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Subject: Re: Pro spanker or spankee


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Janice
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Date Posted: 19:12:48 11/13/24 Wed
In reply to: JenniAnn to Intrigued 's message, "Re: Pro spanker or spankee" on 09:09:09 11/08/24 Fri



Thanks JD. Back when I was being spanked I struggled dealing with guilt/shame but I've realized none of it was my fault, although at the time I'd feel like I "deserved" my spankings.
And my sexualizing spankings was a natural combination of coping/innate emotions. So I'm comfortable with my sexuality now but, as I said, I don't really have much contact with my parents.

Much of my guilt came from my fantasies. I was very ashamed of spankings as a teenager when I knew my friends were no longer spanked. I was so jealous of them and would imagine them pants-down going over the lap.

I especially felt guilty about Gina (13) who is a year younger than me and was my sister's best friend. It bothered me that Gina knew I still got spanked (my sister admitted it) but Gina never mentioned it and was only ever super nice to me.
She was a pert bubbly cheerleader, popular and mature for her age. It seemed impossible that she had ever been spanked and I used to imagine what it would be like for her to suffer her first spanking - bare bottom and hard - like I got.
She had a perfect bottom for it, picturing it red hot etc. But what got me going was knowing the emotional roller coaster Gina would ride at being bared and spanked.
Miss Perfect would realize the extreme embarrassment of having her panties pulled down and the wicked sting of the spoon. She'd know how it felt to be bawling and kicking like mad the way I did when my buns were on fire.

Later, I'd feel guilty at having such fantasies. I wanted MY spankings to stop, not for other girls to be spanked but when fantasizing my own spankings were too raw to deal with.

Now days I'm curious about adult spanking relationships.

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Date Posted: 04:30:54 11/14/24 Thu

Hi Janice,

I really do "get" you...or so I believe.

IMO, even AS MUCH as a spanking is obviously a VERY physical event, I have long maintained it is even more so, a psychological/emotional event.

As far as "bubbly cheerleaders" go, I was friends with this drop-dead gorgeous, petite cheerleader ever since I was in middle school. Janet was unofficially "The School Princess," she was like royalty among the masses of we commoner other students. And similar to what you mentioned, she had just the CUTEST, pert little behind you could imagine, like it was just BEGGING for a good spanking - BUT - even though Little Princesses can be haughty and naughty, because of their station in life among the rest of society, they are way beyond such an embarrassing and humbling punishment!

I think most every guy had love/hate feelings for Janet. "Hate" is probably too strong a word actually, but there are some people whom you really want to see get their comeuppance, just to let them know they are a mere mortal like the rest of us, subject to the same rules and consequences the rest of us are, not above them. Still, I know practically EVERY guy was in love with her, because she was just SO FREAKING ADORABLE looking.

We thought that day had come when in the 6th Grade as Janet had somehow stoked the ire of our "rotating" Music teacher, "Mr. O." He came to our classroom twice a week for an hour, to teach Music. Our regular teacher, "Miss M," would leave the room while he was present.

I honestly don't know what Janet did to set him off, but Mr. O became INFURIATED with Janet. He grabbed the paddle from atop Miss M's desk and strode right up to the front of the row of desk Janet occupied...she was probably like the 2nd desk back. He stood there STARING DOWN at her with fire in his eyes, as he slapped the paddle against his own thigh. I sat directly to Janet's left, I could see her beautiful blue eyes began to water up, her long eyelashes beginning to push a few tears down her reddening cheeks, her lips began to quiver. She looked every bit the "deer in the headlights!" Time stopped. No one spoke, including Mr. O or Janet. It was like a Mexican standoff that seemingly could go either way...either Mr. O was going to relent, or Janet was going to be paddled.

I honestly had really ambivalent feelings about it. On the one hand, it would have been great to have seen Janet taken down a peg or two...not to mention the excitement of a really cute girl getting her cute lil derriere spanked...but OTOH, she was my friend, and I felt sorry for her in this predicament. And honestly, I didn't really like Mr. O very much at all...he could be a real d*ck.

Mr. O blinked first, slowly turned and replaced the paddle atop Miss M's desktop, resumed the Music lesson again. I think Janet took a breath for the first time in more than a minute.

Thank You for sharing!
JD

PS - The whole class finally did get to witness Janet getting one "surprise" hard SMACK across the seat of her miniskirt with a yardstick in 10th Grade Biology by Mr. L, and she was BEYOND embarrassed! But that's another story perhaps for another time.

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