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Subject: Re: Second Spanking


Author:
Stepmom
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Date Posted: 06:37:54 06/21/24 Fri
In reply to: Stepmom 's message, "Question" on 10:41:02 01/21/24 Sun

I recently gave my stepdaughter her second spanking. It was just the same as the first. The differences were, this time it was for real misbehavior and well deserved. She was shocked that I was going to spank her and tried to talk her way out of it. Having done it once before I felt like an old pro. She put up more of a fuss and reacted more quickly with this one and at the end when I let her up she turned around and said "I hate you." and stormed off to her room. That really hurt me, but she later showed that she didn't.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 09:29:44 06/21/24 Fri

To what do you attribute the "I hate you!" remark? Did she deny that her behavior was inappropriate!

Be sure that all is well and make sure she is healing.

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HH
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Date Posted: 10:01:25 06/24/24 Mon

She probly said that cause she was mad you spanked her but she didn't mean it.

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HH
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Date Posted: 10:19:42 06/24/24 Mon

I've said that to my mom when I got a spanking, course I got another spanking but

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Grandma
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Date Posted: 14:39:23 06/24/24 Mon

I gave many spankings when raising my kids, and I occasionally got the "I hate you." I never punished for it or reacted other than to say "Well I love you." It was always soon followed by a "make up" session where we could talk about everything.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Second ... Are the "I hate you" ones justified?


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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 06:50:03 06/26/24 Wed

Grandma is quite wise. The reply "I love you." is perfect, even if it is not welcomed by the hearer. Saying an adult version of this in court after sentencing can be very unwise.

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Stepmom
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Date Posted: 10:20:58 07/10/24 Wed

I would have said that, but my heart just sank. I actually cried. I knew she didn't mean it, long term when she came out and was all hugs and for the next week clung to me helping at all turns.

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