochistic side of being spanked than I am in the psychological aspect, though there are a few fantasies where that plays a role. It would take a very specific sort of person for me to let them actually have control of spanking me. I'd rather have a submissive service top spank me exactly as I commanded them to.
This reply took me over an hour and a half to write. I just checked how many words it is, and it's apparently about 1750, so that makes sense.
... I could win NaNoWriMo if I typed something like this post every day. LOL.
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