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Subject: relationship with parents Author: Martin [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 23:09:59 12/24/23 Sun I have read the messages here for quite a few years and I've noticed that people (mainly girls) who are older and are still spanked often say: "I have a very good relationship with my mom." When spanking has resumed after a time then the comment might be "my relationship with my parents has improved a lot." It strikes a chord with me because I hated my beltings growing up but deep down actually felt I deserved them. And I think I respected my parents for undertaking what had, for them, to be a very unpleasant task. Is that how others feel about it? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: O.H.M. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:46:15 12/25/23 Mon The reason you see posts and comments mainly from girls is because the forum is called "Sometimes A GIRL Needs A Spanking" and focuses on females spanked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Uncle Bob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:56:06 12/25/23 Mon Martin, as a dad of two teenage girls, 17 and 14, and a boy, 10, I think the girls do go thru something similar to waht oyu describe -- but they go thru it each time they get a spanking. They are very upset at the beginning of their spanking, especially if their little brother is in the room, or other family. We do insist on complete nudity, and that can bring out the moans and pleas for modesty, and I can see some resentment furrow their brows. But once we've had the chat, and they admit what they did, it is easy to get them over my lap. and by the time their spanking is over they aren't concerned at all with who has seen their bare bottoms and all the rest. They just want to get the fire out! After ward, either after corner tiem or in their rooms they get hugs and kisses and they feel like you do, knowing they deserve it and feeling much better after. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:29:58 12/27/23 Wed My relationship with my parents is far from good. And the humiliating spankings I got from them is the main reason. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:17:50 12/28/23 Thu I was never spanked and my relationship with my parents were not good. I made it a point of "having to work" over the Christmas holidays. I took care of them financially in their old age because I recognized that they tried, they were just so unhealthy both physically and emotionally that they could barely take care of themselves let alone their kids. I actually think my Mom was a spanko but my Dad was opposed to it so it never happened. I am sure if I had gotten spanked I would be part of the anti-spanking bandwagon. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:45:22 12/29/23 Fri JenniAnn, I'm with you. I harbor resentments against my strict religious parents, not just because they spanked me, but the spankings I got were WAY too humiliating. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Marek [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:34:56 12/29/23 Fri Marsha, I have re-posted one of my stories here, The Bear Behind, which is, among other things, about this exact problem. You might like it :) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:59:16 01/05/24 Fri Hi Marsha, thanks for agreeing. May I ask what you found most humiliating about your spankings? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:57:34 01/08/24 Mon Bob, I remember being spanked along with my boy cousin when I was 14 and he was 13. Definitely didn't get to "hide" anything below my waist. Your daughters also? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:00:06 01/06/24 Sat Back then I just accepted being spanked because it was part of growing up in my family and church. All the kids in my family/church got spankings. Not every kid I knew got spanked bare bottom but my step sister and I AWAYS got bare bottomed spankings. By the time I was 11 I got very embarrassed when my panties were pulled down. And I alway felt so ashamed at being a teenager in high school STILL punished pants down. But most humiliating was definitely being spanked in front of people. My step sister, aunts/uncles/cousins all saw me bared and bawling. Plus, mom could really make me blush/cringe with the ritual of baring me, scolding me with my panties down etc. I still get uncomfortable remembering and haven'f "forgiven" my parents to this point. Yourself? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Uncle Bob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:02:53 01/06/24 Sat Hi, Marsha. I"m sorry to hear of the way things worked out for you and your sister. Was your mom of the belief that you had "nothing to hide" when a spanking was due? What age did she spak you to if there were witnesses there? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:39:52 01/10/24 Wed Quite similar to you. Where I grew up spanking was not very common, especially not in the teens. And being placed over the knees and feeling your panties being pulled down for a bare bottom spanking was extremely humiliating in my teens. I think that the fact that I had complex for my big bottom could have played a role in the degree of humiliation i felt. Also the fact that I was crying and kicking of the knees like a 6 year old although I was 15-16 was very humilating, not only embarrassing. I was never spanked bare bottom in front of anyone outside family though. Being spanked bare bottom in front of othe relatives, or worse, friends, would have been humiliating beyond belief. I would have died of shame. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:30:24 01/14/24 Sun JenniAnn, Yes, that awful feeling of being in high school and thinking I was the only girl still being spanked. Probably not true but I sure never talked to my friends about MY spankings and neither did they. I was never spanked in front of friends - that does sound horrible! - I don't think my friends knew I got spanked past 14. And yes, impossible NOT to be self-conscious about your bottom size - big or small - as ALL attention is on your BARE bottom sticking up to be spanked! I hated knowing my buns would be glowing red hot and OMG - humiliation is the right word for how I wiggled squealed kicked and screamed. And for you in front of your parents and sister? I hope you weren't spanked too often - my spankings weren't too frequent but MUCH more often than I wanted. Plus, there was just constant awareness that I was "a spanked girl" and that any given day I could end up with my panties being pulled down - pleading not to get spanked! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:54:51 01/16/24 Tue I was never spanked in front of anyone outside the family. It was embarrassing being spanked in front of sis but I saw many of her spankings as well so I didn't this as too bad. However, they found out at HS that I still got spanked and I got teased and bullied for that. And that they knew, well, try to imgaine how you would have felt. I got spanked way too often and many times I hadn't committed the crime I was spanked for. I told previously that I'm sure both mom and dad enjoyed spanking our bare bottoms. I remember the time I saw my dad spank my sisters bare bottom over his knees as hard and fast as he could and he was literally grinning while he was starring at her bouncing buttocks while he was spanking. I got so scared and horrified realizing he probably did the same when he was spanking me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:15:17 01/14/24 Sun Uncle Bob Yes Bob, mom didn't allow any covering-up when my panties were pulled down. I was 14 the last time I got spanked in front of extended family. My stepsister saw m spanked until my last spanking at 17. You believe in full exposure when you spank? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Sue (UK) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:14:09 12/30/23 Sat My relationship with my parents is not good - and my relationship with my daughter is a wreck (something I despair of, for a certain part of every day). In both cases, corporal punishment is the main reason why. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:02:06 01/05/24 Fri I am sorry to hear that, not at least that your relationship with your daughter is that poor. So many claims that spankings are not harmful but I guess it depends much on how the spankings were executed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: ZXC [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:06:23 01/15/24 Mon I barely have any relationship with my parents now. A lot of the distance between us does come from their spankings and beatings, but there were other things too. A lot of my upbringing was not good. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Allison to Marsha and JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:15:31 01/15/24 Mon I'm 16 and I am also a "spanked girl". My spankings are not always on the bare but they are all bad and OMG yes, embarrassing and shameful. Trust me none of my friends know about my spankings either. If that ever got out I would just die. I'm not saying that I resent my parents for disciplining me but it is terribly embarrassing. The one thing I can say is that it does motivate me to try and avoid it. My parents also do not spank for every little thing but when it's decided that a spanking is due I am instantly in tears and begging and pleading. It's worse when they decide that I will be punished on the bare. Like JenniAnn I have a full plump and in my opinion, oversized bottom and I'm sensitive about that. So, my spankings are carried out with a large wooden paddle. Its very much like the paddles used at school. My school does paddle students but my parents have opted me out. They do not want anyone else but them disciplining me like that. However, any trouble at school is an automatic paddling on the bare that night. I get paddled two ways. If it's over clothes it's in the kitchen leaning up against the counter with my hands grasping the counter and my big bottom sticking out. Dad lays that paddle across my butt and trust me that paddle burns right through a tight pair of jeans and panties. By the second swat I am bawling pleading and begging just like you guys were. It's even worse on the bare because now I am naked from the waist down and dad is paddling my plump oversized bottom on the bare. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:58:27 01/16/24 Tue I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. I sincerely hope you will not be affected as I did. I never felt motivated to behave. I was scared to death for misbehaving and that's different. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Allison to JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:35:44 01/16/24 Tue Dear JenniAnn, I have read some of your posts and I feel bad for you. I wish your relationship with your parents was better. I do feel very similiar to how you did when I am going to be spanked. I had a very embarrassing spanking last week that I will remember for a long time. I got it in the kitchen over clothes so it wasn't bare thank God but my uncle was visiting. He heard the entire paddling which was embarrassing and shameful. Then later at dinner he had to make some nice comments to me like well Allison your dad really put that paddle to your behind didn't he. I sure hope you learned your lesson Allison. I was on the verge of tears and just wanted to DIE. Mom and dad kept eating and didn't say anything. Oh yeah mom had a nice cushion on my chair for me to sit my well spanked big bottom on for dinner. More embarrassment. I admit that I probably deserved the spanking. I was being an absolute brat to my mom and I feel bad about that but getting it with my uncle there. I mean how shameful. Thank God at least I was dressed but still!!