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Subject: Need Advice-Punish 16 year old Daughter


Author:
Julie
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Date Posted: 19:00:31 11/14/23 Tue

My husband and I were out of town last weekend and we left our 16 year old daughter at home by herself. We just found out that she had a huge party at our house which involved alcohol. Our neighbors told us all about it. We confronted our daughter and at first she lied to us but they told us about it and knew it was wrong. My husband and I have been discussing the best course of punishment for her. We already told her that she is in deep trouble. We both agree that some type of spanking is in order. She grew up getting spankings. Her father wants to use a wooden paddle on her bottom. How many strokes should she receive. He has a wooden paddle from his fraternity and he said it will really light her bottom up and teach her a lesson. How should we go about this.

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Author:
Robert
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Date Posted: 06:44:35 11/15/23 Wed

My niece Pam 16 is disciplined in the den nude from the waist down. After her lecture she is instructed to remove her jeans / skirt then step out of her panties. She then faces the wall standing and places both hands on the mantle for support. Dad's solid wooden paddle (much like yours) is then applied firmly across her bare buttocks.
Your daughter violated your rules and was involved in underage drinking then lied. This needs to be addressed in a loving but firm way. The paddle should be applied and bare bottomed. You need to send a strong message to her but again she also needs to be assured of your love for her. I wish you well.

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Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 09:23:12 11/30/23 Thu

I suggest a combination. What would you choose?

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[> [> Subject: Re: Need Advice-Punish 16 year old Daughter


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Patrick
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Date Posted: 06:09:57 12/31/23 Sun

Julie, and you have to do it today, don't wait anymore, and I think the cane, 16 smacks on the bare bottom will be the most effektive punishment for the past and for the the future in the next year. Tell us how it happened...

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[> Subject: Re: Need Advice-Punish 16 year old Daughter


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Lesley
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Date Posted: 06:53:21 11/15/23 Wed

Hi Julie. This is very serious for sure. Do you believe that a spankin would be more effective than grounding her and maybe pulling car keys for a period of time?

Or maybe it is a combination of both?

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[> Subject: Re: Need Advice-Punish 16 year old Daughter


Author:
Wondering-supportive
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Date Posted: 23:10:44 11/16/23 Thu

Your question is how many strokes. As I read it, she committed three offenses, holding a party without consent, drinking under age, and lying. The paddling should reflect all three and each segment should be announced to make clear why the number you arrived at is being administered.

The number of course depends on whether the paddle is to her bare bottom and how intense it is applied. So no one can really give you an exact number.

Perhaps a guide is that it should result in significant tears and contrition and be guided as well by the color of her bottom and her reaction to the paddle. My take is that the paddling should be between one and two dozen, again having regard to the variables mentioned and any crocodile tears or exaggeration of effect by your daughter. You two can best judge real reactions from her.

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[> Subject: Re: Need Advice-Punish 16 year old Daughter


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DisciplinedLife
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Date Posted: 21:28:03 11/18/23 Sat

Hi Julie. We agree with all the suggestions, especially paddle spankings on future dates. An advantage to this is it will keep the memory of her misbehavior fresh. Especially if the paddling is given at a time she doesn't expect. We gave what we called "extra spankings", on the bare, right before bedtime. Another option is Early Bedtime over the weekend, particularly if she had planned on a normal punishments-free weekend after Thanksgiving! Thanks for considering our advice.. And be strong together in correcting with forgiveness and grace.

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Marsha
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Date Posted: 20:40:51 12/29/23 Fri



DL, I remember in teen years getting "surprise" spankings. It was no surprise that I was going to get spanked, but often my stepmother would sentence me to a spanking but tell me I'd get spanked "later," when she had time to "teach you a good lesson."
It was awful knowing a spanking was coming but not knowing exactly when or where! I'd be on edge, trying to keep busy but consumed with dread because I hated bare bottomed spankings so much. If I got super nervous I'd think about just asking my stepmom to "get it over with" but I never dared.
It was torture when she would call me in and I'd think "OH GOD HERE IT COMES" but she would just ask me a question or give some chore.

