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Subject: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


Author:
Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 09:09:12 03/08/25 Sat

Hello Everyone!

I promised I'd return when I had the lights off the tree. The lights are off, have been for a couple of months, and I've no idea how time has flown by so quickly. Sorry to be a stranger.

I started to respond to everyone in one post but before I finished writing to Maddie it was obvious it would be too long, so I'll do one at a time.

Maddie -- thank you for telling us about how you and Kailey use enemas as part of your disciplinary process although as Emmie Sue pointed out, from the way Kailey's enemas end it hardly seems a proper punishment (smiley face here.) Do you and Kailey ever take, give, enemas for health reasons? Before you started to use enemas as you've told us about, had either of you had an enema?

Mindy

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[> Subject: Marcy ... Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 09:30:41 03/08/25 Sat

Hi Marcey

You wrote on New Years Day. I'll put that post below.

What you experienced is far beyond anything I experienced when I had an enema with a spanking growing up, or the way I've used them myself.

Those enemas were given with an enema bulb, or with a bag, mostly just the way they'd be for another reason. With firmness that sufficient had to be taken and held for a good result, but also caringly and with compassion. It had to be done, so it was done. I never had, or used, corner time and I've thought using an enema along with a spanking was somewhat similar. A way of putting a big exclamation mark on the discipline event.

I'm sorry your enemas were so unpleasant. I suspect a more loving enema would have been as effective.

Aside from with a spanking did your mother give you enemas for other reasons?

Mindy

Here's what you wrote:

I have been a lurker for a long time, but this posting drew me out.

My mother used enemas as the ultimate add on punishment. Her philosophy was an enema was a good addition when extra punishment beyond a spanking was necessary. The purpose of the enema was to cause discomfort, embarrassment, and distress and I must admit it worked on all of those levels the few times I received one.

The who process started with very long, very hard naked spanking in the family. Like all spankings, they could be witnessed by whomever was present, which usually include my sister and two brothers who enjoyed watching the show.
If an enema was going to be given, my mother concentrated a great number of spanks with her bath brush on what she called the “ring of fire.” This was kind of a circular area on your butt and upper thighs that would come in contact with the toilet seat when you made a very panicked and urgent sitting. Plopping your butt down in a panic to relieve yourself was a very painful endeavor that there was no escaping.

After my spanking which left my butt very deep red I was dragged to the upstairs bathroom. Witnesses to the enema were really not allowed, but if someone wanted to stand outside of the open door they could see the whole process and gloat over the agony of the recipient.

My mother made me watch fill the enema bag with hot soapy water and hang it high from the shower curtain rod. Then I had to get into a position where my head was down on the floor and my butt was high in the air, which showed everything to cause incredible embarrassment. That was particularly true if I could see any of my siblings glancing in at my predicament with a smirk on their faces.
The nozzle that was used had a golf ball sized bulb at the end that my mother greased up with soap and pushed into my rear causing incredible distress and made me cry. Then she started the water which gushed into my bowels and caused horrible cramps and pressure. No matter how much I begged and pleaded she never slowed the down the water flow until the bag was empty.

When the bag was empty I would be crying up a storm from embarrassment and distress from the enema. She would close off the clamp and make me stand in front of thee toilet with my hands on my head and endure the pressure and the agonizing cramps. Twice I had to hold it for five minutes, once I had to hold it for 10 minutes which was sheer torment. Then I would have to bend over, and she would pull the nozzle out of my butt and I would immediately and urgently sit down and usually let out a howl as sitting on a freshly spanked butt on a hard toilet seat was miserable.
Then to make things worse, she would take the bar of soap that she used to make the enema and push it my mouth and fill a glass of water that I could use to rinse on the other side of the room on the sink.

There were several times that I thought I was done releasing and tried to get to the sink to remove the soap and rinse my mouth, but after a few steps I had to make a rapid return to the toilet.

Eventually I was drained and could get the soap out of my mouth, but the taste of soap lingered for a long time and so did the terrible stomach cramps on top of a very sore butt.

Clearly the worst, but effective punishment in my mother’s arsenal.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Marcy ... Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Marcey
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Date Posted: 16:15:51 03/08/25 Sat

Yes, I got regular enemas for fever or constipation, but those were much therapeutic rather than punishment and were not unpleasant.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Marcy ... Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 11:53:09 03/14/25 Fri

As enemas can be a huge beneficial home treatment for many things, including constipation and fever, I'm glad you had therapeutic enemas which were not unpleasant. Sadly some mothers made the process far more unpleasant than it needed to be. As many know it can be quite the opposite. Shame that some have been put off.

Marcey -- do you use enemas now? If so, for what purpose?

Thanks, Mindy

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[> Subject: Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Jan for Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 09:32:40 03/08/25 Sat

My boyfriend gives me enemas for health he spanks me for punishment and also role play we are going to be married in June . For punishment spanking he uses a hairbrush over his knee in our bedroom most are for attitude and being sassy

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[> Subject: Lynn ... Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 09:41:17 03/08/25 Sat

Hi Lynn,

Thank you for your reply on January 2 in my original thread. I'll put it below.

