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Subject: Re: Need Advice-Punish 16 year old Daughter


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Date Posted: 12:23:52 01/04/24 Thu
In reply to: Julie 's message, "Need Advice-Punish 16 year old Daughter" on 19:00:31 11/14/23 Tue

I wouldn’t do anything as severe as some have suggested. 1- A simple over the knee spanking from with her pants at her ankles or her skirt up and panties down is the solution. It will remind her that she is still a kid subject to kid-like discipline. 2- Make sure the neighbors and some of those she had over for the party hear that she was spanked over your lap.

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Silvia to Julie
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Date Posted: 16:03:36 01/06/24 Sat

I wish everyone a healthy and happy new year.

I am a mother of two daughters aged 9 and 14 and I am now 34 years old.
I never wanted to be like my mother.
So-called whipping mother!
Because my parents, mainly my mother, had spanked me again and again.
But the reality caught me.
I quickly learned, that it was hard to education their, without spanking.
When my oldest was still in diapers and constantly refused to go potty and stubborn more and more often, both in the department store, in kindergarten or at home.
I soon, annoyed, started giving her a few slaps on her diapered bottom.
I was surprised how effective it was.
She cried wanting to be held and was the most well-behaved and loving little girl ever.
Then I met my second husband and he saw one day, how I slaped at her diapered butt.
Now he recommended that I be more consistent.
Short time later I spank my daughter, usually after bathing and before changing.
It was as if I spanked all the stubbornness out of her ass and ended up with the best-behaved girl you could ever wish for.
Then I diapered her and took her in my arms.
Now she cried herself in to a deep sleep, at a record-breaking pace, even as I held her in my arms and comforted her.
I laid her down and covered her up and left the nursery.

Suddenly we no longer had any problems with "Mommy please watch another film", Mommy please read more, "Mommy I'm still thirsty", "Mommy I still have to pee".
That was no longer there after every beating she received.
So when she was about 7 years old she received a short bedtime spanking about 3-5 times a week.
My Continuing to diaper her soon turned out to be a happy solution.

Since I now had another 2-year-old daughter, it didn't bother me in the least to continue changing diapers for my older one, on the contrary, this way I retained full control over her.
(Critics who ask themselves "why diapers" should think about this more carefully, it opens up a lot of possibilities and acceptable reasons to spank them spontaneously)

At some point I noticed that my husband really enjoyed watching me being spanked and very intensely. We talked about it and he told me that when I took off her clothes to spank her, he was excited and would like to want me straight away.
That's when I noticed for the first time that I was actually sexually aroused too, if I spanked and diapered her.

And that's exactly the point, when I bring our daughters into the living room, one after the other, they knowed that I undressed their, for get a spanking, in front of their dad, my parents or in front of close friends who are also supporters of spanking.
If I take my oldest girl in to the bedroom, so she get only a spanking, to excited my housband and myself.

Other side this means, when we have visitors, we have usually both girls, for their bedtime spanking, at the living room.
Of course we know that we aren't the only ones who get aroused!
The youngest girl has wait and sits astride either one of Grandpa's thighs, or a close family confidante friend, her legs are spread and she must hopped until she cry.
Or she sits fully spread over both of her grandma or my girlfriend's thighs, and she will gently massaged, through the diaper.
Until she gets wet from the massage, with a mixture of pee and juice.
Meanwhile, I slowly undress my oldest and start spank her over my knee.
If she good enough cries, for this moment, so I let her standing naked in the corner.
So I can now undress the youngest and spank her too.
After I have spanked her legs and bottom verry well and laid the diaper under her again, carry I her up in to nursery.
On the changing table, she get a fresh diaper again and many comfort then I put her in bed.