Sooner or later she'd call me into the kitchen or such and just say, "Take your pants/skirt off. Wait in the corner until I finish making this salad...and think about the spanking you're going to get."

Who is it you spanked? How did they get it?

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[> Subject: Re: Need Advice-Punish 16 year old Daughter


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Uncle Bob
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Date Posted: 22:24:11 11/28/23 Tue

Julie, 16 yr old girls can be ahandful! We have 2 wonderful girls, 17 and 14, and we do spank them for correction.

Your girl's behavior shows to me that she sees herslef as more mature than she really is. When our 17 yr old Emmie does that, we take her into the living room, and undress her to her panties. Top and bra come off, then skirt or jeans. She has to listen to the lecture and answer our questions, and the questions of any family present. I can tell you that this puts her inher place very quickly. about half way thru the talk, I take her panties down and she is completely submissive to me -- all fussing is over. We do the same with sara simply because she is only 14 and not very develeped yet. And actually that makes Emmie even more embarrassed because she feels that she is being treated the same as her "little" sister.

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Brazilian Girl to Uncle Bob
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Date Posted: 18:45:02 12/31/23 Sun

Why do you think that 14 yrs old girl is not very developed?
I masturbate since the age of 10 and I got my first menstruation at the age of 11.
When my stepfather wants to spank me I must take off all my clothes, including my panties.
I am fully naked in front of him and my mother.
So both of them can see my boobs, my ass and my pussy.
My mother insists me to be fully shaved down there, and I must obey.
My stepfather spanks me over his lap, with hand, so we have very close body-to-body and skin-to-skin contact.
But feeling his strong hand on my ass is very unpleasant. It hurts a lot.

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[> Subject: Re: Need Advice-Punish 16 year old Daughter


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Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 09:21:10 11/30/23 Thu

Hi Julie. I would say the paddle is called for. But she should also be spanked separately for lying.

I also agree with Disciplined Life that early bedtime over the weekend is appropriate.

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[> Subject: Re: Need Advice-Punish 16 year old Daughter


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Reader
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Date Posted: 08:23:23 12/29/23 Fri

Firstly I have my reservations about the validity of this post. Assuming that this is true, the discipline should be solely between mother and daughter.

She has committed three very serious offenses. Mother and daughter need to have a long talk when it is only them in the house. While lecturing, mother needs to pull her pants to her ankles and to intensify the drama and seriousness of the situation after several minutes of lecturing mother should pull down her underwear. She should stand in front of her mother for several more minutes before being taken across her knees. With an old fashioned wooden hairbrush make the first swat count. Spank her slowly for about a minute before giving her a couple minutes break. Repeat this process several times ending with a flurry of about 20-30 hard, fast swats.

After about 20 minutes in the corner cradle her in your lap for as long as it takes with forgiveness. Make it clear that any such misbehavior will be dealt with in the same manner.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Need Advice-Punish 16 year old Daughter


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Sue (UK)
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Date Posted: 05:27:41 12/30/23 Sat

Figging doesn't trigger defaecation - so it doesn't tackle the misbehavior/colorectal-autointoxication link. A soapstick suppository would have been a better suggestion to augment the spanking!

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[> Subject: Re: Need Advice-Punish 16 year old Daughter


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Charlene
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Date Posted: 14:13:46 12/29/23 Fri

She needs a figging.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 05:18:28 12/30/23 Sat

Figging??? that's when you stick a ginger root up somebodys butthole and it burns. That's crazy.

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Charlene
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Date Posted: 07:50:49 12/30/23 Sat

But effective!

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HH
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Date Posted: 07:41:46 12/30/23 Sat

Drinking and lieing is really bad. She should get paddled 50 times.

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Wondering-supportive
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Date Posted: 11:07:03 12/30/23 Sat

Wow HH, 50 times exactly. You must be a mathematician, perhaps a Nobel prize one, to come up with such a precise and obviously well calculated number. Brilliant analysis!

