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Subject: Spanking as therapy Author: JenniAnn [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 02:36:58 02/09/24 Fri I was asked to start a thread on therapy spankings so I will tell a little how it is for me. When I am in a lot of tense or stressed I can feel that a good crying can be very relieving and what I really feel helpful is having a good cry while getting spanked over my hubby's knees. Or lying on the bed getting spanked depending on implement. He doesn't have to spank that hard but a good stinging helps bringing out the crying. He uses hand, hairbrush, rattan carpet beater and even a birch sometimes for this. Obviously he doesn't use full force with these but even a medium light birching can sting quite bad. (Another thing with the birch is that I really love feeling the sensation AFTER a medium light birching, it is like nothing else). A therapy spanking can really take long and is mixed with caresses and gentle pats. And this can make my cry even more. It always ends with me crying in his arms. Sometimes he holds my red butt cheeks while I cry in his arms and that's a truly wonderful feeling and it happens that I get so turned on that we end up making love. The ultimate ending after a therapy spanking. I feel SOOOOOO relieved after a therapy spanking, I feel like a new person almost. But I also think that somehow, this is a way for me to deal with the humiliating spankings I got from my parents. Is there anyone else who uses spanking as therapy and if so, are they similar or very different from mine? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Spanking as therapy Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:01:25 02/10/24 Sat I can see that working for me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Spanking as therapy Author: Daria [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:03:57 02/25/24 Sun Not the same. My husband spanks me over his lap, with hand. Firm, but nothing extreme. He spanks first my thighs and then my ass. He also spanks me in front of their parents and even in front of my parents. It can be considered as a therapy but rather as a family event. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Spanking as therapy Author: Jackson [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:46:12 02/25/24 Sun That's a thoughtful, honest post, thanks. My wife would agree with you, there's nothing like being spanked to tears as a good hard cry releases so many emotions/stress/guilt. You ask your hubby for a spanking? My wife doesn't ask out right but I can tell when she's overloaded and anxious . If I give her a warning, she will tell me she's okay or she will start pouting, teary eyed, blushing, "You aren't going to SPANK me are you!?" We both know she wants to be spanked. But, like you, she has some issues from her spankings growing up (don't we all?) and for her spankings are "no choice" punishments. I spank hard, she needs to be sobbing, but she tries to hold back her tears as long as she can. She says she feels safe with me and wants to be "brave." I know her mother spanked her harshly and my wife was often crying hard in fear even before her spanking started and her mother would tease her about being such a baby. When her beautiful bare behind is red hot enough she will break into crying - sometimes slowly sometimes in a burst of bawling. So nice (sexy) to be hugged and rubbed after, right? I just lift my wife, stand her between my knees while I caress her blazing buns and she hugs my face to her breasts. It's satisfying and exciting listening to her deep sobs slow and then she whines "how much it stings" while helpng me cup and rub her smooth warm ass. Bedtime! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanking as therapy Author: Daria to Jaskson [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:35:27 02/26/24 Mon You are doing a great job. I was spanked by both of my parents since I was a little girl so I know very well what your wife is talking about. Wish more married women are treated with so much love and to experience husbands' attention. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Spanking as therapy Author: Jackson [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:49:39 03/02/24 Sat Daria, Interesting your husband spanks you on your thighs first? Then spanks your bottom cheeks? Any reason? When I hand spank my wife, I usually start slowly and build up speed and severity. I smack randomly, both buns and tops of thighs, crisp smacking to make her behind bright red. If/when I spank with an implement, I'm more deliberate with aim and pace and generally give a certain number of swats/ Your spankings can be family affairs? How does that happen and how do you feel about being spanked in front of people? I know that was an issue for my wife growing up, and I've never spanked her with a witness. I do know my wife told her older sister that she gets spankings but I don't think her parents know. Thanks for sharing! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Spanking as therapy Author: daria to Jackson [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:37:11 03/03/24 Sun Interesting your husband spanks you on your thighs first? As I suppose, my husband is very systematic. Your spankings can be family affairs? How does that happen and how do you feel about being spanked in front of people? My husband spank you daughters in front of me and he spanks me in front of them, so yes, you are right, we may it consider as a family event or family business. It is very important for our daughters to learn that regular spankings is very normal, common and usual. That we females will be spanked during whole our life. Both of my parents spanked me and my sisters in front of other people. So, to be without panties over mom's or dad's lap is no big deal for me than. When my husband spanks me now in front of my parents, that's pretty okay, they did it when I was younger and they know very well what does it look like. When he spank me in front of his parents, we are not talking about the same situation. But I must obey. He also spanks me in front of both my and his parents. Our daughters also. The grandparents do like to watch their granddaughters disciplining. I must admit you: I also do like to watch when my husband spanks our daughters. But knowing I am the next ... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanking as therapy Author: Sunny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:26:38 03/04/24 Mon Daria, Sounds like my family. I was adopted from Korea as a baby and my American family is Christian with a big belief in corporal punishment. Also, male dominated so all females were spanked but not the boys after 12 yrs old. So I and my younger sister and my mother got spanked by dad and I could tell mother liked watching us get spanked but she hated when she got spanked in front of us. Your mom spanked you too? And she got spanked? Mother never spanked us but she would tell on us and she always watched our spankings. Plenty of other people witnessed us all bared and bawling too. How old are your daughters? Do you ever spank them? I know the embarrassment of bare bottomed spankings but I always wondered how my mother must have felt when she got spanked in front of us? You think your girls feel sorry for you? I admit I never felt sorry for mom when she got spanked! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanking as therapy Author: Sunny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:54:35 03/05/24 Tue Thanks for telling me! I always felt sorry for my sister (and cousins) when they got spanked. Even though I knew she deserved it, seeing and hearing her kicking and bawling with her bare butt turning so red made me feel sorry for her. Not so much when I was next - because then I'd be in just my panties squirming and dreading MY turn while watching my sister's spanking. Like you described, we got spanked youngest to oldest so when ever mom got spanked with us she had to watch and wait to be last - which I appreciated because it meant I got to see her spanking even if I was still weeping from my own. It's true we gals all show the "same thing" when bared for spankings but it feels WAY different when it's a spanking and we will be kicking and dancing in front of everyone! But I understand your girls are raised right so they know when YOU deserve to be spanked it's only fair. Personally, it was satisfying to see my mom take a spanking. She liked to get us spanked and we got many more spankings than she did, so it was like "special" when MOM got spanked in front of us. Especially if she got a bad one - hand spanked and then the strap. Because I could tell she didn't like crying in front of us so when dad really whipped her it was fascinating to see/hear her break down from gasping to pleading to bawling /begging. Just like we did while she smiled smugly at our antics. I envy you having such a close spanking relationship with your girls. But how do they feel about being spanked in front of people? And tell me more about when you get spanked in front of extended family? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanking as therapy Author: Daria to Sunny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:23:23 03/05/24 Tue Your mom spanked you too? Yes, my mother spanked me and my sisters regularly, about once or even twice a week. It was pretty much normal, common and usual in our family. Me and my sisters spent a lot of evenings in the nighties in the living room. with our mother. To take off my knickers and to lay over my mother's lap was an important part of our life. It increased the feeling of intimacy among us and made very strong bonds between me and my sisters. We had and we still have very close relationship. When I was dating my future husband, my mother explained him all about my regular spankings and showed him how she spanked me. She also told him that spanking me regularly was his duty from then on. How old are your daughters? My daughters are 12 and 10. I spank them regularly. They are usually without panties and I spank them over my lap, with hand. I also like to watch when my husband (their father) spanks them. I am pretty okay with the fact that our daughters can watch my spankings. We are females and we have the same organ down there, so they will not see anything unusual. My husband usually spanks me last, after them, so after a proper spanking, there is 3 red, warm and sore asses. Why should they feel sorry for me? We are females, we must obey and submit my husband to spank us whenever he wants to spank us. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]