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Subject: Re: True Story Author: Brett [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:42:55 08/26/24 Mon In reply to: Smith 's message, "Re: True Story" on 14:51:31 08/25/24 Sun I'm pretty sure a student must be consenting and an adult under the law. I'm not a lawyer, but if I was housing students with the stipulation that they be subject to corporal punishment, I would first consult a lawyer. What exactly is legal in that kind of transaction? Do we need some kind of contractual agreement that covers the spanking part? What are my liabilities? How do I protect myself legally if a student suddenly decides to sue me or have me arrested? Adults pay professional disciplinarians for spankings all the time. Apparently, as long as there is no illegal activity involved, like prostitution, it's okay. In this case, the provider offers their service, the client comes to them and agrees to pay for the service. If you are renting rooms to students, and then coercing them into spankings as a condition of their stay, is that going to hold up in court? Would it be better/safer to advertise as a pro disciplinarian who offers room and board as part of their service? That way, you are at least getting boarders who are asking up front for, and paying for, the discipline. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: True Story Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:15:23 08/26/24 Mon If you can legally coerce an 18 year old to sign, without a co-signer to a lifetime of debt for a student loan with an increasing rate, why can't you have an agreement, usually with parental participation to follow house rules or face consequences to build the young person's confidence, self reliance and help them achieve their goals? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: True Story Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:59:34 08/26/24 Mon "If you can legally coerce an 18 year old to sign, without a co-signer to a lifetime of debt for a student loan with an increasing rate, why can't you have an agreement, usually with parental participation to follow house rules or face consequences to build the young person's confidence, self reliance and help them achieve their goals?" Sounds reasonable, but will that argument protect you legally? Your example is evidence that we can get screwed by people, institutions or the law. The law is often a reflection of who has power, not necessarily what is good for the people involved. Who is deciding whether someone in any particular relationship can be coerced into accepting a beating? And what is the mainstream view of corporal punishment? Spanking students sounds great on a spanking forum. The question here was about possible real life scenarios. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: True Story Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:44:31 08/27/24 Tue Not sure about the US, but here in the UK it is theoretically illegal for one adult to use any physical assault on another, even if both are consenting. There was a famous Court case about it some years ago. So, even if a tenant signed something agreeing to accept spanking, any subsequent Court case could be difficult, if the recipient took objection to the treatment. In practice, of course, what goes on behind closed doors should stay there. Enough spanking goes on to prove that, this site being a prime example. Indeed, I hope to administer a good spanking myself this coming Thursday, details could be supplied if people are interested. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: True Story Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:34:48 08/27/24 Tue Well said, SJ. Everything has risks. BDSM relationships have risks. HOH relationships have risks. If you choose to be a spanking parent, it has risks. Students and most often their parents agree to this arrangement and all parties take on risks. In my experience the result is a loved, provided for, disciplined, structured, focused, educated, confident and successful young adult. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: True Story Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:53:32 08/27/24 Tue One thing I will mention is Amanda has graduated, not top of her class, but she made it. She has a good job, not making $100,000 a year, but she gets by well and she is also employed by me to help manage my properties. I still mentor her. She has become fairly responsible, but still has a wild side. She also assists in the discipline of my tenants and can give discipline as she sees fit. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: True Story Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:02:12 08/28/24 Wed Some laws are rarely or never enforced. I don't live in the UK, but I know there are professional disciplinarians and BDSM-type services that have existed there for decades. Whatever the actual laws are, it can be a thriving business. Has the original post been forgotten here? There was no prior consent in the relationship. "The second year I got so fed up I turned one of the girls over my knees (it was VERY deserving) and paddled her until she couldn't sit. I found that to be very effective and have been turning renters over my knees for 4 school years." A business that draws clients, where everything is up front and consensual appears to be a risk worth taking. If a renter accepts a spanking only because they don't want to lose their residency, I think that is taking a different kind of risk. To each their own. I would first consult a good lawyer. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: True Story Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:32:04 08/29/24 Thu You are absolutely right, Brett. I used to visit professional ladies maybe 3 times a year, mostly with them receiving, but occasionally switching. I'm sure no-one ever considered the consequences should a complaint be made. I still meet Miss Norway (older members will probably remember her) sometimes. I only once spanked a girl non-consensually, when I was about 14-15, I've told the story before, but luckily it was so long ago, I got away with it. I often think what would happen if I did anything like that today. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: True Story Author: Smith [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:11:05 09/02/24 Mon Is that last story still somewhere or would you rather forget about it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]