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Date Posted: 12:21:23 03/10/24 Sun
Hello all,
I have a question, and a very important meeting ahead of me. To tell you about myself, I’m Isabella a mom to 14 year old son, who still needs to be spanked frequently. I believe that my spanking is as straightforward as it gets. Always on bare bottom, with my hand, and then with the oak hairbrush. Many hugs afterwards. My son is horrified being spanked. It’s embarrassing for him, and I admit, my spankings are long and painful.
I have a much younger sister who has 9 year old daughter, and she does not spank her. As a matter of fact, the discipline in their house is almost non-existent, and Julia takes an advantage of that.
Let me tell you why we are so different in our discipline methods. I had been raised by a spanking mother. Hand, and hairbrush on my bare bottom. I had been spanked between ages 5 to 16, where I had gotten my last spanking. My sister had been 6 at the time, and it’s funny because she had gotten her first, official, bare bottom, over the mom’s lap hand spanking. Following year, I believe she had a round over mom’s lap almost every week. It was quite typical. At 17, because I used to look after my sister often and she did not listen to me, mom allowed me to spank her myself. At first, I was holding back, but I quickly learned that my merciful approach resulted in poor discipline. Progressively I spanked my sister longer and harder, more often too. The situation lasted for 2 years. Our parents died in a car accident. I could not get a custody of my sister being 19 myself. Our aunt took us under her wing. It was difficult time for both of us, especially my 9 year old sister.
Everything changed about our lives. Discipline as well. My mom had been the only one who had spanked among our family. My aunt did not spank my sister. She forbade me from spanking her too. After our tragedy my sister became reserved, and she rarely got into any trouble. There was a naughty period in her life, and my aunt solved it with lots, and lots of talking and taking away her privileges.
Now, my sister is hesitant to spank Julia. The spanking in her own life stopped abruptly, and she cannot admit that it was good for her. She vaguely remembers it all. Julia is a sweet, lovely girl but she is also a brat. Always in trouble. Nothing works on her, and I have been having a hard time convincing my sister that she needs to be spanked. Preferably with the hairbrush already. There was an incident at her school. Julia has gotten in a fight and scratched her classmate’s cheek badly in the process. Well, girls always have hated each other, but the situation has been an eye opening moment for my sister.
It’s a touchy subject, and I want to write a lot of notes for my sister and explain her everything. I worry that otherwise I could have skipped something important. After years spanking is a day like any other for me and I do not need to think a lot about it. I thought about asking other people how my sister could have spanked her daughter. I will be honest with you I don’t have friends nor family who use spanking, and you never know, maybe I will learn a thing or two myself.
I would love to spank Julia myself, to show the ropes for my sister, but I truly believe that such an important first spanking is mother’s responsibility. I just hope that my sister will agree to my proposal and do everything right.
I know that my sister lacks knowledge in spanking, but also a proper lecture. One that is done calmly from a position of authority. I hope to include my process in steps, and I thought that having a greater perspective would be nice too. By the end of it I want my sister to know how to lecture, bare, spank, and cuddle afterwards with her daughter. I have always been spanking my son in bedroom, so although my sister could have heard his screams on few occasions, she has never gotten to witness it.
If you have any advice that would be great. If you could have written how you would have dealt with Julia that would be even better. I would love to hear how you lead from step to step resulting in a properly spanked bottom, and brighter future.
Thank you all, have a good day.
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