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Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Mork and Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:32:01 01/14/24 Sun In reply to: Annie 's message, "Re: Need help with self- spanking" on 19:58:09 01/13/24 Sat Hi Annie, As I understand it your problem is you feel a lack of commitment to the spanking process. When the going gets tough, you're not keeping it up long enough to cross the point you want to cross. Understandable. Spankings hurt and enough hurt to be as effective as you want them to be is one thing to want and another to self-administer. The enema plan I suggested is to create a winning mind set. That when it comes to self-administered beyond the point you really want to stop, an enema is tough enough to take to be a win and yet doable. Then, when you start the spanking and reach the point you just can't take anymore, your self talk will be, "I can do it! I did the enema and I can do this! When it comes to tough, I'm a winner." The first time you might only be able to self talk your enema success to another three whacks. The next time you have two success --- pushing yourself to take all the enema and the extra three whacks. So, you push yourself to again take all of the enema and pledge you'll take four whacks, not three. Maybe even an extra five whacks. To have a proper count you'll need to know how many whacks you're able to give yourself now to build the first extra three on top of. I take it from your response you have experience taking enemas? So, you'll have a bag? Why would you not try it then? What have you got to lose? Go for it! Good luck, Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:33:43 01/20/24 Sat Annie, let me get it straight you would like to be able to get a spanking beyond your threshold that you can take the pain. What happens if you simply cannot bear the spanking you are getting? Do you want to be spanked until your butt reaches a certain color? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Annie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:48:33 01/21/24 Sun Hi Rainy, I guess I just want to be able to get beyond my body's instinct to stop when it starts to hurt too much. It doesn't feel like a real punishment if I stop then. I'm not looking for a certain shade of red, lol. I suppose I want to trick my head so it doesn't feel like I'm in control of what happens, if that makes any sense. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:45:36 01/21/24 Sun A real disciplinary spanking stings really hard. What happens if the spanking keeps going and going and going, but you really, really want it to cease. The spanking keeps going even though you are sobbing and begging that it stops. It goes until you have an evenly dark red colored bottom That is the real old fashion spanking given generations ago to wayward children of the pioneers who came to settle and till the soil. Is that the kind of spanking you would like? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:52:23 01/27/24 Sat I am sorry if I scared Annie. Perhaps, she was looking for a "kinky" spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Annie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:00:58 01/27/24 Sat Hi Rainy, You didn't scare me off, lol. I've just been kinda busy and didn't check back on the forum. I have nothing against a kinky spanking. I daresay that can be fun solo, or with a consenting partner. But that wasn't what I was really looking for. I know a self-spanking will probably never feel like being at someone else's mercy. I just want to be able to push past my instinct to stop when it starts hurting at a higher level than kinky fun. I want it to hurt enough so that I feel punished. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Patrick [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:20:47 01/27/24 Sat so you need somebody, a good friend or parent to ask, no problem I think [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Annie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:46:18 01/27/24 Sat Actually, that is exactly my problem. I don't have anyone that I could ask. My mom passed over a year ago. My bio-dad lives far away, and I wouldn't trust him to punish me if he was the last man on earth. I love my step-dad very much, but I never knew him until I was an adult, and I think we would both be deeply uncomfortable with me asking him to spank me. And, no, I don't have any friends that I feel I could ask. I suppose I could try to find a reputable professional Dom, but (1) I'm not sure that I have the courage for that, and (2) I'm sure it would be expensive. Hence, the reason I'm exploring ways to make self-spanking more effective. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Need help with self- spanking Author: Patrick [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:37:08 01/27/24 Sat I think that you may change mind about your step-dad or à friend [ Post a Reply to This Message ]