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Subject: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: Cassie [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:39:51 09/29/24 Sun Just wondering. I for one have always dreamed of being turned over a woman's knees and given a real or play spanking. I don't think I could actually handle a real punishment spanking though. Word on the street is they are humiliating and they HURT. Still, I think I would like to know. Most of my fantasies and thoughts have always been of other girls and women getting spanked until they can't sit down. I think under the right circumstances I could actually turn a girl over my knees and blistering her bottom. Mostly I would just like to see it happen or at least know it did. There are some young ladies I see who definitely need it and I even feel like I could paddle their naughty bottoms. Not really to get be hot, but because it would be well deserved. So they call someone who both gives and gets spankings a switch. Is that really a thing? Second question. To a spanko are all spankings hot or are some just because they're desrved. Do you always get sexual feelings from giving or knowing a girl got a good spanking? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:12:30 09/29/24 Sun Yes, I think being a switch is a real thing. Sexually, if one is turned on by spanking, they can equally like to give and get. It could be compared to oral sex. With disciplinary spanking, some of us really are into the mental side of it. The spanking is punishment, and the punishment is deserved. The justice part is essential. When she is spanked, she should be ashamed of her behavior. She is paying a humbling penalty, and one can enjoy their role as disciplinarian or witness to her disgrace. The same person can also imagine themselves in this same position, and wish to see their own awful comeuppance. I think there are almost always sexual feelings when spanking a girl or seeing her punished. But there is a big difference between play and real punishment because of the reason behind the spanking. With punishment, there are other very powerful emotions that compete with sexual arousal. Those emotions can even push the sexual feelings out of the picture if the situation is upsetting enough. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:09:57 09/30/24 Mon Yes, Lucy, I have the experience. Unless one has been punished like this as a child, they don't know the depth of feelings. It can be romanticized. The desire to experience spanking punishment as an adult can be a desire to simulate as close as possible what a child goes through and, as such, the basic emotions remain relevant. A spanking can still feel like punishment. It can still be about the shame of misbehavior that calls for humbling consequences. It can also create some feelings of helplessness if approached in a certain way. And getting back to the question of a switch, an attraction to this experience can be broader than a single role. A switch is a person who can truly appreciate all roles, whether giving, getting or witnessing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: Lucy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:17:51 09/29/24 Sun Dana, such an insightful comment. True about the emotions of discipline spankings - the "disgrace" etc is key and I would add "helplessness" because with adult switch partners that completely submissive feeling of being a child/teen spanked by parents can only be simulated. Sometimes effectively with personal "triggers" etc. Sounds like you have some such experience? Cassie, I'm with you in that as much as I HATED my own bare bottom spankings growing up from a very young age I was fascinated when others got spankings. Especially other girls as I could completely relate to their fear/shame. Knowing about, hearing or best - watching my two girl cousins get spankings (they saw mine also) was a huge thrill for me. And any friends/classmates who I knew were spanked gave me fantasies about seeing them get it. Sounds like your desire is for a strict mother to seriously discipline her naughty daughter? It's true, there's nothing like "being spanked until you can't sit down" as the drama of a girl being bared for an otk blazing red hot bottom bawling kicking SPANKING is immense. In your ideal scenario, how old is the deserving daughter and is she spanked with an implement? Are you allowed to watch or do you spy on her spanking? PS Be brave! Find a strong woman to take you over her lap for a real blistering. You only live once, and as mom told me, "It's a spanking. It won't kill you." [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:57:01 09/30/24 Mon Cassie, of course it's possible. I used to meet many "professional" ladies for spanking sessions, they usually advertised as spankees, but were happy to switch if required. For example, if I booked an hour session, I might be "topping" for, say, 40-45 minutes, and believe me some could take a lot, and then we may switch for the last few minutes, so that she could "get her own back"! You may have a preference as to which way you want to go, but it doesn't have to be all consuming. I've often said I would never to a girl or lady what I've not had done to me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:29:28 09/30/24 Mon "Get her own back". I know what that is. It's an English expression. I'm pretty smart for an American. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:02:44 09/30/24 Mon I didn't know that, thanks for the info. They do say that we are two countries separated by a common language! Of course, we got in first!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:18:00 10/01/24 Tue Yeah, if you said that in the US they probably wouldn't know what you were talking about. I think I first heard it on an Elvis Costello song. Maybe Beatles. I don't remember. So are you from where the Beatles are from or is that another older Englishman I know? I mean, I know you're from England. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:19:27 10/01/24 Tue I gotta tell ya though, beans on toast sounds just nasty. Sorry. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:40:20 10/01/24 Tue I'm from the South of England (London), the Beatles were from Liverpool, up North. I take it geography is not your strong subject?! Gotta tell you, I saw them live once during their heyday. I say saw them, I did see them but barely heard them. The screaming girls more or less drowned out their singing! We were in the balcony, which was actually vibrating due to the noise. It was an experience I'll never forget, compounded by the fact that my girlfriend at the time broke off with me after the concert! All say aahh! Not sure what the relevance of beans on toast is. I like them, probably going to have them for lunch today! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:53:06 10/01/24 Tue Well duh, I know that. I get you and the other guy from England mixed up. I guess he's the one from Liverpool. I knew this girl from England and she was like "Oh, I'd like to have some beans on toast." and we were all like "Ew." In America, beans are beans and toast is toast and never the 2 shall meet." The fog in London is probably from everybody farting, Ha ha ha, I'm so funny. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:54:57 10/01/24 Tue I think we are probably talking about different types of beans. Over here, we have baked beans, out of a tin, made with loads of tomato ketchup (probably something else you don't have in the States). One more rude crack about London and I shall forget my financial woes, get the first flight over to you, and give the type of spanking Shelby can only dream of! Anyway, compared with New York, London must be as fresh as a daisy. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:01:47 10/01/24 Tue The one time I visited the US, I decided to get into the American culture. I went into a store and as I left, the guy said "have a nice day". But I didn't, so I sued him!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: Thea [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:08:41 10/01/24 Tue We do have canned baked beans over here. They're the base for a popular kid dish, "beanie weenies", which is baked beans with chopped up hot dogs. And tbey do taste good on toast, too, even if it's not a common dish here. I like them on sourdough! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Such A Thing As A True Switch? Author: Cassie (laughing) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:07:49 10/02/24 Wed Hey, why are you guys hijacking my thread, lol ha ha ha. Just kidding. Enjoying the discussion. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]