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HH
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Date Posted: 13:00:39 12/30/23 Sat

Thanks. I'm not really that great at math. English, music, art, writing, science, social studies I'm really good at.

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Reader to HH
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Date Posted: 13:59:54 12/30/23 Sat

I believe W-s was making a joke. He doesn't believe you are really that good at math. BTW if you are good at science would you not be good at math? Math is the universal language of science.

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Wondering-supportive
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Date Posted: 15:09:14 12/30/23 Sat

Ya think:-)

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 17:15:13 12/30/23 Sat

Why you picking on a kid, asshole?

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Wondering-supportive
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Date Posted: 19:13:04 12/30/23 Sat

You ,along with the 'kid', need to understand culture better so than you might actually be able to distinguish humor from picking on someone. Maybe try spending less time here little girl and more time on broadening your education.But I am guessing that you are someone who already knows it all and so there is nothing you can learn from my suggestion.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 17:14:10 12/30/23 Sat

You can understand science without understanding math. That's like saying you can't understand music if you don't understand math. Music is rooted in mathematics.

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Reader
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Date Posted: 04:43:12 01/01/24 Mon

I want it known that I did not write this. Someone used my moniker.

For 'Wondering Supportive', you don't sound very supportive and perhaps the reason she didn't get the joke is because it's not funny.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 10:56:45 01/01/24 Mon

Exactly.

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Grumpy
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Date Posted: 12:23:52 01/04/24 Thu

I wouldn’t do anything as severe as some have suggested. 1- A simple over the knee spanking from with her pants at her ankles or her skirt up and panties down is the solution. It will remind her that she is still a kid subject to kid-like discipline. 2- Make sure the neighbors and some of those she had over for the party hear that she was spanked over your lap.

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Silvia to Julie
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Date Posted: 16:03:36 01/06/24 Sat

I wish everyone a healthy and happy new year.

I am a mother of two daughters aged 9 and 14 and I am now 34 years old.
I never wanted to be like my mother.
So-called whipping mother!
Because my parents, mainly my mother, had spanked me again and again.
But the reality caught me.
I quickly learned, that it was hard to education their, without spanking.
When my oldest was still in diapers and constantly refused to go potty and stubborn more and more often, both in the department store, in kindergarten or at home.
I soon, annoyed, started giving her a few slaps on her diapered bottom.
I was surprised how effective it was.
She cried wanting to be held and was the most well-behaved and loving little girl ever.
Then I met my second husband and he saw one day, how I slaped at her diapered butt.
Now he recommended that I be more consistent.
Short time later I spank my daughter, usually after bathing and before changing.
It was as if I spanked all the stubbornness out of her ass and ended up with the best-behaved girl you could ever wish for.
Then I diapered her and took her in my arms.
Now she cried herself in to a deep sleep, at a record-breaking pace, even as I held her in my arms and comforted her.
I laid her down and covered her up and left the nursery.

Suddenly we no longer had any problems with "Mommy please watch another film", Mommy please read more, "Mommy I'm still thirsty", "Mommy I still have to pee".
That was no longer there after every beating she received.
So when she was about 7 years old she received a short bedtime spanking about 3-5 times a week.
My Continuing to diaper her soon turned out to be a happy solution.

Since I now had another 2-year-old daughter, it didn't bother me in the least to continue changing diapers for my older one, on the contrary, this way I retained full control over her.
(Critics who ask themselves "why diapers" should think about this more carefully, it opens up a lot of possibilities and acceptable reasons to spank them spontaneously)

At some point I noticed that my husband really enjoyed watching me being spanked and very intensely. We talked about it and he told me that when I took off her clothes to spank her, he was excited and would like to want me straight away.
That's when I noticed for the first time that I was actually sexually aroused too, if I spanked and diapered her.

And that's exactly the point, when I bring our daughters into the living room, one after the other, they knowed that I undressed their, for get a spanking, in front of their dad, my parents or in front of close friends who are also supporters of spanking.
If I take my oldest girl in to the bedroom, so she get only a spanking, to excited my housband and myself.

