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Subject: Re: Missed appointment Author: Wondering-supportive [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 11:20:24 10/13/24 Sun In reply to: Emmie Sue 's message, "Re: Missed appointment" on 09:47:02 10/13/24 Sun Then I would tend to side with Shelby. You deserve a second spanking. A hand spanking for someone your age is not enough for serious matters. A few strikes of the spoon doesn't change that. Your professor's time is valuable and you need to learn to value other people's time. Being nervous is a poor excuse. Moreover, your professor is in a position to affect your life negatively if she is a vengeful person. If you pulled that stunt on a job interview you would not be considered for the position. I suspect it is all less complicated than you make it out to be. You still need someone in your life to keep you on track since you have demonstrated you are not up to the task. So a harsh spanking is in order. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Missed appointment Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:38:52 10/13/24 Sun Wondering Supportive, you're not being very supportive. If you have read my posts from the last year you would know that I made a fool of myself. But it wasn't just me, she made a fool of me too. She knew, I don't know how she knew, but she knew. I guess having a doctorate in psychology could have something to do with it, but when I worshipped her she knew about my secret and led me on. I didn't guard myself well and I gave up all my secrets. So anyway I find it very hard to face her. So I just blew it off. Friday when me and Shelby were had something light to eat and were getting ready to go out, not together, but I was going out with my friend she kind of sprung it on me. So I got lectured, and got spanked until my butt was on fire and got smacks with the wooden spoon. Okay, so I deserved that. I'm pretty sure my friend knew I was sitting uncomfortably. It really wasn't that bad because it was really turning me on, like her knowing but not knowing and my butt burning. We went back to my house and stupid Shelby left the spoon out in the open. I KNOW my friend was staring at it. We made out, with our clothes on, but I did see her boobs and we had incredible orgasms. So Shelby decided that I owed it to my professor friend to pay her a visit, but I got another whoopin before we left, this time with hand and hairbrush. So I had to sit on a hard chair while they sat on comfy chairs. I mean, I didn't think it was really fair for them to humiliate me like that and have to apologize and get lectured by my professor friend. Of course when she lectures she does it in such a calm understanding condescending voice which is way worse that getting yelled at. I mean if you just yell at me, fine get it over with and just yell at me and tell me what shit I am. That I can take. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Missed appointment Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:04:19 10/13/24 Sun Emmie Sue, I was being supportive, supportive of the second spanking. It is true that I do not all the details that go back to last year. You are probably justified in your feelings and understandably did not want to meet. But the issue for me was that you made the appointment. You probably should not have given what happened last year. But you nevertheless made the appointment. It was then incumbent on you to at least cancel it if you did not wish to attend. Instead you just blew it off. That was not a grown up way of dealing with the matter. A direct confrontation would have been the best to get it out of your system. But if you simply lack that resolve, you should have at least cancelled the appointment. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Missed appointment Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:08:28 10/14/24 Mon I know, I know, I know. Like part of the 'lecture' she gave me when me and Shelby visited yesterday was how her time is valuable and she enjoys our visits and set aside time in her schedule to see me and at least a phone call to let her know would have been appreciated. And she lectures in such a way that makes so much sense, never raises her voice and that makes it so much worse. I mean even know I'd already gotten 2 whoopins for it, just yell at me. And then I had to sit there while Shelby assured her that I had been thouroughly punished for my inconsideration and asked her if she felt I deserved any further punishment ect and I just had to sit there with my butt burning and then we all had a 'nice' chat and lunch. It was horrible and humiliating and I felt bad. I felt like a bad person. Idk, I guess I deserved it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Missed appointment Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:14:24 10/14/24 Mon But like this, did you ever have to make a phone call like to your boss to tell them you weren't coming and you had to make up a lie to make it sound good, but really you just didn't want to go? Like your head just wasn't into it, like you just can't face going and I didn't want to like cough and fake sick. Don't you understand that even know I really, really, REALLY like her I just can't face her? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Missed appointment Author: Miss Manners [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:26:16 10/14/24 Mon If she has a doctorate in psychology I'm sure she'll understand. Just open up. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Missed appointment Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:52:47 10/14/24 Mon It speaks well for you to admit that you could have behaved better and so recognize why you were spanked. The reality girl is you are in a Dom/sub relationship and so you will have to surrender to the will of others at times even though you may not like it and it may be embarrassing. Such is your life now. You chose it. You know that at some level the relationships answers a deep need you have. So resolve to take the good with the bad. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Missed appointment Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:20:13 10/15/24 Tue Okay, looks like I'm not going to get any sympathy here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Missed appointment Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:41:57 10/15/24 Tue Perhaps. But you appear to still be seeking it. That indicates that you have not come to grips with your lifestyle and still need more training. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Missed appointment Author: Alex [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:55:11 10/15/24 Tue Morning ES. Now that you are experiencing the "joys" of spankings, do you think you would get on better with your Professor doing your punishments, or are you better where you are now ? Take care. Alex. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Missed appointment Author: Aunt Nat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:17:26 10/16/24 Wed Sorry Emmie Sue, no sympathy here either. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]