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Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Marsha [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 20:45:22 12/29/23 Fri In reply to: Martin 's message, "relationship with parents" on 23:09:59 12/24/23 Sun JenniAnn, I'm with you. I harbor resentments against my strict religious parents, not just because they spanked me, but the spankings I got were WAY too humiliating. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Marek [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:34:56 12/29/23 Fri Marsha, I have re-posted one of my stories here, The Bear Behind, which is, among other things, about this exact problem. You might like it :) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:59:16 01/05/24 Fri Hi Marsha, thanks for agreeing. May I ask what you found most humiliating about your spankings? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:57:34 01/08/24 Mon Bob, I remember being spanked along with my boy cousin when I was 14 and he was 13. Definitely didn't get to "hide" anything below my waist. Your daughters also? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:00:06 01/06/24 Sat Back then I just accepted being spanked because it was part of growing up in my family and church. All the kids in my family/church got spankings. Not every kid I knew got spanked bare bottom but my step sister and I AWAYS got bare bottomed spankings. By the time I was 11 I got very embarrassed when my panties were pulled down. And I alway felt so ashamed at being a teenager in high school STILL punished pants down. But most humiliating was definitely being spanked in front of people. My step sister, aunts/uncles/cousins all saw me bared and bawling. Plus, mom could really make me blush/cringe with the ritual of baring me, scolding me with my panties down etc. I still get uncomfortable remembering and haven'f "forgiven" my parents to this point. Yourself? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Uncle Bob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:02:53 01/06/24 Sat Hi, Marsha. I"m sorry to hear of the way things worked out for you and your sister. Was your mom of the belief that you had "nothing to hide" when a spanking was due? What age did she spak you to if there were witnesses there? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:39:52 01/10/24 Wed Quite similar to you. Where I grew up spanking was not very common, especially not in the teens. And being placed over the knees and feeling your panties being pulled down for a bare bottom spanking was extremely humiliating in my teens. I think that the fact that I had complex for my big bottom could have played a role in the degree of humiliation i felt. Also the fact that I was crying and kicking of the knees like a 6 year old although I was 15-16 was very humilating, not only embarrassing. I was never spanked bare bottom in front of anyone outside family though. Being spanked bare bottom in front of othe relatives, or worse, friends, would have been humiliating beyond belief. I would have died of shame. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:30:24 01/14/24 Sun JenniAnn, Yes, that awful feeling of being in high school and thinking I was the only girl still being spanked. Probably not true but I sure never talked to my friends about MY spankings and neither did they. I was never spanked in front of friends - that does sound horrible! - I don't think my friends knew I got spanked past 14. And yes, impossible NOT to be self-conscious about your bottom size - big or small - as ALL attention is on your BARE bottom sticking up to be spanked! I hated knowing my buns would be glowing red hot and OMG - humiliation is the right word for how I wiggled squealed kicked and screamed. And for you in front of your parents and sister? I hope you weren't spanked too often - my spankings weren't too frequent but MUCH more often than I wanted. Plus, there was just constant awareness that I was "a spanked girl" and that any given day I could end up with my panties being pulled down - pleading not to get spanked! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: JenniAnn to Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:54:51 01/16/24 Tue I was never spanked in front of anyone outside the family. It was embarrassing being spanked in front of sis but I saw many of her spankings as well so I didn't this as too bad. However, they found out at HS that I still got spanked and I got teased and bullied for that. And that they knew, well, try to imgaine how you would have felt. I got spanked way too often and many times I hadn't committed the crime I was spanked for. I told previously that I'm sure both mom and dad enjoyed spanking our bare bottoms. I remember the time I saw my dad spank my sisters bare bottom over his knees as hard and fast as he could and he was literally grinning while he was starring at her bouncing buttocks while he was spanking. I got so scared and horrified realizing he probably did the same when he was spanking me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: relationship with parents Author: Marsha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:15:17 01/14/24 Sun Uncle Bob Yes Bob, mom didn't allow any covering-up when my panties were pulled down. I was 14 the last time I got spanked in front of extended family. My stepsister saw m spanked until my last spanking at 17. You believe in full exposure when you spank? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]