Other side this means, when we have visitors, we have usually both girls, for their bedtime spanking, at the living room.
Of course we know that we aren't the only ones who get aroused!
The youngest girl has wait and sits astride either one of Grandpa's thighs, or a close family confidante friend, her legs are spread and she must hopped until she cry.
Or she sits fully spread over both of her grandma or my girlfriend's thighs, and she will gently massaged, through the diaper.
Until she gets wet from the massage, with a mixture of pee and juice.
Meanwhile, I slowly undress my oldest and start spank her over my knee.
If she good enough cries, for this moment, so I let her standing naked in the corner.
So I can now undress the youngest and spank her too.
After I have spanked her legs and bottom verry well and laid the diaper under her again, carry I her up in to nursery.
On the changing table, she get a fresh diaper again and many comfort then I put her in bed.

Afterwards, I dedicate myself entirely to my eldest girl.
Then I spank her bottom again and now also her legs while she stands in front of all other visitors.
Her smale breasts rocking, but the visiter can´t see that now.
If her butt has changed from pink red to dark red, I turn her over and it continues... and now the visitor get a good show ....
She is spanked for about 2 hours with breaks for her braeth.
Lastly she get her spanking at diaper position on the table.
So her legs are spread and held, while I spanked her now at the inside of her legs and not so hard at her crotch.
If we are finished I wear baby lotion in the areas that were spanked.
I talk to her reassuringly all the time and give her the greatest possible comfort and also tell her what for a big, good and brave girl she is.
Then I put an adult diaper under her, after I raise her legs and butt up.
I apply a thick layer of lotion in this areas too.
Now she is lowered onto the diaper and finally there get lotion on her slightly swollen lips and I close her diaper.
I knows exactly that the heat of the spanking will last for a long time.
I Kiss her and, wearing only her diaper, she has to follow me holding her hand into the children's room where I pet her and allow her to masturbate, if she likes.
Now she know, that I want see piss in her diaper, at tomorrow morning. because I want not her cum see.
If that's not the case, because she is dry she'll get spanked again.

I'm still writing about bring up spanking, not brutal beating or sex with underage!
We only combine what is necessary with what is pleasant for us.

I'm still writing about bring up spanking, not brutal beating or sex with underage!
We only combine what is necessary with what is pleasant for us.

So you should seriously consider going further to not caning her, with a cane or paddle.
Because no matter what choice you make, you can't spank her for long!
Blistering her bottom with just 20-30 strokes, won't change anything for her behaving!

One hand and a light to medium belt guarantees a long spanking, especially if it's more than just one round.
And the butt and legs will also be green and blue if you desired.
You only must longer spank her and who want it not?
Than her crying and screaming will be much more.
And her wish too, to never experience again!

Early bedtime and a diaper, definitely brings the point home!
She acted rashly like a toddler, so she should be treated like a toddler for a few days.

Just think about what could have happened...
From forced sex by underage girls to an escalating drug party.
You can count yourself lucky that the party didn't get out of control and that your daughter and you didn't receive a report for failure to supervise!

You won't find out how bad this party actually was until a few months from now, when one of the girls who were at the party suddenly becomes pregnant, or even worse, it's your daughter.
A lot can happen with drugs and alcohol!
Whatever you decide, spank her, but don't beat her up!
Let them scream, cry until they hiccup, but don't hurt them by breaking up their skin.

Please let us know what you decided to do
best wishes
Sylvia

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Author:
Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 13:28:26 02/17/24 Sat

Hi Sylvia. Thank you for sharing how you discipline your daughters. A few questions if I may. I interspersed the in your monologue.

Sylvia: I wish everyone a healthy and happy new year.

I am a mother of two daughters aged 9 and 14 and I am now 34 years old.
I never wanted to be like my mother.
So-called whipping mother!
Because my parents, mainly my mother, had spanked me again and again.

