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Subject: Would like your opinion. Author: Anna [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:25:20 04/07/24 Sun My 20 yr. old daughter was arrested at 1 am thin morning for driving under the influence. I was called around 4am to post one dollar for her release. I drove down to the station and got posted the one hundred dollars and got her released. To say I was angry would be saying that mildly. Not only will my insurance rate be going up, but we also now have the cost of a lawyer, and getting her car back and who knows what other expenses we will incur. I scolded her all the way home, and all she would say, is I am sorry. I know that once I get her car back, it will be parked in my garage for now. With her being twenty, I really want to blister her bottom good. Due to her age however, I am not sure if that is appropriate. What do you all think I should do? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Dee [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:36:30 04/07/24 Sun Know of another 20 year old who is spanked at home as well so it does happen. Mine not old enough yet to drink and drive. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I was almost there too; got lucky. Author: Mandy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:20:06 04/07/24 Sun Lucky enough, I never got arrested. But I at that age also drove home after drinking to much. (I was not fully drunk, but would have flunked the blood alcohol test I'm sure.) My dad gave me my largest & most useful spanking of my life. It turned out to be a very good thing for me. I still drank at times; but never drove over the alcohol limit again. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:44:42 04/07/24 Sun That's a tough one, Anna. However, I'd say if she understands how potentially dangerous this was, that she might have killed a child, then a talk to tell her you believe she needs a spanking to help ensure it never happens again, followed by a spanking, has a chance of working. However, if she doesn't get it then a spanking isn't likely to help her get it. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: That's the point! Author: Mandy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:26:13 04/07/24 Sun Those exact reasons, is why my parents spanked me as an adult. For doing a very dumb thing, that even a young child would know better, than do. Spankings don't always save lives. But can & have that I am sure of! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: That's the point! Author: DD to Mandy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:47:45 04/07/24 Sun I've heard of adults using consensual spanking to punish for drinking and driving, and it kind of pisses me off that they indulge in this game for something so dangerous and irresponsible, and where real lives were at risk. I wonder if the crime is being taken seriously enough. A spanking from a parent is different, though, even as an adult. I don't think you wanted to be punished like that, and your father was teaching you a real lesson that you definitely learned. Were you surprised by how he punished you, or were you still being spanked at home? I would have been shocked at that age, and I did not know of anyone else in that position either. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: My best answer, then & now. Author: Mandy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:48:44 04/07/24 Sun I was still subject to spankings, when at home. It actually was not, a surprise. ' I was not in favor of being spanked, But also did not fight it either. I did a real dumb thing. Trust me, after that; I always had a much smarter plan, when heading out to party. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: My best answer, then & now. Author: DD [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:24:24 04/07/24 Sun It was a very bad thing, but you were smart enough to learn the lesson. They must be right when they say that one is never too old for a spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Megan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:21:27 04/08/24 Mon I turned 20 in Feb, and currently can't drive, but if i could and i did under the influence, i would deffo still get a very red bum. Meg [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Anna to Megan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:39:33 04/08/24 Mon Hi Megan, Just curious as to why you cannot drive. After talking to my sister and brother, they both said she needed a long and hard spanking for her to remember. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Disappearing forum Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:40:55 04/08/24 Mon Anne, to some extent it must depend on whether spankings were used in the past. If they were, then there is an argument for giving one now, however long since the last one, more severe of course. If not, it is probably too late to start now, whatever the reason. Why not just ask your daughter and see if she is amenable? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Katie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:21:48 04/08/24 Mon I was spanked into my late teens. I am now in my twenties. I am not sure how I would feel about being spanked at twenty but I do remember getting in big trouble when I was 17. I felt so bad about what I had done I actually asked my mother to spank me instead of grounding me. It didn't take much to convince her. I got a very long and hard spanking as well as grounded but it was only for a week instead of the month. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Intrigued (To Katie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:30:39 04/08/24 Mon Hi Katie - would you be willing to give us some general idea of the kind of trouble you got into and detail for us how that conversation went with your mom leading up to the spanking? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Katie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:24:45 04/09/24 Tue I got in trouble for disobeying my parents and going to a party that I was specifically told not to go to. When I got caught, I lied about it. She believed me at first, but she found out later that I had lied. She was furious as you can imagine! To be honest lying in my house was an automatic spanking, so even though it had been almost a year since my last spanking I just assumed that was what was going to happen. When she came into my room, and she was not carrying her brush. I was relieved at first but then she dropped a month of grounding on me. I had only been grounded once before and she was strict with it, so a whole month of being grounded to the house was going to be awful. This was also after a long lecture that had us both in tears. Once she left, I felt so guilty that I had disappointed her so badly. It took me two hours lying in my room to gather the courage to call her back in there. I explained to her my guilt and how sorry I was that I disappointed them and then I asked if she would spank me instead of grounding me. She was hesitant at first. She agreed eventually but said that if she spanked me, I was still going to be grounded for a week. She said if that was still what I wanted to happen to go into her room and get her brush. Immediately when she said that I started to have second thoughts, but I went to her room and got that awful brush off her dresser. That was the longest walk of my life. When I got back into my room she was sitting on the bench at the end of my bed. At that point the conversation was over. I handed her the brush, took down my pants and panties and laid myself across her lap. She spent the next two or so minutes blistering my bottom. It was the worst spanking I had ever had, I think she knew it was my last one. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Jay [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:21:27 04/14/24 Sun Katie, How is your relationship with your Mom nowadays? For how long was there visible marking after your Mom spanked you? I never spanked my kids that hard, and I wonder how you feel about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Katie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:17:28 04/15/24 Mon My mother and I have a great relationship we have always been very close. But there was a distinct relationship line, especially when we I was younger. She is my mother 1st and my friend 2nd. As I have gotten older the line has moved more towards friendship, but I still wouldn't press my luck with her. LOL As far as markings I don't remember ever having bruising but my butt was for sure red and a little sore for a couple days following a spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Jay [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:11:03 04/15/24 Mon You are a very nice young lady, Katie, and your mom is lucky to have you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: MTG [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:31:41 04/18/24 Thu As someone who knows something about hairbrush spankings, if the brush used has some weight to it, is made of sturdy hardwood, and applied with some real force behind it, a two-minute spanking will leave two deep red marks with some blistering in the centers where the brush's first impact was absorbed. These bruising marks turn the colors of ripe cherries and plums that take at least several days to fade and can still be visible for a week or more. Hairbrush spanking can be a severe punishment that is not only torture while it's happening, it leaves two very uncomfortable tender spots on the bottom the next day. While your willful disobedience was a spankable offense, at least in my opinion it did not rise to the level of a severe hairbrush spanking. A little sore for a few days and a week of grounding sounds appropriate. Drunk driving is a more serious issue. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Jill [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:59:48 04/14/24 Sun Katie, I'm impressed you and your mother were (are) so close you could communicate so well with each other, even under stressful circumstances. No wonder you felt so guilty about telling a lie for no good reason. Did you lie because you were afraid of being spanked? Lying always meant a spanking in our house also. Only reason I'd think about a lie is when I was scared she'd spank me - but mom could always tell so I just took my spankings. Brave of you to ask to be spanked, I hated even saying the word and definitely never asked mom to spank me. And you even fetched the hairbrush and bared yourself, showing your mother you really did feel you deserved to be spanked. Was that the only time you had to bring the hairbrush for a spanking? Did you always take your own panties down? Sometimes mom made me fetch the wooden spoon or plastic bath brush, so I know about that awful "walk of dread." Mostly she pulled my panties down, but sometimes she had me bare myself. Anyway, I think you and your mom have a strong relationship. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Katie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:39:48 04/15/24 Mon Jill: Yes, the reason I lied originally was because I was afraid I would have been in big trouble for deliberately disobeying her and I most certainly would have been. I never wanted to be spanked by my mother and this time was no exception but at the time it seemed like it was what I needed to have happen. I really just wanted it over with, I am normally a pleaser so disappointing her made me feel so awful. I did not usually have to fetch her brush. When we were/are to be spanked she would send us to our rooms for us to wait. She would bring her brush with her when she came in. Then it was a lecture before the spanking. When I was younger she used to bare us herself, but when I got older she would just say "lets get this over with" and she would point to her lap. I had never had a spanking from her that was not on the bare butt so it was just known and after the lecture I usually just wanted it over with and knowing from experience the longer she had to wait the longer she would spank. So when she pointed I was usually quick about getting my panties down. I do have a great relationship with my mother but I still respect her and don't push my luck. How about you? Do you still have the threat of a spanking or are those days over? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: Jill [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:57:25 04/19/24 Fri Katie, thanks for sharing. I'm in college now - safe from spankings - but my sister Nina is 16 and she still gets spanked. My last spanking was at 18. Who are your siblings? Being sent to your room gave you time to dread your spanking, but at least you got spanked in private. When mom spanked with the wood spoon it was in the kitchen - extremely embarrassing! For the Bath Brush we had to go and strip then put on a pj top, then go wait in the master bathroom in my parent's room. Walking down the hall bared below my waist was humbling. I hated that f-ing Bath Brush! It burned like hell and in the bathroom being spanked with it was so LOUD! Plus, the big mirror was awful UGH! The spoon or bath brush were for major misdeeds, about half the time we escaped with a solid, stinging hand spanking. Do you think spanking is back at the top of the list for your punishments? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: A Very Bad Boy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:21:41 04/20/24 Sat I have this scene etched in my mind — a girl, really a young woman, walking down a hallway. From waist to toe she is bare, in-and-of-itself, not a remarkable situation. She is wearing only the top to her pajamas, but it seems there could be an explanation for this that would raise no eyebrows. However, something is clearly not right. The look on her face. That is dread in her eyes …and in the set of her mournful mouth. And through the entire body language is a sense of her heading towards some spectre of doom, down from her sloping pj-covered shoulders, down to where she is bare, down to feet that march to the slow beat of a funeral's drum. In those eyes is more than dread. They want to look around to see if anyone might be watching but, instead, fixed straight ahead, they reflect the stiffness in her being. The idea that her walk is on display for anyone in the house to see is just not something she wants to acknowledge to herself at this moment. Not at 18 years of age. Is it not mortifying enough that everyone in the house is fully aware of what is happening and why it is happening? That there is a thoroughly justifiable reason for her disgrace? The painful truth is that her misbehavior today was significant and inexcusable. Let us not forget, she is old enough to be starting college! Her destination on this walk to the gallows is her parent's master bathroom. Despite her advanced age, she has no illusions. She is trapped in a stunningly old-fashioned family ritual from which there is no escape. It starts with this half-naked walk of shame, her stomach churning, her nates tingling bare in anxious anticipation. How long will she have to wait trembling in the bathroom before her mother comes to correct her grown-up child with the bath brush. Tradition dictates in this house, that on rare occasions when needed, the brush is used to set fires. Until it happens, and well after, a young lady old enough for college will be totally preoccupied with Mom's spanking brush and with her own tender bottom. Everyone in the house is going to hear, loud and clear. Yes, she was a bad girl, but how can we not feel pity for her today? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Would like your opinion. Author: ts92 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:32:39 04/20/24 Sat My sister and I were both spanked well into out teenage years. I vividly remember my last spanking, I'm just a bit unsure of which year it was. It was about 4 months before my 18th birthday, but it might have been my 19th birthday. I know my sister was spanked more than once after she turned 18. Many of the parents from our small church believed that spanking of girls was not only acceptable, but beneficial. Our mom did all of the spanking in our family, and she always spanked bare- no exceptions. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]