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Subject: Lots of talking

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Emmie Sue

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Date Posted: 07:23:31 06/18/24 Tue

Hiya. Summer is already about a 1/3 over and shit is just moving so fast. I have to decide pretty quick what I'm going to do. My professor has made it abundantly clear that she will grant my wish or rather what I've always fantasized my wish is. Yesterday I was chatting with my professor and we were getting serious, like way beyond the fantasy stage and in the reality stage. She said "This is not play. I don't play. You understand that you will be living under MY roof and will follow MY rules and will face MY consequences. YOU will not make the rules. You will not set the limits. You will not do it on YOUR time when YOU feel like it the way YOU want it. You will accept the responsibility, the discipline and the consequences. You must FULLY understand that." You know how when shit gets real and you feel sick and you can't focus your eyes because everything starts to look distorted like your under water and sinking to the bottom of the pool. That was me. I mean it's ultimately my decision. If I pass it up I may never know what I think I've always wanted. I mean the fantasies and the spankings or whatever are really enticing but I don't know if I can really handle a 'disciplined' lifestyle and face the consequences.

Last night me and my mom had a serious, I mean really serious talk. I have the suspicion that my professor and my mom have been talking and my mom knows everything. I mean everything. So my mom said virtually the same thing my professor said. She also said that you can't go part of the way with it. My final decision is final. And it's completely my decision. She said that if I decide "Yeah, this isn't really what I want." mommy and daddy wont bail me out this time. Not like they're abandoning me and she's not being judgemental about my fantasies or anything, like they will always be there for me and support me but if like I get spanked or something (and my mom never actally said the "S" word) but as far as where I live and how I choose to live is up to me. Like they wont find me another place to live. I mean, I'm sure she didn't mean that if she abuses me like keeps me locked in the closet or something that they wouldn't help me, but I guess what she's saying is if I choose to live a disciplined lifestyle it's my decision and I have to live with it or find my own way out. Damn, being an adult sucks.

I've kind of talked about with my former crush and I have also talked a little about it with my former roommate, the cool one and that's another story. It turns out that the times she came up behind me and smacked my butt with the wooden spoon and the one time she turned me over her knees and gave me a playful spanking was not just being girls. She recently confessed to me that when she found out I was watching spanking videos it struck a nerve with her. Apparently she too sonce about 2nd grade has had spanking fantasies. She said she really wanted to give me a real spanking but she was too embarrassed even knowing I was into spanking to actually do it. It doesn't sound like she's obsessed with spanking like all of us in this group are, but it really gets her hot or whatever.

Alrightie I'll just quit now.

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[> Subject: Re: Lots of talking

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 07:53:46 06/18/24 Tue

Brava! for Emmie Sue!

I am confident that this will go well. Go for it and you will learn a lot and come away with your diploma, perhaps a job and/or admission to a graduate program. You will probably also get a few spankings. I say a "few" because it may take more than one for you to "get the message." The real ones are quite different from the imagined ones. Once you have had even one, life totally changes, as will your relationship.

My advice would be different if you were planning a life-long commitment. While serious, it is a bit reversible and your worst case possibility would be having to move.

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[> Subject: Re: Lots of talking
Author: Eric [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 09:45:01 06/20/24 Thu There needs to be mutual respect, but if I was getting into a thing like this, it would have to be 100% real. No games, just real authority and real discipline. No matter my age, there is no adult status. That is how attitudes are adjusted and behavior is modified. Otherwise it's playtime not discipline. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Lots of talking

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Fran1587
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Date Posted: 08:31:47 06/22/24 Sat

I think that your mom, Alfred and Eric all gave you sound advice. IMHO, if you don't take this opportunity, you will regret it for the rest of your life. It's what you've always wished for and yes, reality is going to be a lot different than fantasy. From all of your posts that I've read, I truly feel that you will benefit greatly by living with your professor. It's about time that you had some structure in your life and suffer the consequences of your actions (or inactions).

Good luck and please keep us posted.

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[> Subject: Re: Lots of talking
Author: Berryblue [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 18:18:43 06/22/24 Sat Don't quit when it's just getting good! Those are some interesting developments Emmie Sue, I think you are going to have an interesting summer! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Lots of talking

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Jay
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Date Posted: 18:27:32 06/22/24 Sat

Emmie Sue, non parental adult spanking needs to be consensual, or at least with consensual non-consent, where you give blanket consent, even if you don't want a spanking every time it occurs. And you need safewords like "red" and yellow," or at least your spanker needs to check in with you if you are ok, at least until she understands your needs and tolerance. If you feel threatened with getting kicked out of your lodgings if you don't comply, it isn't consensual. And is it really likely you will misbehave so badly you will need severe punishment?

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[> Subject: Re: Lots of talking
Author: HH [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 09:58:39 06/24/24 Mon You never got spanked? Spankings hurt and you cry and if you get your pants pulled down it hurts way worse. and its emberrassing even if nobody knows. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]