Louise: How often did she spank you and for reasons?

But the reality caught me.
I quickly learned, that it was hard to education their, without spanking.
When my oldest was still in diapers and constantly refused to go potty and stubborn more and more often, both in the department store, in kindergarten or at home.
I soon, annoyed, started giving her a few slaps on her diapered bottom.
I was surprised how effective it was.
She cried wanting to be held and was the most well-behaved and loving little girl ever.
Then I met my second husband and he saw one day, how I slaped at her diapered butt.
Now he recommended that I be more consistent.
Short time later I spank my daughter, usually after bathing and before changing.
It was as if I spanked all the stubbornness out of her ass and ended up with the best-behaved girl you could ever wish for.
Then I diapered her and took her in my arms.
Now she cried herself in to a deep sleep, at a record-breaking pace, even as I held her in my arms and comforted her.
I laid her down and covered her up and left the nursery.

Suddenly we no longer had any problems with "Mommy please watch another film", Mommy please read more, "Mommy I'm still thirsty", "Mommy I still have to pee".
That was no longer there after every beating she received.

So when she was about 7 years old she received a short bedtime spanking about 3-5 times a week.

Louise: Why were you spanking her so frequently?

My Continuing to diaper her soon turned out to be a happy solution.

Since I now had another 2-year-old daughter, it didn't bother me in the least to continue changing diapers for my older one, on the contrary, this way I retained full control over her.
(Critics who ask themselves "why diapers" should think about this more carefully, it opens up a lot of possibilities and acceptable reasons to spank them spontaneously)

At some point I noticed that my husband really enjoyed watching me being spanked and very intensely. We talked about it and he told me that when I took off her clothes to spank her, he was excited and would like to want me straight away.
That's when I noticed for the first time that I was actually sexually aroused too, if I spanked and diapered her.

And that's exactly the point, when I bring our daughters into the living room, one after the other, they knowed that I undressed their, for get a spanking, in front of their dad, my parents or in front of close friends who are also supporters of spanking.
If I take my oldest girl in to the bedroom, so she get only a spanking, to excited my housband and myself.

Other side this means, when we have visitors, we have usually both girls, for their bedtime spanking, at the living room.
Of course we know that we aren't the only ones who get aroused!
The youngest girl has wait and sits astride either one of Grandpa's thighs, or a close family confidante friend, her legs are spread and she must hopped until she cry.
Or she sits fully spread over both of her grandma or my girlfriend's thighs, and she will gently massaged, through the diaper.
Until she gets wet from the massage, with a mixture of pee and juice.
Meanwhile, I slowly undress my oldest and start spank her over my knee.
If she good enough cries, for this moment, so I let her standing naked in the corner.
So I can now undress the youngest and spank her too.
After I have spanked her legs and bottom verry well and laid the diaper under her again, carry I her up in to nursery.
On the changing table, she get a fresh diaper again and many comfort then I put her in bed.

Afterwards, I dedicate myself entirely to my eldest girl.
Then I spank her bottom again and now also her legs while she stands in front of all other visitors.
Her smale breasts rocking, but the visiter can´t see that now.
If her butt has changed from pink red to dark red, I turn her over and it continues... and now the visitor get a good show ....
She is spanked for about 2 hours with breaks for her braeth.
Lastly she get her spanking at diaper position on the table.
So her legs are spread and held, while I spanked her now at the inside of her legs and not so hard at her crotch.
If we are finished I wear baby lotion in the areas that were spanked.
I talk to her reassuringly all the time and give her the greatest possible comfort and also tell her what for a big, good and brave girl she is.
Then I put an adult diaper under her, after I raise her legs and butt up.
I apply a thick layer of lotion in this areas too.
Now she is lowered onto the diaper and finally there get lotion on her slightly swollen lips and I close her diaper.
I knows exactly that the heat of the spanking will last for a long time.
I Kiss her and, wearing only her diaper, she has to follow me holding her hand into the children's room where I pet her and allow her to masturbate, if she likes.
Now she know, that I want see piss in her diaper, at tomorrow morning. because I want not her cum see.
If that's not the case, because she is dry she'll get spanked again.