It sounds like your 'more than my share of enemas' while not punishment were given in a fairly strict unpleasant way.

It is interesting how some parents who believe in the curative, preventive, restorative use of enemas will administer in a firm yet loving way, doing what has to be done with compassion, others do it almost as if it were a punishment.

I'd be interested to know some on how your mother went about it, how you reacted, and how she dealt with however you reacted. I do hope you'll share that.

Mindy


Here's your post:

I was never given a punishment enema. However, my parents believed that you should go to the bathroom every day. They were not a fan of a laxatives either. As a result, I got more then my share of enemas. I really hate them.

Today, when needed, I take a laxative not an enema.

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[> Subject: Mark A. Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 09:47:49 03/08/25 Sat

Hello Mark,

Thank you for your reply of January 2 which I'll put below.

Am I right that your parents are still giving you enemas when they believe you need one?

How often would this be? Do your siblings get enemas with the same frequency or does one, or two of you get it more often?

As you're in this group does that mean you also get spanked?

Mindy

Here is what you wrote:

Lynn my parents believe in daily bowel movements as well. If any of my siblings or I have not had a bowel movement by dinnertime, then it means pants off, cheeks wide, and a nozzle up the bum. I hate it. Usually I've used the bathroom by some time in the afternoon, but like you I've ended up with my fair share of post-dinner enemas.

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[> Subject: Aunt Nat ... Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 10:00:14 03/08/25 Sat

Hello Aunt Nat

Thank you for writing me back and apologies for not replying long ago. I'll put your post below.

Have you thought more about using an enema? You say likely not. Is the reason you think it not likely is you doubt it would be effective?

Thanks, Mindy


You wrote:

I have considered introducing such discipline with my mentee. Likely not.

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[> Subject: Jan --- Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 10:13:10 03/08/25 Sat

Hi Jan,

Thanks for writing. I don't know how to write under your post, when I bring it up it looks like I'd be replying to the next post in the thread, so I'll write here and put yours below as I have others.

Congratulations on the wedding! Big wedding, small wedding, formal wedding, one out in a field I love them all.

I wonder what sort of health reasons there are for you to get an enema? Did you have enemas from your mother, or might he have had them from his mom and his/your use of them now is a continuation? Wondering how, why, they started? Do you get them often?

I applaud the spanking as I'm convinced when punishment spanking is practiced in a marriage between two consenting adults the marriage has a far, far greater chance of being successful and loving. Issues are taken care of. Spouses improve, and there is far less chance of trouble festering and growing.

Were you spanked growing up? I wonder how this started? Your idea? His idea? Do you discuss spanking possibilities, possible need for, first? How often do you get spanked? How do you feel about it?

Thanks for writing me, Mindy


You wrote:

My boyfriend gives me enemas for health he spanks me for punishment and also role play we are going to be married in June . For punishment spanking he uses a hairbrush over his knee in our bedroom most are for attitude and being sassy

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[> [> Subject: Re: Jan --- Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Jan for Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 13:52:29 03/09/25 Sun

I was not spanked growing up and rarely got any consequences for bad behavior luckily I was well behaved anyway my boyfriend was spanked I feel good about it I need it from time to time . I getenemas to clean out my system

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan --- Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 11:56:06 03/14/25 Fri

Thanks for this Jan. Nice of you to reply.

How often do you get spanked now? Do you feel it's a help? Do you think you get it too often, not enough, or about right as needed?

Mindy

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan --- Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Jan for Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 12:36:16 03/14/25 Fri

Yes it is helping it has made me a lot nicer Les spoiled i get the right amount of spankings . I got a spanking last night for having a bad attitude my attitude today is a lot better in my office I am sitting on a pillow .my secretary knows I get spanked and doesn’t say anything i am a partner in my future in-laws business she is a good worker .

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan --- Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 09:30:57 03/15/25 Sat

Hi Jan, again thanks for your reply.

I'm curious but I don't want to snoop where you'd rather I didn't. I think you've said in some other thread just what sort of business you and your future in-laws are in and what your role is. If you're willing to say I'd be interested to know. Thanks.

I'm also wondering how old your secretary is, married, a mother, or? Do you know if she approves of your being spanked?

Again, thanks,

Mindy

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[> Subject: Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Maddie
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Date Posted: 05:06:06 03/16/25 Sun

Hi Mork and Mindy.
Don't worry about your tree. Ours now has green lights and shamrocks. Next it will have green lights and flowers and little furry animals for Spring. It does annoy Kailey, but she has always been tolerant of my excessive decorating. She's not tolerant about the cleanup, though and it has led to many a trip over her knees.
Kailey doesn't mind enemas, but they are punishment because she knows I'm mad at her and I yell at her and throw a tantrum while giving her an enema. Sometimes it backfires though because sometimes I go too far and get my bottom blistered for acting too entitles and privileged.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Maddie ... Re: Enema use with spanking or without for well being ?


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Gantard
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Date Posted: 07:25:12 03/16/25 Sun

“backfires” - how clever a term in the context. Good for you, Maddie.

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