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Subject: Re: Self spanking Author: Thea [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 05:45:49 09/29/24 Sun In reply to: Emmie Sue 's message, "Re: Self spanking" on 14:47:05 09/28/24 Sat Emmie Sue. We have, actually, had this conversation multiple times. You have apparently forgotten, but each time, I've told you not to speak to me like that. I'm quite annoyed that you would yet again fall back on saying things like this when I've expressed that I'm a spanking top, not bottom, multiple times and have gone over the reasons why. In this very post I even said that I'm more interested in the sensation than the psychology! I feel as though you don't care about anything I've ever said to you, because you never seem to remember any of it. You whine about me not replying to your posts and then you don't care about the conversations we do have. Honestly, my feelings are genuinely hurt. I think I remember a lot more about you than you do about me. Maybe all you see me as is masturbation fodder. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Self spanking Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:04:57 09/29/24 Sun I'm sorry, okay? I don't remember things that well. I've got a lot of stuff in my head. I'm just saying that if you like the sensation you should find someone to spank you. I mean everybody can be naughty. I do care about your input, that's why I ask. No I don't. My feelings are hurt too. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Self spanking Author: Thea [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:12:23 09/29/24 Sun All adults have a lot of stuff in their head. You remember what's important to you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Self spanking Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:12:36 09/29/24 Sun I reread it and I think it's perfectly fine what I said. Actually I'm the one who should be mad at you. But still I'm sorry that I offended you. Please don't be mad at me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Self spanking Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:13:27 09/29/24 Sun I asked some legitimate questions. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Self spanking Author: Thea [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:20:53 09/29/24 Sun Seriously? Alright. I'm disappointed in you, but maybe I shouldn't be. You've never changed enough to warrant my high expectations. I wouldn't even spank you for this in person; this is my last straw. I'm done talking to someone who doesn't respect me enough to listen when I say something is a boundary. This isn't the first time, but it will be the last. I wish I hadn't wasted so much time replying to you over the past year and change when you've taken nothing I've ever said to heart. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Self spanking Author: Aunt Nat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:31:36 09/29/24 Sun If I may intervene here, I think you are both overplaying this. I understand, Thea that you have said something to her or set boundaries when discussing things with Emmie Sue, but a college girl of 19, 20 or 21 does indeed have a lot of stuff going on in their head. Not only the pressures of schoolwork and getting good grades and a degree, but all of the other things that someone that age is dealing with. They are not a kid, but they are not really yet an adult. And little miss Emmie Sue has a LOT going on in her life right now. She did ask a few legitimate questions, but if you had asked her before not to tease you about being 'naughty' as you are an adult and a professional she should respect those boundaries. I hope you both make up and respect each other's boundaries. If it were up to me I would turn you both over my knees. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Self spanking Author: Thea [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:47:17 09/29/24 Sun Nat, you're new here. There's over a year of context you're missing. In my opinion, ending a relationship (platonic or otherwise) because someone consistently disrespects your stated boundaries, because there is a mismatch of emotional labor, because of a lack of respect, and because they expect you to keep on putting effort into them when they put none into you and seem to view you as nothing other than a way to get their rocks off is perfectly reasonable. You may have a different perspective. All due respect, but I don't know you well enough for your perspective of the situation to carry much weight with me. And claiming you would spank me for a situation where you're lacking understanding does NOTHING to encourage me to give your position much credence. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Self spanking Author: Aunt Nat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:04:58 09/29/24 Sun I may be new here, but I'm not new to life. I am a middle aged woman with two grown, successful children and a niece who I helped raise. I live in a small college town and for many years have mentored and mothered and cared for the students. I am very in tune with the young adult mind and what they are going through. Although I've never spanked any (yet) I have listened to their stories and given advice and even mediated their disputes. As I understand from reading you are not that much older than Emmie Sue and even as a young adult and professional woman you are still growing. I don't wish to start a dispute here, but I have a whole lot more experience than you do and feel it's very immature to simply discard my input. Even successful adults sometimes act like a child and can gain from the experience and wisdom of others. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Self spanking Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:48:23 09/29/24 Sun I'm sorry okay? I wont suggest you need a spanking or anything again again, okay? Is that what you're mad about? I'm sorry. I should listen better. Please don't not respond to me anymore. You can give me a punishment and I will do it, okay? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]