Afterwards, I dedicate myself entirely to my eldest girl.
Then I spank her bottom again and now also her legs while she stands in front of all other visitors.
Her smale breasts rocking, but the visiter can´t see that now.
If her butt has changed from pink red to dark red, I turn her over and it continues... and now the visitor get a good show ....
She is spanked for about 2 hours with breaks for her braeth.
Lastly she get her spanking at diaper position on the table.
So her legs are spread and held, while I spanked her now at the inside of her legs and not so hard at her crotch.
If we are finished I wear baby lotion in the areas that were spanked.
I talk to her reassuringly all the time and give her the greatest possible comfort and also tell her what for a big, good and brave girl she is.
Then I put an adult diaper under her, after I raise her legs and butt up.
I apply a thick layer of lotion in this areas too.
Now she is lowered onto the diaper and finally there get lotion on her slightly swollen lips and I close her diaper.
I knows exactly that the heat of the spanking will last for a long time.
I Kiss her and, wearing only her diaper, she has to follow me holding her hand into the children's room where I pet her and allow her to masturbate, if she likes.
Now she know, that I want see piss in her diaper, at tomorrow morning. because I want not her cum see.
If that's not the case, because she is dry she'll get spanked again.

I'm still writing about bring up spanking, not brutal beating or sex with underage!
We only combine what is necessary with what is pleasant for us.

I'm still writing about bring up spanking, not brutal beating or sex with underage!
We only combine what is necessary with what is pleasant for us.

So you should seriously consider going further to not caning her, with a cane or paddle.
Because no matter what choice you make, you can't spank her for long!
Blistering her bottom with just 20-30 strokes, won't change anything for her behaving!

One hand and a light to medium belt guarantees a long spanking, especially if it's more than just one round.
And the butt and legs will also be green and blue if you desired.
You only must longer spank her and who want it not?
Than her crying and screaming will be much more.
And her wish too, to never experience again!

Early bedtime and a diaper, definitely brings the point home!
She acted rashly like a toddler, so she should be treated like a toddler for a few days.

Just think about what could have happened...
From forced sex by underage girls to an escalating drug party.
You can count yourself lucky that the party didn't get out of control and that your daughter and you didn't receive a report for failure to supervise!

You won't find out how bad this party actually was until a few months from now, when one of the girls who were at the party suddenly becomes pregnant, or even worse, it's your daughter.
A lot can happen with drugs and alcohol!
Whatever you decide, spank her, but don't beat her up!
Let them scream, cry until they hiccup, but don't hurt them by breaking up their skin.

Please let us know what you decided to do
best wishes
Sylvia

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Author:
Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 13:28:26 02/17/24 Sat

Hi Sylvia. Thank you for sharing how you discipline your daughters. A few questions if I may. I interspersed the in your monologue.

Sylvia: I wish everyone a healthy and happy new year.

I am a mother of two daughters aged 9 and 14 and I am now 34 years old.
I never wanted to be like my mother.
So-called whipping mother!
Because my parents, mainly my mother, had spanked me again and again.

Louise: How often did she spank you and for reasons?

But the reality caught me.
I quickly learned, that it was hard to education their, without spanking.
When my oldest was still in diapers and constantly refused to go potty and stubborn more and more often, both in the department store, in kindergarten or at home.
I soon, annoyed, started giving her a few slaps on her diapered bottom.
I was surprised how effective it was.
She cried wanting to be held and was the most well-behaved and loving little girl ever.
Then I met my second husband and he saw one day, how I slaped at her diapered butt.
Now he recommended that I be more consistent.
Short time later I spank my daughter, usually after bathing and before changing.
It was as if I spanked all the stubbornness out of her ass and ended up with the best-behaved girl you could ever wish for.
Then I diapered her and took her in my arms.
Now she cried herself in to a deep sleep, at a record-breaking pace, even as I held her in my arms and comforted her.
I laid her down and covered her up and left the nursery.

Suddenly we no longer had any problems with "Mommy please watch another film", Mommy please read more, "Mommy I'm still thirsty", "Mommy I still have to pee".
That was no longer there after every beating she received.

So when she was about 7 years old she received a short bedtime spanking about 3-5 times a week.

Louise: Why were you spanking her so frequently?

My Continuing to diaper her soon turned out to be a happy solution.

Since I now had another 2-year-old daughter, it didn't bother me in the least to continue changing diapers for my older one, on the contrary, this way I retained full control over her.
(Critics who ask themselves "why diapers" should think about this more carefully, it opens up a lot of possibilities and acceptable reasons to spank them spontaneously)

At some point I noticed that my husband really enjoyed watching me being spanked and very intensely. We talked about it and he told me that when I took off her clothes to spank her, he was excited and would like to want me straight away.
That's when I noticed for the first time that I was actually sexually aroused too, if I spanked and diapered her.

