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Subject: Truth v fiction Author: SJ [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 05:22:14 09/17/24 Tue First, let me direct members to the Vanilla Spanking site. For those who don't know it, it is an amazing collection of instances of girls or women being spanked in virtually every film, stage play, book or comic ever produced. "Harry" has gone to extreme lengths to discuss every one in great detail and analysis. My point is, in every case, the spanking may not be enjoyed by the recipient, nor even agreed to, but it is accepted. Obviously it is make-believe, but more often than not, the girl ends up sailing off in the sunset with her "assailant". I haven't seen one instance where there has been a formal complaint about the treatment meted out, certainly not ending up in a court case. Of course, the vast majority of the spanking stories took place in the 1940s to 1970s, when corporal punishment was still an accepted practice. But even fiction must have its roots in real life, and that's what I'm getting at here. I avidly read all the anecdotes on this and other sites, and there is virtually never a mention of a spanking being reported to the authorities, be it by a teacher, parent or other. Ignoring the likes of Maddie, Emmie Sue or Berryblue, who obviously welcome a red butt, most people hate being spanked, but don't actually do anything to stop it. Girls still appear to be spanked by parents, church members or school principals, without any real objection. The only two instances I've read in the UK where girls in US have formally complained about a paddling, is where they were administered by males who may have overdone the swats, not the paddling itself. So, maybe film spankings are not so far from the truth after all. Over here, more spanking occurrences were more likely to be reported, my favourite being the 1964 case of the "Helston Grammar School Spankings", which everyone with spanking interests should find and read. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Truth v fiction Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:32:29 09/17/24 Tue Maybe they do like it and just don't say. When I see in real life or You Tube videos and whatever about girls getting a slap on the butt or a birthday spanking they act so dramatic about it like it's the worst pain they've ever experienced. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Truth v fiction Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:09:53 09/17/24 Tue What I was getting at was more about the storyline than the physical reaction to the spanking. Whatever the reason for it, the spanking was always somehow accepted. I would love to see a play that revolves around a spanking, the aftermath, and possible its eventual conclusion in court. I wish I was literally-minded. The whole Helston story would make a great TV play. It seems that in real life the outcome is usually similar. Has anyone here ever considered taking action against a parent or teacher because a spanking was too hard or plain out of order these days? Some of the punishments (probably fictitious) described here would surely be considered abuse in any court of law. By the way Stephan, it was Maureen O'Hara! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Truth v fiction Author: Stephan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:57:14 09/17/24 Tue I would say that most people have a "Love/Hate" relationship with spanking. Especially those on the receiving end. I know I did from the time I was a kid. I can't say I enjoyed getting my bare butt spanked as a kid, but I will admit I enjoyed watching the spankings others got and eventually would become aroused by getting spanked. I think many people feel that way because spanking whether it's a punishment or playful is a very intimate act. I often wonder when i see a spanking scene in a movie or tv show that has a spanking scene in it, How the person on the receiving end whether an adult or child felt about getting spanked on camera especially if it involves a bare bottom spanking. Maureen O Sullivan spoke of the spanking she got from John Wayne in McClintok as very painful and that it left her bruised for days. The same with Jenny Maxwell after Elvis spanked her in Blue Hawaii. Her reaction to the spanking she got on camera was very real. So you have to wonder how an actor or actress feels, knowing they are going to be spanked in a scene. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Truth v fiction Author: Ivy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:10:31 09/17/24 Tue I think kids are surprisingly philosophical about spanking. That is how it was with me and the kids I talked to back in the day. Spanking was just part of the lot of being a kid. We knew why we got it, and moreover how to avoid them!!! Some of us even had a begrudging appreciation. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Truth v fiction Author: Destiny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:00:30 09/17/24 Tue Ivy, Good to see you back safely. Destiny [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Truth v fiction Author: Smith [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:20:22 09/18/24 Wed From comments I've read so far, I got the idea that a lot of people hated getting them. But started to appreciate them as adults, long after they stopped receiving them. What did a typical conversation about spanking look like then? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Truth v fiction Author: Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:19:07 09/17/24 Tue SJ, you said "let me direct members to the Vandlla Spanking site" Do you have a like to post? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Truth v fiction Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:10:39 09/18/24 Wed Hi Cliff, not sure what you mean. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Truth v fiction Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:04:44 09/18/24 Wed He's asking for a link (I think). [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Truth v fiction Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:03:14 09/19/24 Thu Just key in Vanilla Spanking, it should take you directly there. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Truth v fiction Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:40:40 09/17/24 Tue I think people who hang out on spanking sites and share anecdotes are not the type to bring charges. And writers into spanking like happy endings, pun intended. Those who have gone for help or sought legal compensation are probably not eager to talk to others about it, especially on forums where spanking is enjoyed. I love fiction that depicts real disciplinary spanking, where the culprit has really earned their punishment. They are shocked to receive it, they hate getting it, and they are humbled by it. The great thing about fiction is that nobody actually gets hurt. Even actors who took painful spankings in service of their art did so with consent, and that's exciting. Maybe they even liked it more than they wanted to admit. Real life is another thing. People do get hurt. I experienced and saw it growing up. Sure, we accepted it. No one I knew went to the police or got a lawyer. We survived. Some of us were spankos who had that mountain of confusion to deal with on top of it. Though less prevalent today, apparently, it still happens. And, of course, it's one of the more common fetishes, so there is a never-ending stream of fiction presented as fact. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]