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Ginger
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Date Posted: 14:20:05 01/21/24 Sun
In reply to:
Stepmom
's message, "Question" on 10:41:02 01/21/24 Sun
Hi Stepmom,
Based only on my own experiences, I have another theory. Maybe she has done something that you don't know about and she feels guilty. I was generally a very well behaved kid, but I could definitely hang onto guilt like it was my job. I only remember getting maybe 4-5 spankings total, the last one around age 10. There were a few occasions where I might have been relieved if I had been found out and punished.
Since she trusts you enough to ask you to spank her, hopefully she would open up about any guilty feelings she might be having, in response to some more gentle questioning. If she does confess something, then you can ascertain if it's something that does actually deserve some kind of punishment. Or it might be something where she needs to be convinced that it isn't bad, and she shouldn't feel guilty.
I can certainly understand your worry about being an unwilling participant in a burgeoning fetish. I'm not sure there is truly a way to know if this is a factor in her request, unless you can press her for her reasons. However, once again based on my own history, I've had a fascination with spanking that goes back as far as I can remember, but I definitely didn't enjoy the few spankings that I received. I also lived in fear that someone would find out about my fascination, and I can't imagine doing anything that might invite speculation, such as actually asking for a spanking.
If I was in your position, I think this is how I would handle it. I would have another talk with her and say that I've been thinking about what she requested. I'd say that I didn't feel comfortable with the idea of spanking her, when I didn't understand her reason for asking for it. I'd emphasize that I thought she was brave to bring this up, that I wasn't judging her, and that she could tell me anything. If she still doesn't volunteer a reason, then I'd go through a list of possibilities. Does she think she'd prefer it to being grounded? Has she heard friends talk about being spanked? Does she feel guilty about something? Does she think it would make the two of you closer as parent and child? Is she just really curious about what it would be like to get a spanking?
Hopefully, she will give some hint of her motivation. Then, you can consider if you're willing to actually spank her. Though I agree that you probably need to talk to your husband before any spanking happens, and she needs to know that, despite her wish for secrecy, you're not going to go behind her dad's back on something this important.
However you decide to proceed, I wish you the very best of luck. If you feel like sharing the outcome, I'd be very interested to know how it goes.
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