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Subject: Re: New here - Maëlys Author: Phil [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 02:27:05 11/05/24 Tue In reply to: Maelys 's message, "New here - Maëlys" on 04:15:33 11/04/24 Mon Hello Maelys, The martinet looks like an implement of torture. I've read that in the country it is most used it's now considered an abusive tool. So the questions I'd like to ask you. Since you mentioned it is not common where you live to be punished, why do your parents things differently you think? Have your parents ever gotten in trouble with the authorities? Second if you're comfortable with explaining. How are the punishments done and for what? Is there some ritual involved? And do you think they are abusive? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: New here - Maëlys Author: Maelys to Phil [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:42:09 11/06/24 Wed Hello Phil, Yes in most of countries of Europe, corporal punishments such as spanking (even with hand) is considered as abusive. However, it is still used (hand i mean) on young children in some families, and authorities dont mind about it (or at least dont try to mind about it). Now why my parents do it in a more "old fashioned" way, that's a rough question... I think it's because they were raised like that, think it's the best and more effective for us etc... About the ritual thing, not really .. What do you mean by that ? Maëlys. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: New here - Maëlys Author: Phil [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:00:42 11/06/24 Wed Thanks for the response. People here call them 'rituals'. They mean things like being ordered to go to your room, having to wait for your parents for a certain amount of time, being lectured on what you did wrong, etc. Is it like that or do just get the punishment and it's over quickly? What does a punishment with the martinet look like exactly? If it is not too inappropriate of me to ask. Because to me that tool looks like the whips they used to punish sailors hundreds of years ago. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New here - Maëlys Author: Maelys to Phil [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:16:15 11/06/24 Wed Oh of course i would get lectured about what i did, have a chance to explain myself before the punishment etc.. but it is not done in a "ritual" way i mean ! Aha to be honest, of course the two implements are different, but it's like a belt in the way it can be done to compare to something more "common".. i dunno how to explain better ? Maëlys [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New here - Maëlys Author: Phil [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:26:43 11/06/24 Wed Okay I kind of understand. I feel bad for asking more questions. I'm not a creep, just very curious. So it is not used on the back like with the sailors. And it is more like a belt. Is it done over the clothes? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New here - Maëlys Author: Maelys to Phil [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:37:38 11/06/24 Wed No, here it is used, on bottom, and up of back thighs. Pants and panties have to be down for it.. Maëlys [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: New here - Maëlys Author: Phil [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:19:05 11/06/24 Wed What you tell me is a bit more shocking to me since it happens in our region, unlike most stories here which happen far away in North America. Since you're older, are these punishments done less often? Do you think these punishments are just and have you tried to reach out to people? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]