And that's exactly the point, when I bring our daughters into the living room, one after the other, they knowed that I undressed their, for get a spanking, in front of their dad, my parents or in front of close friends who are also supporters of spanking.
If I take my oldest girl in to the bedroom, so she get only a spanking, to excited my housband and myself.

Other side this means, when we have visitors, we have usually both girls, for their bedtime spanking, at the living room.
Of course we know that we aren't the only ones who get aroused!
The youngest girl has wait and sits astride either one of Grandpa's thighs, or a close family confidante friend, her legs are spread and she must hopped until she cry.
Or she sits fully spread over both of her grandma or my girlfriend's thighs, and she will gently massaged, through the diaper.
Until she gets wet from the massage, with a mixture of pee and juice.
Meanwhile, I slowly undress my oldest and start spank her over my knee.
If she good enough cries, for this moment, so I let her standing naked in the corner.
So I can now undress the youngest and spank her too.
After I have spanked her legs and bottom verry well and laid the diaper under her again, carry I her up in to nursery.
On the changing table, she get a fresh diaper again and many comfort then I put her in bed.

Afterwards, I dedicate myself entirely to my eldest girl.
Then I spank her bottom again and now also her legs while she stands in front of all other visitors.
Her smale breasts rocking, but the visiter can´t see that now.
If her butt has changed from pink red to dark red, I turn her over and it continues... and now the visitor get a good show ....
She is spanked for about 2 hours with breaks for her braeth.
Lastly she get her spanking at diaper position on the table.
So her legs are spread and held, while I spanked her now at the inside of her legs and not so hard at her crotch.
If we are finished I wear baby lotion in the areas that were spanked.
I talk to her reassuringly all the time and give her the greatest possible comfort and also tell her what for a big, good and brave girl she is.
Then I put an adult diaper under her, after I raise her legs and butt up.
I apply a thick layer of lotion in this areas too.
Now she is lowered onto the diaper and finally there get lotion on her slightly swollen lips and I close her diaper.
I knows exactly that the heat of the spanking will last for a long time.
I Kiss her and, wearing only her diaper, she has to follow me holding her hand into the children's room where I pet her and allow her to masturbate, if she likes.
Now she know, that I want see piss in her diaper, at tomorrow morning. because I want not her cum see.
If that's not the case, because she is dry she'll get spanked again.

I'm still writing about bring up spanking, not brutal beating or sex with underage!
We only combine what is necessary with what is pleasant for us.

I'm still writing about bring up spanking, not brutal beating or sex with underage!
We only combine what is necessary with what is pleasant for us.

So you should seriously consider going further to not caning her, with a cane or paddle.
Because no matter what choice you make, you can't spank her for long!
Blistering her bottom with just 20-30 strokes, won't change anything for her behaving!

One hand and a light to medium belt guarantees a long spanking, especially if it's more than just one round.
And the butt and legs will also be green and blue if you desired.
You only must longer spank her and who want it not?
Than her crying and screaming will be much more.
And her wish too, to never experience again!

Early bedtime and a diaper, definitely brings the point home!
She acted rashly like a toddler, so she should be treated like a toddler for a few days.

Just think about what could have happened...
From forced sex by underage girls to an escalating drug party.
You can count yourself lucky that the party didn't get out of control and that your daughter and you didn't receive a report for failure to supervise!

You won't find out how bad this party actually was until a few months from now, when one of the girls who were at the party suddenly becomes pregnant, or even worse, it's your daughter.
A lot can happen with drugs and alcohol!
Whatever you decide, spank her, but don't beat her up!
Let them scream, cry until they hiccup, but don't hurt them by breaking up their skin.

Please let us know what you decided to do
best wishes
Sylvia

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Author:
Silvia to Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 08:05:06 03/31/24 Sun

Good morning and happy Easter Louise Vancisic Vancisic
I know it's been a long time, but my time is never as abundant as I would like.
At first my mother thought it was necessary to spank me regularly.
Later, when I got older and was in the middle of puberty, she started sexualizing it.
She and her husband were of the opinion that this is a part of growing girl, to be a part of being raised to a behaved submissive wife.