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Allison (Again) to JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:56:55 01/16/24 Tue Dear JenniAnn, I just saw your post about how your dad spanked your sister. I think that is just awful. I feel so bad for both of you knowing that he actually enjoyed making your bottoms bounce while he spanked. Sometimes I turn my head and I see dad's expression while he is applying the paddle. I assume my bottom ripples and bounces when he paddles me especially when it's on my bare. I have to admit when I have seen dad's expression he is not smiling. He looks very serious. His eyes are glued to my bottom. I have to look away when he is going to apply the paddle. I hope he isn't enjoying it. I don't think so. That's not what he says when he finishes. He huggs me, tells me they love me and that he wishes I would not have done whatever I did to get spanked. We talk later after I have calmed down about how I will avoid a spanking for that offense in the future. It's still horribly embarrassing and the last time I got it with my uncle there it was awful but I don't think my parents enjoy it. BTW I found out that my mom told my uncle off (her brother) for saying what he said at dinner. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:39:31 01/18/24 Thu Dear Allison, My last parental spanking happened many years ago but I am still affected by them. I do get spanked by my husband (both for punishment and sexual, also as therapy) but this is what I want to experience. I understand how embarrassing you find the spankings but I sincerely hope you will not be negatively affected by them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Allison to JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:10:33 01/18/24 Thu Dear JenniAnn, My parents are strict but also ver loving. I know they are just doing what they think is best for me. I think if they enjoyed it mom wouldn't have scolded my uncle like she did. I can honestly say that I have no desire to be spanked. I came here mainly because I wanted to see if there were other girls who are spanked for punishment like me. I did read in one of your posts that you were made fun of at school because you were still spanked as a teen. How on earth did anyone at school even find out. I mean if that happened to me I would DIE!!! You didn't tell anyone did you? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:13:59 01/18/24 Thu I told this in another thread, don't remember which one. Anyway, there were lot of talk about an upcoming party and who was going to be there. Someone asked if I was coming but I said no as I knew I wouldn't be allowed to go. Then this girl says with a very babyish voice "She is so afraid that her mommy is going to spank her" which of course everyone thought was funny. Now I think she only joked as I have no idea how she would know, but I got the shock of my life which everyone noticed. And I felt my face getting redder than my ass after a spanking. And then, from my reactions, everyone understood that this was true. And couple started to yell "She still gets spanked, she still gets spanked, JenniAnn still gets spanked!". I couldn't stop the tears and I ran away crying. This is how they found out. You can probably imagine how I felt. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Allison to JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:35:29 01/18/24 Thu Oh JenniAnn I can't even imagine such a thing. I am sooo sorry for you. That must have just been hell. So, you thought that somehow they actually knew. Yes, your reaction probably gave it away. I am so sorry. Yes I can imagine how you felt. THere is no way anyone could ever find out that I am spanked unless I told but still. That is a nightmare that I have had more than once that everyone at school knows I get paddled. Then I wake up crying. OMG you actually had it happen. How could you even go to school the next day. WEre you still teased. Again I am so sorry. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:18:09 01/21/24 Sun Yes I was teased for a while. I was teased and bullied before for other things so this came on the top of everything else. I had one friend who stood up for me and wanted to talk to me about the spankings I got but I could never do that. This haunted me for quite awhile. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Allison to JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:38:19 01/24/24 Wed Dear JenniAnn, Sorry for the delay in getting back. That was nice of your friend. I assume it was a girl? I'm sorry you were bullied too. Some kids at school are just mean. I just try and avoid them. My parents are strict like yours and at my age I would never be allowed to go to a party. My parents say they know what goes on and so no way am I allowed. I also think I would die if another girl said I was afraid my mommy would spank me. I think I would also blush then they would all know. You seem sensitive and caring. I bet you have a big heart. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:16:57 01/26/24 Fri Thanks, yes it was a girl who comforted me and stood up for me. The boys had a lot of fun and they started to slap my bottom and sometimes grab it while commenting on imagine this fat bottom being spanked. I hope I have a big heart, I try at least. :-) Just curious, what brings you to this site with mainly spankos (including myself, while I sincerely hope no teenage girl should have same experience I had I can't help getting excited hearing about it.). When I was your age it would never have occurred to me but after age of 18 I got more and more excited to hear about other girls being spanked and I also started to love getting spanked by boyfriends. Does it excite you to hear about other girls getting spanked bare bottom or do you have thoughts of getting spanked by someone else beside your parents? You don't need to answer, I am just curious. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Caren [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:59:26 02/21/24 Wed JenniAnn, I have similar spanking experiences. I hope you don't mind but I noticed part of your dread of being bare bottom spanked was being self-conscious about the size of your bottom? All spanked teens hate having their bare buns exposed but if you already felt sensitive about the shape of your behind it must have been extra embarrassing. Frankly, for me it was my pubic hair. I'm a full Irish lass, red hair pale skin and too many freckles. As a teen, I had a thick, curly pubic patch that was carrot orange - I kid you not. So bare bottom spankings meant my panties pulled down to expose my "special" red bush - while my white face turned six shades of scarlet, especially in front of people. I would blush thinking about my "freaky" carrot crotch and who saw it. Not as bad for me, I guess, as only people who saw me spanked knew about my "secret" between my legs. But for you having an ample backside is public knowledge? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Caren [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:03:41 02/22/24 Thu Hi Caren, I think this is at least partly true. Yes, I was very sensitive to my bottom, and actually it was not only about the size but it was also anything but firm. Even at 14 I would feel how it jiggled when I walked, not to mention if I ran (if so I would feel my cheeks continue to run for another 5 seconds after I stopped, ok a little bit exaggerating but I hope you know what I mean). And I got comments in school both about its size and also that it jiggled. So that alone was a big issue for me. And then in HS when I found out that I still got spanked, OMG, I wanted to die. I think the shame of still being spanked was the largest shame but I knew they would associate me being spanked with my big bottom so that contributed for sure to my shame but I think the fact that I still got spanked was the worsed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Caren [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:07:17 02/25/24 Sun JenniAnn, People, guys mostly, can be so rude/mean about our bodies! All of us have felt those "ugly" eyes on us and we know we are being judged for our looks. Especially bad in high school years with fashion a thing and it must not have been easy to find clothes that didn't show your behind wobbling. Must have been difficult in PE when you had to literally run etc, And people found out you still got spanked? No wonder when you caught your classmates staring at your behind you imagined them picturing you getting spanked. I don't recall anyone in my high school knowing I got spankings, but absolutely people in our church knew - most of us got spanked. As I said, at least my body "issue" was between my legs, so not on public display like your backside. But I also knew my Irish complexion meant my face and bottom would get RED during my spankings. It' almost family lore how my MANY freckles would "disappear" when my panties came down as my face flushed bright scarlet. Just like the freckles on my bare butt (yes, there too!) would instantly be covered in apple red hand or spoon spanks. At that point, my flaming red pubic patch didn't matter compared to my flaming red buns! But, yes, the shame/humiliation of being bare bottom spanked aa a teenager stays with you, for sure. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Allison to Jenni Ann [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:46:03 01/26/24 Fri Dear JenniAnn, That must have been awful what the boys did. You seem like a very nice person. What brought me here was some research. I started wondering if I was alone in still getting spanked at my age. So with google stuff isn't that hard to find. I also found a forum called Quroa which has a lot of posts from teens like me who are still getting spanked. What really shocked me was there were older people still getting it. So yes I became curious. Then I found the Voy forums and then this one. I saw the relationship with parents thread and thought that was interesting. I started reading some of the posts and really was attracted to you because I also have a big plump bottom and dad uses a large wooden paddle. I don't get it otk like you did but I'm still very embarrassed and ashamed when I earn a spanking. I read about you watching your dad spanking your sister and I was also horrified. I almost wish I hadn't seen that because I started thinking do mom and dad enjoy spanking me. OMG I HOPE NOT!!!!!!! I sure don't enjoy it. Yes I'm curious to read how other teens get it as well. I really find it hard to understand why some parents would make their kids undress completely for a spanking. What does being topless have to do with getting spanked on your bottom? If anything those posts at least assure me that my situation could be worse. I don't have a boyfriend but from my experience at home no I don't think I want anyone spanking me. It's bad enough at home. It really burns, makes me cry and beg like a little girl and it's alltogether embarrassing as hell. I don't know that I would say excited but it does interest me to read how other girls get it. I think it helps me deal with how I get it at home and to know that I'm not alone helps. BTW I enjoy talking to you a lot. Allie. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:38:23 01/30/24 Tue Dear Allison, Be careful with Quora, I was there for a short while and there are som many fakers there that wants to give the impression they are teen girls still getting spanked. Only a handful seems credible. I am sure you are not alone but I hope it is not too common. I was also shocked to see how many that advocates bare bottom spankings as hard as possible, in front of anyone, and similar that I hope they are not real parents rather only perverts. But a few seems indeed genuine. Given that you don't get spanked that frequently I don't think your parents necessarily would enjoy spanking you but I think you could ask if you could keep panties on at least. It will hurt as much but perhaps remove some humiliation. Yes, I agree, why would some parents insists the kids to be nude? That is sadistic and I can only see that they want to humiliate the kid. I get punishment spankings from my husband that are just as hard as the parental ones (with my consent, I do agree to it) but I also get spanked across his knees as foreplay and being and those spankings are considerably less hard but still stings. But OMG, do I love that!! Those spankings are truly wonderful (to me). So there are many aspects on what a spanking can be. I enjoy talking with you too, you seem to be a sweet girl and I hope you will not be too affected by the spankings you still get. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Allison to JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:43:21 01/30/24 Tue Dear JenniAnn, I did see some weird stuff on Quroa and have since stopped going there. THere were a few posts from girls that did seem ligit to me. As far as enjoying it no, I don't think they enjoy it either. I don't get spanked for every little thing and there have even been times when dad tried to talk mom down from a spanking she wanted for me. So yes, if he wanted to spank me why would he do that. I don't know if I bothered to mention this on this forum or not but I sometimes do get paddled over clothing. My Uncle was visiting the last time I got it over my jeans and panties. Only for serious offenses like anything at school and then it's on my bare nude from waist down. However they are all embarrassing and shameful and btw that paddle burns right through my jeans and panties and has me bawling just as hard. I have read that you now get spanked for punishment but also pleasure by your husband. Obviously I have no experience with that. My spankings are not at all enjoyable but neither were yours when you were my age. I believe that my parents are doing what they think is right and as much as I hate getting it I have seen girls and boys at school who's parents obviously don't care what they do and deep down I'm glad my parents are not like that. So hopefully if I am affected it will be in a good way. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Carly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:10:33 01/20/24 Sat When I was 14 I got spanked at my Aunt's house. I know my younger cousin heard because my bare bottomed spankings were LOUD!. Facing her after she heard me bawling was very humbling even though I knew she got spankings she was only 12 - so me being a teenager STILL being bare bottomed spanked was VERY embarrassing. The next day in middle school I noticed my cousin's friends staring at me a giggling. Later that day my best friend shyly warned me that people were talking about "what happened to you yesterday." She was nice enough to say out loud that got spanked but I knew what she meant and I was mortified! And confused cuz I just wanted to forget my spanking and didn't want to TALK about being spanked with anyone - not even my mother so I couldn't bring myself to complain that my cousin had told her friends that she heard me get spanked. It took over a week before I stopped feeling the like center of attention at school with "everyone" talking about my spanking and I never knew if my cousin said anything about me being bare bottomed or any details - which really bothered me.never knowing what she told people! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Allison to Carly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:44:21 01/24/24 Wed Dear Carly, That must have been awful finding out that everyone knew about your spanking. It was nice that your friend did not come right out and say spanking but I know you knew what she meant. OMG I would have DIED!!!!!! I can only imagine how long it would take for that horrible feeling to go away. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Carly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:15:02 01/25/24 Thu Allison, thanks it was embarrassing. I'm glad you got that my friend did NOT mention "spanking" - didn't write that so good. Even after all these years I still get flustered remembering how I felt when I realized "everyone" was whispering about me being spanked. I ran to the bathroom, hid and cried a little. But actually that specific shame never REALLY goes away. Probably like with your uncle, no? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Allison to Carley [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:50:45 01/26/24 Fri Dear Carley, I think what you went through was worse than me. In your case the whole school knew or at least a lot of people did. In my case it was just my Uncle and he's not going around telling anyone. Still, no the feeling doesn't go away. I just wanted to crawl into a hole and die when he said what he did at dinner. Thank God it wasn't on my bare but still horribly embarrassing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Sue (UK) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:59:59 01/22/24 Mon In a word, no. Whatever I may sometimes say publically, with either my "scientific" or "parental" personae alter egos on, to explain the punishments I received in childhood - in truth I do not believe they were justifiable and I will always resent my parents for imposing them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: ts92 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:31:41 01/26/24 Fri My sister and I were both spanked by our mom while we were growing up.Even as teenagers we would at times find ourselves panties down getting bare spanked by mom. Now here we are in our 30s and we have a great relationship with mom and dad. Mom used to say she never decided to spank us, it was us who decided by our behavior. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Mother Elena [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:27:32 02/26/24 Mon Regular spankings can improve all kind of relations between mother and her daughter. Spankings can also increase the feeling of intimacy between them and to make very strong lifelong bonds between them. When I was over my mom's lap and felt her strong hand on my ass, in front of my sisters, I always had an extraordinary experience. Me and my sisters were spanked together and we were and we still are very close to each other. We talk about spanking memories very often. I have 2 daughters and I spank them regularly, almost on the same way I was spanked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]