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Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Allison [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:10:37 04/28/24 Sun In reply to: Sarah 's message, "Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking" on 03:17:11 04/09/24 Tue Wow. I thought I was alone in this. These posts make me feel quite a bit more normal. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Sasha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:18:59 04/28/24 Sun Bailey and all, Definitely the "before" and "after" of my spankings were deliriously exciting. I would have done anything (except behave , apparently :) to avoid the unbearable STING of my spankings. But when I knew I was "in for it" my whole body would tingle, my heart would pound and my mind would race. Especially when I had to wait a bit, consumed with thoughts of how it would feel to be bared, taken over the lap, to get spanked to begging and bawling. What did y'all think about when facing a spanking? Like Bailey? How did you get spanked? I remember nervously conjugating the S-word in my head. Oh GOD NO! Not a SPANKING! I don't wanna get SPANKED. Then the helplessness, she IS going to SPANK me! I'd run through the entire "I'm too old for bare bottom spankings! But she's gonna pull my panties down! (Just thinking that made my panties dampen, against my will an uncontrollable rush of fear/shame/sexiness flooded my teen body. I'd rub my bottom cheeks in distress and my butt would feel so BIG! My face would feel hot. And my crotch would itch when I thought about brown curly bush sticking out and how hard with was going to be to resist covering my patch because I'm in for a ...a SPANKING! I'm gonna get SPANKED! Luna, you like the idea of a spanking by a friend's dad? What part most? For me it was being spanked in front of my younger step sister. It was a shameful dilemma because Oh My did I ever LOVE to see her spankings! I could hardly wait to rush off and masturbate every time, thoughtoften feeling guilty after. So when I saw my sister's eyes light up in joy when she knew I had a spanking coming and she would see it, I knew exactly how she felt. ( I don't thnkshe had ANY guilt!) That added to both my deep embarrassment and sexual thrill - realizing I'd be putting on a "sexy show" for her. She'd be wide-eyed and smirking, watching her mom pull my panties down, as anxious to see me spanked as I was about the terrible pain to come. That was the height of my pre-spanking excitement. Standing being scolded with my bush and buns on full display. I'd be shivering and trying to keep my legs clamped tight to hide my wetness. Once over the lap my only emotion was panic and regret, followed by desperate begging bawling kicking because HOLY HELL the sting burn of a bare bottom spanking! I couldn't STAND it and I screeched that over and over but still got roasted. But not long after, I'd be in bed/the bathroom, anywhere private, to furiously rub my soaking slit , replaying my spanking from the "OH NO!" to the "panties down" part over and over. Happy I'm not alone! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:02:53 04/29/24 Mon Sasha you summed it up perfectly, I don't have much to say except yup me too. If a sibling was getting it was pure excitement and anticipation and I think our whole house had a masturbation session after a spanking. One of us would get spanked, then all or at least most of the unspanked and I'm including mom in that would also go to our rooms for some alone time that I suspect strongly was masturbation time. My undies were soaked if I saw my brother or one of my sisters get spanked and I strongly suspect it was the same for my siblings. I wonder what mom thought when she did the laundry the next day. I'd say I dreaded spankings, I didn't like the during but did I ever like replaying it after it was over and the next few days thinking about it. I think we all daydream and fantasize about spankings. Scenarios with friends or others involved. I mean take sleepovers. I think we persist and make noise because it is exciting to push boundaries and then there is the excitement of you and your friends all getting spankings at the same time. Now you don't really want one yourself but it sure is exciting thinking about seeing all 2 or 3 of your girlfriends getting it. Your girlfriends are likely thinking the same thing so you persist and push until spankings are announced. Then the dread and excitement comes in, who is going first, I wonder how they will react, you check out each others parts and panties it is tremendously exciting. There is a whole lot of drama around spankings, my sisters and I kept quiet when and if their was trouble in our future, whereas my brother would tend to tip off or let us know that he was likely going to get a spanking. God I used to love the lead up to him getting spanked. There was always the I should of done x, or I shouldn't have done that, or why am I so lazy and I'd be thinking that mom is going to take down his undies and spank him bare right in front of all of us, I'd be getting wet in the lead up listening to him beat himself up. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Roger [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:05:52 04/30/24 Tue Vicky, Thanks for sharing. Did you ever have experience with a slumber party spanking? I only ever saw my step-sister spanked but I fantasized about seeing two or more girls get spankings. I remember that "spanking tension" when one of us (usually me) was "in for it." Especially bed time spankings, when everyone knew a spanking would happen that night, the culprit on pins-and-needles in fear/shame while the family was cheerfully anticipating watching us get spanked, bare bottom bawling and kicking. That's cute your brother openly fretted about his upcoming spanking. Is he older or younger? It does add to the excitement when the boy/girl is obviously dreading being spanked while others are eagerly imagining what their spanking will look/sound like. Like you and your sister, I tried to avoid people and hide my distress, but my older step sister often made little comments letting me know SHE knew I was going to get spanked and that she would be there to watch me get it. "Ohh...your mom said you're really gonna GET it tonight," or "I feel sorry for your butt, I can always see how much you HATE the hairbrush." Like you said, lots of drama, with me fully aware of how my sis was looking forward to seeing mom pull my underpants down and spank me silly. Sounds like your whole family understood such emotions, so your brother suspected your panties were damp when he was in for it? Was he as excited when you or your sister were bared? I obviously was when my step sit got it, even though her dad only hand spanked the seat of her panties. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Deaton to Roger [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:23:56 05/01/24 Wed I know all about the excitement over siblings spankings. When I was 12 my stepsis was 15. We actually got along great unlike many brothers and sisters that age. We were also both spanked with dad's very wicket small but thick long handled drilled paddle. We got it in our bedroom face down on the bed either nude from waist down or on occasion fully nude. Our parents always closed the door so the opposite sibling could hear but not witness the paddling. When a spanking was due there was tension. Spankings almost always occured right before bed with a choice to get it over with before or after showers. Sis went before showers as did I. So, on this particular night 15-year-old sis was going to get it. I was excited. I also felt bad for her knowing what that paddle felt like on the bare. At dinner she was calmly asked if she wished to get it over with before her shower. She already had some tears in her eyes when she replied before showers daddy. I was already stiff. Right before bed I was in the shower. Mom, dad, and sis were in her bedroom. I knew she was being lectured and was going to be told to get ready on her bed and then the paddling on her bare behind. As I emerged from the bathroom I heard the spanking in process. I also noticed that her door was not closed all the way. It was a few inches ajar. As I passed her room I had a perfect view of her bed. Sis happened to be fully nude face down as dad was applying the paddle to her plump full bare buttocks. I paused and watched the remainder of the paddling. How her ample buttocks shook and rippled each time that paddle landed. I headed quickly to my room right after dad applied the last swat. I went undetected. I still have vivid image of sis on her bed to this day. THis happened back in the mid 80's. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:33:12 05/01/24 Wed Roger: Very rarely were we made to wait for a spanking. If you got a spanking at bedtime it was for misbehavior at or very near bedtime. The only ones where there was some waiting involved would be if it was announced when we were in the car on the road somewhere. Most of those it was me getting it as I was the youngest and more apt to misbehave especially when bored. I was the youngest of 4, my brother was about 6 years older than me. I didn't really make a lot of comments but I'm pretty sure I'd have a smug little smile on my face when he told me of his impending doom. The anticipation of it is exciting when it is someone else on the receiving end. I don't know if he suspected my panties were damp when he got it. I'm pretty sure he'd be excited too when it was us. As I think I said earlier after a spanking, the other siblings and sometimes mom too would go to their room for some private alone time, and I know there was some masturbation going on amongst me and my sisters, and likely my brother and mom as well. I mean mom wasn't much of a napper so it seems to me today kind of bizarre why she'd want some alone time after if she wasn't masturbating. Slumber party spankings, there were a few but siblings weren't waken up to do any viewing. Most of them were just one of us and one friend, however Emily once got one along with 2 friends and a cousin, they all sat pretty carefully next day and complained about their bottoms. I was young then only about 6, she would have been about 11. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Rebecca [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:21:42 05/08/24 Wed Vicky, I am sorry for not knowing your situation. But I was wondering whether you spank your kiddos. Mine are now grown, but I admit to getting some sexual excitement from it. I believe in spanking, and don't think mine were ever unfairly spanked, but I would be lying if I did not admit there was some sexual satisfaction in it! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:13:12 05/08/24 Wed Rebecca: My kids are grown now, but yes I did spank my kids. Not nearly as often as we got it growing up but yes, somewhat. So far as sexual satisfaction I would say it depended on the context of the spanking itself as well as the attitude of the child. The ones where there was a degree of excitement, were the ones when I had a truly remorseful, guilty child on my hands. I especially liked it when I had a kid that expected it and didn't try to fight it in any way. Complete submission and acceptance by the child that the spanking was called for and needed. Now they don't say it was needed before the spanking but you can read their body language and if they don't argue or plead in any way, you kind of get a feeling that they have a lot of guilt. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Rebecca [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:05:03 05/09/24 Thu Vicky, I know what you mean about the remorseful child. One of our daughters was that way. She was the only one of our five who would, without prodding or ordering, bare her rear, and she would quietly sob before the spanking not dramatic hysterics. I believe she got the most out of the punishment -- a catharsis and penance perhaps. She is a mom herself now, and one of her generation who is a confirmed spanker. I think I probably spanked as much as my mother did. In college, under the indoctrination of liberal professors and fellow students (along with my mixed erotic type feelings about it) I vowed to be a modern no spanking parent. After getting married and having children, I tried hard to keep that vow. But by the time our oldest was six it was obvious it was not working. Perhaps I did not try "gentle parenting" hard enough but I never have regretted my decision to be more strict, including spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:05:55 05/09/24 Thu I do like a remorseful one for sure. I think I sort of like the feeling that the spankee is in full agreement with the spanking itself. Then afterwords I'm thinking he or she really needed that one and I'm kind of excited replaying it in my mind. My son was more like this than my daughter, although she was remorseful a handful of times as well. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Rebecca [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:03:35 05/09/24 Thu I was always excited when one of my siblings was getting a spankings (or a kid at school was paddled) but I never was happy they were getting it. As far as masturbating, that only happened in my imaginative scenarios when I was beyond the spanking age. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Sasha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:27:30 05/09/24 Thu Vicky, Yes, we share that explicit embarrassment/excitement surrounding our spankings. And it does add to it when knowing your spanker/witnesses were equally thrilled at our expense! Besides your mom needing a "nap" after giving a spanking to any of you, did she "hide" that fact she was enjoying the moment? Or was she like my sister, who was openly gleeful when she knew she would see my panties pulled down for a spanking and through the whole embarrassing process. I was too shy/guilty to show my true feelings when I saw my sister get spanked, but inside I was thrilled to my core - literally :-) As for fantasies, care to share yours? In junior high one of my BIG fantasies was being spanking in front of my teachers. It never happened, but more than once at a parent/teacher meeting mom would assure my teachers that ANY bad report about my behavior could mean "Sasha may have trouble sitting comfortably in class" the next day! At 12/13 I'd blush three shades of red having my teachers basically TOLD they could get me spanked! Sometimes I'd be falling asleep, thinking about my handsome math teacher or pretty PE coach and put my hand between my legs to fantasize how it would feel to be bare bottom spanked in front of them. Plus, I'd often try to picture friends of mine being spanked, especially cute boys being spanked by their moms in front of me....yummy! Anyone else have such fantasies? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:32:55 05/11/24 Sat Sasha: I would say she tried to hide the fact she enjoyed it but at times she wasn't very good at hiding it. Sometimes if me or one of my siblings was pleading a lot or something not to be spanked or not to be bared, a smug smile or start of one anyway would come out and she'd tell us the spanking was going to happen and we could comply and submit or have a worse spanking. I think she liked the complete control she had for sure. As for spanking fantasies yes I had many. They usually involved either people I really liked a lot or people I despised. The ones I despised were getting a really humiliating spanking in front of a lot of witnesses. The ones with people I really liked started with thinking about how cute their butts were, then I'd imagine some scenario where they were in a lot of trouble, and of course I'd be there to witness the whole thing. There were a couple boys who I knew got spanked, and if I knew it I'd tend to fantasize a whole lot more about them. One of the 2 was really cute I fantasized about him all the time. I still fantasize somewhat today. Do you ever walk around a grocery store or the mall or something and imagine yourself either spanking or getting spanked by the people wandering by. I do, and somehow