I spank my daughters so often, so if they cry´s in their sleep, so I can start early, in my peacefull evening.
Somtimes when my second husband and I also want to have fun, wake we one of the girls again, for a thorough spanking that is supposed to get us both in the mood and the two of us have fun while she lies in bed crying.
This morning both girls received a quick warm-up spanking from me and then I diapered their again.
It must be, because my in-laws are coming to visit this afternoon and my sister-in-law and her daughter are coming to visit in the evening; we want to hold the traditional Easter celebrations together.
I can´t wait.

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Mother Elena to Silvia
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Date Posted: 18:45:26 01/07/24 Sun

The best spanking session I have ever can imagine.

Be so kind and explain us, in details, please:

The youngest girl has wait and sits astride either one of Grandpa's thighs, or a close family confidante friend, her legs are spread and she must hopped until she cry.
Or she sits fully spread over both of her grandma or my girlfriend's thighs, and she will gently massaged, through the diaper.

Massaged? Where?

Your sentence:
So her legs are spread and held, while I spanked her now at the inside of her legs and not so hard at her crotch.
If we are finished I wear baby lotion in the areas that were spanked.
The best part of her spanking.
I really want to know all about it.

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Mother Elena to Silvia
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Date Posted: 18:47:47 01/07/24 Sun

I don't ask you without a good reason.
My mother spanked me and my sisters regularly.
All three of us were also spanked between the legs 2 - 3 times a month, and that was an extraordinary experience.

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Silvia to Mother Elena
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Date Posted: 10:25:14 02/17/24 Sat

Hello Mother Elena
I apologize for only getting back to you today, but as you can easily imagine, I have more to do than just be on the Internet.
If I interpret your name correctly, you are also a mother and so I assume you are a supporter or advocate of spanking, just like our family.
Which is clearly bigger than just my 2 daughters and my 2nd husband.
May I ask how many children you have and what age and gender?
The most important thing for us is that we spank them often, but never beat up them.
They are allowed to sniffle, cry, howl and even scream up to a certain volume, but if this gets out of hand, they are quietened down.
As they are no longer toddlers, this is perfectly feasible.
I would very much like to exchange ideas about various disciplinary measures, but unfortunately, as I said, I'm not very active on the internet.
I hope they are still patient with me.
Now I have to hurry up and prepare lunch, then put the girls down for their afternoon nap.
I'll be back online around 3pm if I can.
Waiting to hear from you and best regards
Silvia

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Mother Elena to Silvia
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Date Posted: 18:22:17 02/17/24 Sat

I have two daughters, age 12 and 10.
I spanked them since they were little girls.
I usually spank them once a week, and sometimes even twice a week.
I spank them over my lap, with hand.
When I spank them I prefer they are naked from waist down.
So we have very close body to body and skin to skin contact and I can smack their naked asses. So I can also control how firm and how long to spank them. After a proper spanking their asses are very red, warm and sore.

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Silvia to Mother Elena
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Date Posted: 08:38:03 03/31/24 Sun

Good morning and happy Easter mother Elena
I'm always happy to meet like-minded mothers who aren't above admitting that it's a nice feeling to watch girls cry before, during and after spanking.
May I ask how often does this actually happen to you per week?
I'll be honest, it definitely happens several times a week in our house.
Mostly in the evening when I want to have some peace and quiet.
I started maintenance spanking pretty early.
This was rarely a serious punishment;
I always had enough when they cried profusely.
Theire don't have to howling and screaming if this happen.
It's enough if they cry well enough to drift off to sleep quickly by maintenance spanking.
There are other reasons (more important) to make her howling and screaming.
Excample that will be the case again, this afternoon and evening, when my husband's family will gradually arrive for the Easter celebrations.
As I write this, the girls are lying in bed in their rooms crying.
They both now have their own room, which is fully equipped with a changing table and various punishment devices.
All they received was a bottom warm-up and fresh diapers.
They will wear your punish pajamas all day today and tomorrow, except for the 2 hours when we go to church
Best regards
Silvia

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Chamed
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Date Posted: 19:43:00 03/31/24 Sun

So I have to ask what are the "various punishment devices."

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Mother Elena to Silvia
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Date Posted: 20:24:30 04/12/24 Fri

I usually spank my daughters once, eventually twice a week. (We are talking about their regular spankings). I also spank them late at evening. Me and my husband are usually free then and have enough time to spank them without any hurry. I usually spank them together.
But your disciplinary methods are better than mine, I must admit. I admire you.

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