I'm still writing about bring up spanking, not brutal beating or sex with underage!
We only combine what is necessary with what is pleasant for us.

I'm still writing about bring up spanking, not brutal beating or sex with underage!
We only combine what is necessary with what is pleasant for us.

So you should seriously consider going further to not caning her, with a cane or paddle.
Because no matter what choice you make, you can't spank her for long!
Blistering her bottom with just 20-30 strokes, won't change anything for her behaving!

One hand and a light to medium belt guarantees a long spanking, especially if it's more than just one round.
And the butt and legs will also be green and blue if you desired.
You only must longer spank her and who want it not?
Than her crying and screaming will be much more.
And her wish too, to never experience again!

Early bedtime and a diaper, definitely brings the point home!
She acted rashly like a toddler, so she should be treated like a toddler for a few days.

Just think about what could have happened...
From forced sex by underage girls to an escalating drug party.
You can count yourself lucky that the party didn't get out of control and that your daughter and you didn't receive a report for failure to supervise!

You won't find out how bad this party actually was until a few months from now, when one of the girls who were at the party suddenly becomes pregnant, or even worse, it's your daughter.
A lot can happen with drugs and alcohol!
Whatever you decide, spank her, but don't beat her up!
Let them scream, cry until they hiccup, but don't hurt them by breaking up their skin.

Please let us know what you decided to do
best wishes
Sylvia

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Silvia to Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 08:05:06 03/31/24 Sun

Good morning and happy Easter Louise Vancisic Vancisic
I know it's been a long time, but my time is never as abundant as I would like.
At first my mother thought it was necessary to spank me regularly.
Later, when I got older and was in the middle of puberty, she started sexualizing it.
She and her husband were of the opinion that this is a part of growing girl, to be a part of being raised to a behaved submissive wife.

I spank my daughters so often, so if they cry´s in their sleep, so I can start early, in my peacefull evening.
Somtimes when my second husband and I also want to have fun, wake we one of the girls again, for a thorough spanking that is supposed to get us both in the mood and the two of us have fun while she lies in bed crying.
This morning both girls received a quick warm-up spanking from me and then I diapered their again.
It must be, because my in-laws are coming to visit this afternoon and my sister-in-law and her daughter are coming to visit in the evening; we want to hold the traditional Easter celebrations together.
I can´t wait.

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Mother Elena to Silvia
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Date Posted: 18:45:26 01/07/24 Sun

The best spanking session I have ever can imagine.

Be so kind and explain us, in details, please:

The youngest girl has wait and sits astride either one of Grandpa's thighs, or a close family confidante friend, her legs are spread and she must hopped until she cry.
Or she sits fully spread over both of her grandma or my girlfriend's thighs, and she will gently massaged, through the diaper.

Massaged? Where?

Your sentence:
So her legs are spread and held, while I spanked her now at the inside of her legs and not so hard at her crotch.
If we are finished I wear baby lotion in the areas that were spanked.
The best part of her spanking.
I really want to know all about it.

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Mother Elena to Silvia
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Date Posted: 18:47:47 01/07/24 Sun

I don't ask you without a good reason.
My mother spanked me and my sisters regularly.
All three of us were also spanked between the legs 2 - 3 times a month, and that was an extraordinary experience.

