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Subject: Re: The Sounds Of Justice Author: Dana [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 23:02:41 09/17/24 Tue In reply to: Wondering-supportive 's message, "Re: The Sounds Of Justice" on 15:03:52 09/17/24 Tue In my youth, I thought a lot about it, but actually seeing or hearing someone getting a spanking was not enjoyable. It made me feel pity, embarrassment and anger. I also felt bad when I had erotic thoughts about it, like I must be some kind of freak. What I found when I was older, is that a spanking can also be erotic to others but, more important, therapeutic for some people. Therapy as justice. Justice as therapy. In that case, there can be pleasure in the suffering that is deserved and needed for resolution or redemption. Someone being physically punished against their will, and with no positive result for that person, even if deserved, is not appealing to me. I didn't choose to have these feelings about spanking, and have no control over how I feel. I think that's the way we all are, including those who do enjoy the suffering, some when it is deserved, and some who just take sadistic pleasure in it regardless. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: The Sounds Of Justice Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:11:11 09/18/24 Wed The investigations you have done no doubt helped you arrive at the conclusion that you did not choose your feelings about spanking and have no control over how you feel. That is a sensible approach that would help those that still feel guilt about what excites them, leading some to feel that they are weird or freakish. By the time we all reach adulthood, our character is fundamentally formed and will not be significantly changing. We are what we are. Preferring spanking to be rehabilitative and so enjoying their administration is a goal worth pursuing but sometimes outright punishment as a deterrent may be desirable even if not rehabilitative. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]