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Subject: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Lexiewheeler [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:21:11 01/19/25 Sun Growing up, my four brothers and I were spanked often. Mom mostly used a wooden spoon or her ivory hairbrush. My dad and grandpa (who lived on the property with us) would also spank us with their belt or a strap that was kept in our barn tack room. I was the only girl but I never felt like I got it �easier� so to speak. I got my bare ass worn out with the belt just like my brothers. Any one else get it like that? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:23:26 01/19/25 Sun What was it like to get spanked in the barn tack room? That sounds really scary! Did you get spanked separately from your brothers, or did you all get spanked together in front of one another. It seems like that must have been scary to know that your dad was going to spank your bare bottom with the leather strap just like he spanked your brothers. Did you and your brothers have blistered bottoms? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:35:00 01/19/25 Sun I saw a drawing one time of a dad giving bare bottom spankings to two little boys in a barn horse stall. The boys were bent over sawhorses and crying with a lot of tears with their red bare butts high in the air and their arms and legs waving around while their dad was spanking them with a long leather belt. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Lexiewheeler [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:43:05 01/19/25 Sun My dad would make us drop our pants and underwear and bend over holding our knees. My grandpa would allow us to bend over something like the counter or a bench. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Lexiewheeler [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:38:35 01/19/25 Sun I only got a few in the barn but it was embarrassing and awful because I knew anyone that was around working outside would hear it. I also knew going to the barn meant the strap which was more painful than a regular belt because it was wider and would cover more with each lick. If I ever got in trouble with one of my brothers we would both be spanked one after the other but not in the same room or at the same time. We all heard each other getting it though. It was a scary tearful walk to the barn and yes my butt would be blistered and swollen when it was over. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:28:41 01/19/25 Sun I would be terrified if I had to walk to the barn for a spanking, especially if I knew I would be told to pull down my pants and panties out there so I could be spanked on my bare butt with the leather strap. I would be crying before I even got there. When you were walking to the barn and crying were you asking your dad not to spank you or would it have been a waste of time and have made it worse? That must have been super embarrassing seeing all the people working outside see you being marched to the barn by your daddy or grandpa while you were crying and looking frightened and you knowing that everyone working outside was going to hear your bare bottom spanking. They all must have heard the spanks on your bare skin and your crying. I bet everyone stopped to listen. I would have stopped to listen. Did your dad or grandpa administer a lot of spanks? Did you have to pull your clothes back up right after your spanking or could you wait a little bit until your bottom didn't hurt so much so you could walk back and not have tears in your eyes. I would be super super embarrassed to walk back knowing that everyone around had just heard me crying loudly while my daddy whipped my bare bottom. How old were you when you got spanked in the barn the first time? How old were you when you got your last spanking in the barn? I don't think I could ever take a spanking when bending over and grabbing my knees with my panties down. Spankings hurt too much and I kick and scream too much and would want to jump up all the time and rub my burning bare butt. Did you ever jump up and rub your bare butt when you were being spanked bent over holding your knees? Did your dad ever spank any of your friends? It would have been really scary being your friend and being marched to the barn with you so your daddy could give us both bare bottom spankings to blisters and burning red hot. I would have definitely done the spanking dance after being spanked with you by your daddy. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Lexiewheeler [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:46:54 01/19/25 Sun I would be blubbering long before the spanking started. I would always beg not to be spanked but I knew it was useless. I still did it though! The second I was told I was getting spanked I would start crying and pleading. It was extremely humiliating walking down crying and pleading for mercy. The lecture on the way there made it much worse especially when they would say they were gonna whip me, blister my butt etc out loud where others could hear. No doubt everyone knew what was about to happen and they definitely knew what was happening during. I�m sure the whole ranch could hear me getting my butt strapped. I heard my brothers getting it plenty of times and I know I cried a lot louder. I�d be wailing and sobbing by the time it was over. Dad was a rapid fire spanker and he gave 25-30 depending on the offense. Grandpa always gave more but there was never a set number. He spanked until the lesson was learned. As soon as it was over I�d be told to stand up and get my pants back up. Then I�d get another lecture and a hug and be sent back to play or do chores. That was terribly embarrassing to have to go and face everyone and work with them right after. I was about 9-10 when I got my first strapping for wandering where I knew I wasn�t supposed to be on our property. Last one was at 16 for lying to my dad. Bending over holding your knees is a very painful position and it was always hard to stay still. Dad was always telling me to bend back over and stick my bottom back out. No he never whipped any of my friends but my grandad whipped my cousin and I one after the other once. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Patrick [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:16:19 06/15/25 Sun Allison,my sister got spanked bare ass Dad's belt, in the living room in front of me 100s of times,she was 13 to 18. Dad told her embarrassed factor was part of it,this was back in 1970s [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Caitlyn D [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:13:56 01/19/25 Sun My dad spanked me with his belt over my sweatpants one time when I was 12 or 13. My godfather never used a belt and thank god as the spatula was bad enough. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Lexiewheeler [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:17:22 01/19/25 Sun What kind of spatula? My mom used a wooden spoon sometimes and it hurt like hell. I never got the belt over clothes. Always bare and it was pure agony. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:37:31 01/19/25 Sun My mom and dad use a wooden spoon on me and my sisters and it is pure torture. We only get spanked on the bare bottom with our pants down or skirts up and panties removed. Me and my sisters cry like crazy and need to be held down on the mom or dad's knee so we don't jump up and run away like we want to. We do jump around and rub our red butts after our spankings but the spoon marks stay for several days. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Caitlyn D [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:19:32 01/19/25 Sun It was thick, heavy wooden one with holes in it. He used it on his kids growing up and then on me. Sounded like a gun shot when that hit the bare skin. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Lexiewheeler [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:21:48 01/19/25 Sun Ouch. Yep wooden spoon spankings could be heard all through the house. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:42:06 01/19/25 Sun Even if only one of me or my sisters gets spanked upstairs in our bedroom everyone can hear the spoon smacking the girl's bare bottom everywhere in the house and the loud screaming and crying. It makes me both super nervous to hear one of my sisters getting spanked, but also very excited. Did either of you ever feel excited to see or hear a sibling or someone else being spanked on their bare bottom and hear their crying and yelling in pain? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Beth Swikart [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:47:05 01/20/25 Mon When my younger brother got a bare bottom over the knee Spanking when he was 5.he got about 15smacks just with the hand he was crying after each smack. When the spanking was over he went to his bedroom to finish crying. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Lexiewheeler [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:11:26 01/20/25 Mon When my mom said �go get me a spoon and come here� we would all instantly start apologizing. But once we pushed her that far there was no getting out of it. She would makes up drop our pants right in the kitchen/lining room, wherever bend us over and blister our bare butts with that spoon. The same when you really messed up and earned a trip over her knees for her ivory hairbrush. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:49:48 06/15/25 Sun That's how it has to be. If a punishment is imposed, you must not be able to beg it away. Of course, the children always try. They start crying, begging, promising to do better long before the knickers are even down. But if you then give in, spankings are of no use in education. There should be nothing in the world that the little ones more fear than the next spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 For Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:14:00 06/16/25 Mon " There should be nothing in the world that the little ones more fear than the next spanking. " I certainly fell into this category. The very thought of my next spanking scared me and really was at the top of list of things to avoid at all costs. The promise of a spanking was foremost in my mind until it happened. Of course, more than once I attempted to be SOOOO Good that it was cancelled. I don't recall ever having a spanking officially called off but I did always try to earn such a cancellation. A certain way to NOT obtain a cancellation was to remind your parent of the promise and then to inquire whether your good behavior had been good enough to excuse you. THAT never worked! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:03:25 06/16/25 Mon The psychologists claim that there are three crucial elements to using punishment: promptness, severity, and certainty. Clearly households that keep the current spanking implements on display and thus ready to hand enable all three elements. Having a special hook for the cane, strap, or spoon enables all three elements: the implement is ready to hand and thus the spanking can be prompt; lengthy and strong implements like the spoon and the cane rarely break and neither will a for-spanking-only strap. Each can be used firmly and as severely as the offense requires. Finally, parents' resisting the desperate pleas not to be spanked ensures the third element, namely the certainty. Gisela grew up with all three and to my mother's credit, so did I. Not my favorite thing knowing that the spanking yardstick was handy but its length and availability fulfilled the elements of effective punishment. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:17:20 06/16/25 Mon I think most parents soon learn that threatened but cancelled spankings very quickly become empty, vain threats and thus lose their effect. The temptation for the child to simply take a chance adds to the hope of not getting caught. And so the threat suddenly no longer seems quite so terrible as when every spanking is reliably carried out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:34:51 01/23/25 Thu I got the strap from my father. I'd have to lift the back of my skirt or dress and lay face down on the bed. Then he'd whip me on my panties and the back of my thighs. I would scream and cry but I don't think it ever softened his heart. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Lexiewheeler [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:53:55 01/28/25 Tue Sorry you had to deal with that. My parents were always good about making sure we knew we were loved after spankings. I always got lots of cuddles from them both afterward if I wanted them. I was the only girl so I was unofficially the favorite Atleast where my dad and grandpa were concerned so I always got extra hugs a few days after I was punished and we had our �man to man� talks as my dad called them lol [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:12:36 01/29/25 Wed I could confide in my mom. She spanked me more often but she always ended it with loving words and a back and shoulder rub. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Lexiewheeler [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:39:44 01/29/25 Wed Good. That�s the best part is the forgiveness and affection in the after [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Bailey Dale [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:52:12 02/03/25 Mon My stepdad spanked me with a belt a few times. It hurt but not too bad because he only gave me 3-4 licks. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Brittney [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:33:47 02/05/25 Wed I still do when I need to be punished! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Qualche altra ragazza è stata frustrata con una cintura/cintura crescendo? Author: Cristina [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:46:25 05/27/25 Tue Anche io purtroppo ho sperimentato più volte il fienile per le punizioni …ho 18 anni ma finché vivo in famiglia le regole sono regole 😭😭😭😭ieri sera è stata L ultima volta che di recente ho preso la cinghia nel fienile 😭e stato dolorosissimo 😭 [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Qualche altra ragazza è stata frustrata con una cintura/cintura crescendo? Author: Jan to Lexiewheeler [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:29:07 05/28/25 Wed Hi Lexie, Yes, I'm 16 and I get it with my dad's oiled leather strap. It is just hell!!!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:22:10 05/29/25 Thu My dad used his belt on me and my sister, over our panties. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Jan to Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:46:00 05/29/25 Thu You and your sis are sooooooo lucky, not that your spankings don't suck but I get my dads leather strap on the bare. Absolute hellfire. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for Jan and Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:10:04 05/29/25 Thu Most schools banned more than one pair of panties. Do you think you could tell the difference between one and none? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Jan to Alfred [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:01:02 05/29/25 Thu I don't get it at school and at home it's on the bare so I don't have a panties option. To answer your question a full cut pair of panties might offer some protection compared to on the bare. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:29:05 06/15/25 Sun I was mostly spanked with my panties on, I remember getting the belt once while wearing a thong, I would say a pair of full cut panties does offer some protection from the belt verses bare. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Jan R to Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:38:18 06/15/25 Sun Hi Caroline, Did you notice a big difference. I have always been spanked and now strapped on the bare so I have nothing to gauge by. Was it more embarrassing getting it in a thong. BTW I would definitely be spanked for wearing thong underwear. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:06:51 06/15/25 Sun I wouldn't say there was a huge difference, but it was the only time I got the belt on the bare, but panties do provide some protection I think. My parents wouldn't let me wear thongs until I was 16, I was 18 at the time of the 'bare' whipping. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Jan to Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:25:56 06/15/25 Sun Hi Caroline, I'm 16 now and no thong here. Full cut but I don't mind. They are comfortable. Did you cry hard when you got that bare whipping at 18? What did you do? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Dimmerdork to Jan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:37:49 06/15/25 Sun I’ve chatted with a few parents who require thongs for spankings, but leave them on to preserve modesty. Of course, I’ve also chatted with some who say they’d blister their daughters good if they ever caught them wearing what they consider to be “inappropriate” panties…sounds like your parents fall into the latter category… What are you allowed to wear? “Anything but” thongs, or are your “rules” mor restrictive than that…? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Caroline to Jan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:29:42 06/17/25 Tue Oh yes I was bawling, it was bad. I came home very late and was was drunk and high and ended up telling my dad to fuck off during the lecture. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Jan R to Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:12:06 06/18/25 Wed OMG if I told my dad that during a lecture I would be soooooo dead. What made you do that? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Caroline to Jan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:46:36 06/19/25 Thu idk I guess I was drunk and not really thinking. I soon regretted it and everything else I had done that evening though. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Jan R to Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:23:14 06/19/25 Thu I assume your dad got plenty of use of his belt that night. My dad would have strapped me raw for talking to him like that not to mention how bad it would be for me had I come home with alcohol breath. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Caroline to Jan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:48:06 06/19/25 Thu You assume right, he really tore my ass up that night. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Dan (to Caroline) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:51:23 06/19/25 Thu I can't believe you did that either! What did your dad do?? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Caroline to Dan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:01:33 06/22/25 Sun He gave me the spanking of a lifetime. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Jan R to Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:54:05 06/24/25 Tue If I understand right, you were wearing a thong when you got that whipping which would have been your first and maybe only on the bare. I wonder if your dad was glad you were in a thong so he could really tear up your bare for using the F word. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Caroline to Jan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:42:04 06/24/25 Tue Yes correct that was only time I was belted on the bare, I rarely wear thongs but I happened to be wearing one that night. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Jan to Caroline [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:30:43 06/27/25 Fri Hi Caroline, Did you ask to change into a pair of full cut before your whipping. I have only gotten it on the bare and it is truly hell on earth. Did you notice a difference? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Caroline to Jan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:26:40 06/27/25 Fri jan, No I didn't I figured it would be useless to and I knew I deserved what I was about to get. The leather on bare skin did feel different, yes. Definitely seemed to sting a little more but it could have also been how hard dad was hitting me. That was probably the worst whipping of my life. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for Jan R [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:29:44 06/15/25 Sun I now think that even though under laboratory conditions where he could rule out the psychological effects of the comfort of a pair of full-cut women's panties and just measure the physical effects of e.g. a cane stroke on a bare bottom versus the effects of a similar force cane stroke on a bottom "protected" by a thin layer of cotton from say a pair of full-cut Fruit of the Loom's, we would find them to be almost identical. Loosely speaking, the fast moving cane shaft end and tip would just burn through the cotton panties. But spankings do not occur in the lab and clearly many people think that they would help. And, in a case like this, thinking it to be true tends to make it true in "reality." So I agree with Jan R. and now would argue that for maximum effect and sting, moms should spank bare bottom. Getting it bare bottom was always my mother's nuclear option. She was very sure that bare bottom made a hugh difference! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:53:55 06/15/25 Sun From my experience, I don't believe that thin cotton underwear makes any real difference in terms of pain perception. At least not when the spanking is administered with a wooden spoon, paddle, belt, or even a cane. I don't have any reliable experience in this area, as in my family we always got spanked / spank on the bare bottom, except for the occasional friendly pat. First and foremost, there are probably two differences. From the child's point of view, spanking on the underwear at least preserves the visual protection of the rather intimate parts of the body such as the buttocks, genitals, or even the butt hole. This reduces the feeling of shame, total defenselessness, and utter helplessness that always overwhelms you when you are being spanked. From the perspective of the person administering the punishment, a completely naked bottom makes it easier to assess the effect, as the condition of the skin and bumcheeks is more visible. And, of course, there is also the combination where the punisher deliberately wants to induce this feeling of shame, helplessness and defenselessness as part of the punishment. Be that as it may, after the first few spanks, I didn't really care about the dress code of my butt anyway. I had other things to worry about. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:44:53 06/17/25 Tue Ho Gisela. Your observation is spot on. Having to lift my dress and getting spanked on my panties was shameful enough. Having my bottom bared was even more so. Hence my mother used that option for serious offenses such as lying, deliberate disobedience or disrespect. Spankings for issues of responsibility were almost always over my panties. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Brittney [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:56:42 06/15/25 Sun I still get the belt. I got a whipping almost two weeks ago. My dad wore my bottom out 😭 [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:27:04 06/15/25 Sun Hello Brittney, What did you do to deserve such a punishment from your father? How do you feel about this form of punishment? Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Warm regards, Gisela [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:54:51 06/15/25 Sun How good to see you, Gisela. For a while you seemed to have stopped contributing. I especially noticed your absence and worried that you had permanently departed. I greatly enjoy your direct and honest comments. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela to Alfred [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:43:31 06/16/25 Mon Thank you for your kind words, Alfred. I don't believe in sugarcoating things. Children are naturally reckless and prone to disobedience, and spanking helps them learn to behave and take responsibility for their actions. There's no need to make a big deal out of it, but it shouldn't be shamefully concealed either. I also greatly appreciate your contributions. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Marla to Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:03:23 06/16/25 Mon You and my mom would get along. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela to Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:52:14 06/17/25 Tue I'll take that as a compliment. Your mother seems to be a reasonable, experienced woman. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Marla to Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:01:42 06/17/25 Tue Yeah you would get along alright. I'm glad you aren't around here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela to Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:45:59 06/18/25 Wed Well, Marla, you're not alone in that. Many a naughty girl would have been a lot more glad if I hadn't been there. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Marla to Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:19:41 06/18/25 Wed Reading that literally made me grab by bottom! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela to Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:16:14 06/18/25 Wed That sounds like a guilty conscience, young Lady. If one of my children reflexively put their hands in front of their bottom in my presence, I always knew that it wouldn't be long before the next thrashing was due. Often all it took was a forceful question and the truth would come out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:31:07 06/18/25 Wed NO don't "young lady" me please! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela to Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:58:37 06/18/25 Wed Ok - maybe you'd like to tell us occasionally why this phrase triggers you so much.That sounds like a story. By the way, as I will soon be 70, most people are quite young for me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Brittney to Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:24:05 06/16/25 Mon I was Smart mouthing my mom over chores and that's a guaranteed spanking. I hate getting spanked but I'm ok with it. It's better than getting grounded. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela to Brittney [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:37:13 06/17/25 Tue Well Brittney, maybe you're just saying what your father expects you to say. Then I don't have to judge that. Otherwise, however, I would have to assume that your whipping was not nearly strict enough. None of our children would have honestly said "I'm ok with it..." after I or my husband had punished them with the cane or strap. But of course the question wasn't fair in that respect either. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:39:38 06/21/25 Sat I do admire your approach to discipline. I would describe it as: FAIR and FIRM. When you mentioned that none of your children would assert that they were "OK with it (their spanking) ..." I am sure that what your children would mean is that their spanking was quite firm and that their bottom had not returned to a neutral or OK state. In short, they got a good one and they were still feeling it. As we all know, spanking works both by the memory of getting it AND by the tingling and smarting that is the gift that keeps on giving, perhaps for a day or so. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela for Alfred [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:35:28 06/22/25 Sun Well, if you had given one of our children the choice of having their butts tanned as punishment or being grounded, doing chores, having their pocket money taken away, or something similar instead, they would always have gladly chosen the second option. But of course they didn't have the choice, any more than my grandchildren do today. That was decided solely by my husband or me. A brief reference to the cane was often enough to bring about the desired change in behavior. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:35:37 06/24/25 Tue I am sure that both generations your family have vivid memories of what even one cane stroke does to their bottom. Each stroke is a serious punishment; that is the reason that canings can often be enumerated on the fingers of just one hand. I suspect an explicit, albeit brief, hint that their current behavior might lead to a touch of the cane was highly influential. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela for Alfred [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:48:38 06/25/25 Wed In fact, we could count the number of strokes of the cane we received on the fingers of one or at least both hands. Three, six, eight or ten were the normal punishment levels, in very rare cases a dozen. Sometimes one or two extra, because we made too much of a fuss during the punishment. And of course there wasn't a caning every week or so. On average over the years, I would estimate every three months per child, sometimes more often, sometimes less often. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:08:40 06/25/25 Wed I do hope, given how much even a single stroke of the cane hurts, that you learned how to avoid being in trouble. The thought of four minimal encounters (4 x 3) with the cane every year has me rubbing my bottom and wondering how many cane strokes you have felt growing up in total! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela for Alfred [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:05:45 06/25/25 Wed A question, Alfred, that I have never actually asked myself so specifically. I discussed this with my sister on the phone yesterday, and she said that my estimate (every three months) was perhaps a little high. We agreed on three sessions per year and an average of seven strokes per session over the years. I'm pretty sure I won't have received three cane punishments by the age of 10, and by the age of 19 there was definitely only one – the last one from my father. So, very, very roughly estimated, there were about 180 cane strokes in my youth spread over almost ten years. That sounds much more violent than I remember it. You can avoid trouble simply by strictly obeying explicit instructions and otherwise asking yourself before every decision what your dad, or whoever corrects your decisions on your bare bottom with the cane, would expect of you. You don't always answer this question correctly, sometimes even deliberately. But the expectations and standards of your disciplinarian become a very defining element in your life. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela for Alfred [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:16:36 06/25/25 Wed And yes, even a few strokes with the cane can be extremely painful. Even if it didn't always work, we did everything we could to prevent it from getting that far. Being rude to my father would have been unthinkable. And our children also learned in good time to respect our rules and take them seriously. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Ashley [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:07:33 06/21/25 Sat Oh yes I have gotten my dad's belt on my bare bottom. I know I did deserve it, and I know my parents love me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:16:03 06/21/25 Sat Ashley how old are you? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: TNGal [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:55:46 06/21/25 Sat Oh yes, the belt was the big gun when we really screwed up and as an add on of we had lied about something. Bare butt either bending over grabbing the seat of a chair or lying over the end of the bec. Last one for me was 17. My youngest sister got it from mom at 19 [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for TNGal [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:22:03 06/24/25 Tue Single Moms such as yours are fairly notorious for spanking really firmly. When you felt the belt as an add on, what had you already had? She was a no-nonsense gal, your Mom. How long could you feel these doubles? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: TNGal [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:11:06 06/24/25 Tue By the time I was introduced to the belt, I had "graduated" from wooden spoon to the hair brush, which packed much more of a wallop, so it was almost always after the brush. I remember a couple times in my early teens, she used her leather sandal on me and I got the belt after that. A double of brush and belt I would definitely still feel the next day, and a couple times still had marks. – Abby [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for TNGal (Abby) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:53:02 06/27/25 Fri It was not always the same. Sometimes it felt worse than it looked. Other times the opposite. I think the tingle lasted longer than the pink lines when it was the belt. But there was little you could do to speed up their disappearance. I do think, although it annoys me, that those lingering feelings of "Somethings not normal back there!" are how it works to improve character and behavior. When it does that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: TNGal [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:52:56 06/28/25 Sat Yes, I think I get what you are saying. Remembering what that sensation felt like long after it had disappeared definitely made me reconsider my decisions later. Unfortunately, sometimes I decided the risk was worth it and I repeated the same behavior. - Abby [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for TNGal (Abby) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:59:43 06/28/25 Sat We had the belt line gauntlet in my scout troop and on my last camping trip ever, I yielded to temptation and chopped through a cypress-knee to free a boat. Scout leaders are fanatics about waterfront problems so when I and a younger kid were detected trying to propel the boat with long poles, we got lectured about the oath we had recited at almost every meeting and then sentenced to run a short beltline. Not every member went on this trip. Nonetheless we felt it and since it was a chilly Spring night, I remember so clearly going from cold to stinging hot in my bottom. "Or as I put it to myself: So cold and then sooo hot! What I think is most interesting about my memory is that what was I thinking the whole time I was whacking away at the cypress knee? It was certain that we would be caught. I think you are right, there was an outside chance we could get away with it. The trip was boring and so I must have reasoned that the adventure of poling a batteau would be so much fun ... How clear was spanking in your memory? I do think "refreshers" make it much easier to resist temptation. It had been years since I had had to run a beltline. They were quite intense doubled-belt whacks since you got a start lick when you were standing in that bent over your knees position holding or trying to hold your ankles. Then you ran down a double line or members who tried to spank you with their belts as you ran by. This has long been banned by the National Organization. But in its day, you got thirty whacks in six seconds or so and you felt the effects overnight and on the day after, at least. So, it is the perfect case for the "What were you thinking?" inquiry! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Belle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:30:08 06/28/25 Sat Mom was more the hand, brush, spoon spanker. Grandma was similar but also used the paddle. Dad and Grandpa favored the belt. They particularly aimed for the thighs. Which made wearing shorts in the summer impossible with welted thighs. They’d start at the top of my bottom and work their way down to my thighs then back up and down a few times. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]