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Silvia to Mother Elena
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Date Posted: 10:25:14 02/17/24 Sat

Hello Mother Elena
I apologize for only getting back to you today, but as you can easily imagine, I have more to do than just be on the Internet.
If I interpret your name correctly, you are also a mother and so I assume you are a supporter or advocate of spanking, just like our family.
Which is clearly bigger than just my 2 daughters and my 2nd husband.
May I ask how many children you have and what age and gender?
The most important thing for us is that we spank them often, but never beat up them.
They are allowed to sniffle, cry, howl and even scream up to a certain volume, but if this gets out of hand, they are quietened down.
As they are no longer toddlers, this is perfectly feasible.
I would very much like to exchange ideas about various disciplinary measures, but unfortunately, as I said, I'm not very active on the internet.
I hope they are still patient with me.
Now I have to hurry up and prepare lunch, then put the girls down for their afternoon nap.
I'll be back online around 3pm if I can.
Waiting to hear from you and best regards
Silvia

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Mother Elena to Silvia
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Date Posted: 18:22:17 02/17/24 Sat

I have two daughters, age 12 and 10.
I spanked them since they were little girls.
I usually spank them once a week, and sometimes even twice a week.
I spank them over my lap, with hand.
When I spank them I prefer they are naked from waist down.
So we have very close body to body and skin to skin contact and I can smack their naked asses. So I can also control how firm and how long to spank them. After a proper spanking their asses are very red, warm and sore.

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Silvia to Mother Elena
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Date Posted: 08:38:03 03/31/24 Sun

Good morning and happy Easter mother Elena
I'm always happy to meet like-minded mothers who aren't above admitting that it's a nice feeling to watch girls cry before, during and after spanking.
May I ask how often does this actually happen to you per week?
I'll be honest, it definitely happens several times a week in our house.
Mostly in the evening when I want to have some peace and quiet.
I started maintenance spanking pretty early.
This was rarely a serious punishment;
I always had enough when they cried profusely.
Theire don't have to howling and screaming if this happen.
It's enough if they cry well enough to drift off to sleep quickly by maintenance spanking.
There are other reasons (more important) to make her howling and screaming.
Excample that will be the case again, this afternoon and evening, when my husband's family will gradually arrive for the Easter celebrations.
As I write this, the girls are lying in bed in their rooms crying.
They both now have their own room, which is fully equipped with a changing table and various punishment devices.
All they received was a bottom warm-up and fresh diapers.
They will wear your punish pajamas all day today and tomorrow, except for the 2 hours when we go to church
Best regards
Silvia

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Chamed
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Date Posted: 19:43:00 03/31/24 Sun

So I have to ask what are the "various punishment devices."

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Mother Elena to Silvia
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Date Posted: 20:24:30 04/12/24 Fri

I usually spank my daughters once, eventually twice a week. (We are talking about their regular spankings). I also spank them late at evening. Me and my husband are usually free then and have enough time to spank them without any hurry. I usually spank them together.
But your disciplinary methods are better than mine, I must admit. I admire you.

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Nick
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Date Posted: 12:11:21 02/17/24 Sat

I would suggest informing her your plan to spank and have her decide when it will happen, obviously within reason. Car keys should be taken away, a if u can offord it, maybe even a babysitter next time u leave town.

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Jules
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Date Posted: 15:05:08 02/20/24 Tue

Send her to her room. After a few minutes, go to her room with the paddle. Have her bend over her bed and set her ass on fire with the wooden paddle. 10 to 12 swats should be enough to deliver the message and create pain that she will never forget.

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Jill
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Date Posted: 18:18:56 03/06/24 Wed

You need to sit her down and have a serious conversation with her and make sure she understands what she did was wrong. I would then discuss her punishment with her and inform her that her punishment will include the paddle. Send her to her room so that she can think about what's going to happen. Then wait about an hour and you or your husband then can go in and administer the punishment. Have the paddle in in your hand when you walk into her room and remain calm. Instruct her to remover her jeans or pants and bend over the edge of her bed. Let her keep her panties on due to her age, Her panties will not offer any protection when the wooden paddle is slamming into her ass. Once she is bent over, smack her ass 10 times. This will teach her a lesson she will never forget.

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Mother Elena to Jill
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Date Posted: 19:03:23 03/07/24 Thu

Ten times only ...?

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Walter
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Date Posted: 23:52:49 03/07/24 Thu

This is important! Everyone’s been focusing on the actual spanking, and while that’s deserved she definitely needs to know *why* she’s being spanked.

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