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Subject: Re: My Minimal Spanking Experience Author: Wondering-supportive [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 21:39:00 09/23/24 Mon In reply to: Aunt Nat 's message, "My Minimal Spanking Experience" on 03:23:58 09/23/24 Mon You came to this site on a different thread seeking advice on the best way to spank. You clearly knew what to do with your niece when you had exhausted all other options. Now all you need to do is apply what you did and learned with your niece to benefit the student seeking motherly guidance. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: My Minimal Spanking Experience Author: Aunt Nat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:49:55 09/24/24 Tue Sorry, I wrote this on another thread, but it replies to responses here. Concerning, I was actually too stunned to say much of anything and was thinking about my cards to play. I basically just nodded and let her talk. Anthony, no I didn't pass on instructions, but of course I kept them updated on their dd and admitted that I spanked her. It wasn't her first spanking, but the first from me, but I suppose with all the turmoil in the house they didn't take. Once the seas had calmed on the home front I believe they reluctantly continued spanking when necessary and it had the desired effect. Wondering, with my niece in my f/t charge, it was more out of frustration and reactionary, but considered and ritualistic than a 'grab and go' spanking. If you want to look at it as 'giving instructions' that would be something her mom, my lifelong cousin and friend learned from me. I think it's quite a different thing with a family member in your temporary charge whose diapers you've changed growing into a troubled teen. I never considered it a spanking in the same sense. This young woman is a virtual stranger, an adult who I have a personal friendly relationship with. This excites me and not something out of frustration as a last resort. I do want to see this young woman improve, but that's not my only goal. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: My Minimal Spanking Experience Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:17:31 09/24/24 Tue Clearly, spanking your niece is different from spanking the young woman. But what you did can be applied to the young woman. You took the initiative with your niece when it became clear that you needed to do so. Yes it was out of frustration but you acted in a motherly role and you administered the kind of spanking that was warranted in that situation. Again, draw on your inner strength and do what you are capable of doing and assume the dominant position with the young woman. This time you will not be acting out of frustration but rather a recognition that a spanking can make a world of change as it did with your niece. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]