I see certain people as spankers and others not that way. Do I have any idea on my accuracy on this? Of course not but sometimes I'll see someone and I'll picture myself across his or her knee. Other times I will see a group of teens and pick one or two out in my mind that I'd like to spank. I don't know exactly what my basis for choosing some and not others is sometimes it is their bottom itself, other times it is an attitude they give off [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Rebecca [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:12:15 05/11/24 Sat As I have said I did get a certain amount of this kind of pleasure spanking my kids. I never masturbated or got wet, it was just a good feeling combined with a "job well done" feeling, since I was (and am) a believer in the disciplinary spanking of children. At the same time I did not like causing pain to my kids. But I could relate since I had often been in their spot when I was a kid. So I was ready to comfort and talk about how we could avoid this in the future. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Markus [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:27:24 05/11/24 Sat I do not fantasize much about people I see around me when I am out and about. Dramatic circumstances are the key. There needs to be a real-life reason for punishment. Why it brings pleasure, I can't say, but I get excited about disciplinary spanking of teenagers for juvenile delinquency or harmful misbehavior. I believe that strict old-fashioned parenting can make a real positive difference when it is applied fairly and with genuine concern for the child — and that is what they are — children. Until the child leaves home, discipline is designed to instill the lesson that mom and dad are the adults who make the rules, and the child is still the child who obeys the rules. This ritual of discipline is very difficult and humbling for a modern teen, but sometimes a clear transformation is necessary. Spanking is the most effective method to intimately connect parent with child and, as applied psychology, to separate a young person from bad influences outside the home. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Rebecca [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:08:21 05/12/24 Sun I am a big believer in spanking, and am dismayed at how effective the no-spanking movement has been with our woke generations (although there are exceptions like my kids, who are now pro-spanking parents). Of our five kids only two needed spankings past age thirteen, one not long but one did not get her last until seventeen (same as her mom lol). But I know back in my day there was more corporal punishment of delinquent teenagers -- particularly in reformatories and behavioral programs. The current younger generation definitely needs more discipline instilled somehow! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Markus [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:45:12 05/12/24 Sun There were reformatories and behavioral programs for delinquents in my day. They were necessary, but I can't say how effective they were. Many who needed them were not raised well by strict caring parents. Spanking is a key ingredient in effective discipline, and I feel it must be administered in a loving environment where kids learn that spanking is the expected consequence of misbehavior. Unless the child accepts the discipline as fair, it can lead to rebellion. If a child is not raised right from a relatively early age, is it too late for a teenage delinquent? In adolescence, well-raised kids can sometimes turn towards bad influences, and this is where caring parents should step up. Either continue with strict parenting methods, or go back to what was effective at younger ages as the case may be. However, if delinquency has become a hardened part of one's character, then I'm not so confident that spanking will change much. I'm not sure what any of this has to do with masturbating after a punishment spanking, but here we are. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Sasha [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:54:01 05/11/24 Sat Vicky, Yes, just having mom all calm and cool when about to spank us was a contrast with our panic and dread. She acted like it was "no big deal - just a spanking" but I was overwhelmed with shame and fear as she prepared me to be spanked bare bottom. And her complete disregard of my modesty, "Stand still so I can pull your panties down Missy," she'd say when I was pleading, "I don't want a spanking Please don't SPANK me!" By the time she was taking me across her knees it was like one long word, "Idon'twannaspankingIdonwannaspankn" Funny you fantasized about seeing someone you disliked suffer really shameful spankings - like how? I had nightmares - no fun at all - about being spanked in front of a neighborhood bully girl. One of my goals was that she never found out I got spanked at home. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you or did you masturbate after a punishment spanking Author: Rebecca [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:36:03 05/12/24 Sun A parent should be calm when spanking. It is those who strike their child in rage and anger who are the problem -- at best they are sending the wrong harmful message. At worst it leads to both physical and emotional abuse. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]