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Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 16:00:52 03/28/25 Fri In reply to: Jan R to Mindy 's message, "Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine?" on 08:19:21 03/28/25 Fri Dear Mindy, I like reading about others experiences as well. Wow, I have never had an enema. I have no clue what that feels like. I asked dad if he was interested in coming here. He said the same thing you do. Keep this space for myself. So, about my spankings. They are pretty ritualized. I will be told to report to dad's study. You can imagine that I am already tearing up and upset. No specific time really. I have been punished in the morning or at night. Dad tells me to report to his study when a final decision has been made. Yes, they are all with the strap and yes, all on the table. I report on my own. Yes, I can use the bathroom before reporting. Once in the room dad will enter sometimes both come in. I am first lestured fully dressed. Once that is done and I have and dad is convinced that I have a full understanding, he will ask if I have anything to ad. Usually not. Then I'm instructed to get ready. Everything comes off, top and bottom. I place my clothing on a chair. Then step nude to the table and get into position. Dad just asks if I'm ready and then he begins. Mom is usually there to witness. Can I ask how you were spanked growing up? JanR [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:40:05 03/29/25 Sat Happy Saturday morning to you, Jan R. I forget if you said where you lived (?) but here, not far from the MSP airport it's not much above freezing, cloudy and headed for rain. I am so ready for spring! Thank you for some background on your spankings. It sounds like when you get in trouble, whatever that might be, your mom and dad talk to you about it right away and if they decide to spank you it would happen then, not later like at bedtime. Have I got that right? Two questions. Are your parents quite calm, matter-of-fact when they talk to you about a problem? Do they express regret, genuine regret, if they decide to spank? Do you get a hug first? (I consider all that one question, lol) The second question is can you tell me something about your dad's strap? Size, weight, where/how he got it, and where he keeps it? Now, my spankings. Well, they too followed a pattern. Not quite a ritual but did play out much the same. The spanker was invariably mom and often it would be just the two of us talking about something I'd done, or left undone, or said. She was always very calm. As we talked it would become increasingly clear a spanking would be needed to set me straight and clear the air. Generally, it would happen then, but might get set down for later. Spankings were always bare and OTK. Her hand and then a brush, or paddle. If more was needed after the OTK I'd get a hug and be told I was going to then get the strap. For that I'd bend over, or lie face down. No corner time before, or after, but often I'd be taken to the bathroom for an enema. Although I might have had the enema first. When it was over I'd get lots of hugs and comforting and mom would say how sorry she was she'd had to spank me and hoped I'd learned from it. I sure wasn't keen on being spanked but I knew I needed it, the direction, and it was good to have the air clear with my parents, be forgiven. When it was over it was over whereas friends who were grounded, or lost privileges, it went on and on. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:06:15 03/29/25 Sat Dear Mindy, If I have, say, gotten in trouble at school I am sent to my room when I arrive home. My parents are already notified. Mom will just say Jan, to your room. Yes ma'am. I already know that I will be getting the strap. Dad arrives home if he isn't working from home, which he often does. IDad enters my room. I'm simply asked if I would like to get it overwith now. It's yes, I do want to get it overwith. Then Ok Jan, report to my study. Mom and dad are always very calm and actually loving. They know I'm upset and like I said before, usually in tears. I get the lecture or we talk about what I did and why. I have had phone issues at school. I'm 16 and a girl. My phone is my life. I'm actually a very good student. I love school. I'm in all AP and have a 4.0 + average. Nonetheless, rules are rules. So, we have the talk, again very calm and loving. Then I get my chance to talk. I rarely try and make excuses. In this house a spanking doesn't happen unless it's very clear that I have messed up. So, after that dad calmly tells me to get ready. It's really embarrassing getting undressed, especially completely. Dad will be clearing off the table getting it ready as I undress. Then the strap is brought out. It's usually freshly oiled. By now I'm probably just down to my panties which I slip down to the ground and step out of. I step to the table and get into position. Jan are you ready. Yes daddy. Then, absolute hell for the next couple of minutes. Dad varies the tempo. I might get two or three right in a row or he might wait a few seconds in between. You can imagine how much hell that is. Sorry for the language but no other way to describe it. I'm sure you know what I mean. When it's over and I am a bawling mess. Dad lays down the strap. My bottom is just scalding and solid red from all the strap licks. Both sides because he spanks from both sides of the table. I'm not allowed to soothe my burning bottom. However, dad rubs my bare back and also assures me how much I'm loved and yes, he is also sorry he had to use the strap. He also reminds me that this whole unpleasant situation was brought on by me. Mom will also stroke my hair and they both comfort me as I calm down. Dad then usually exits to give me some privacy as I get off the table and gather up my clothes. He will come back up to my room to talk more after I have put something back on. Usually just panties and a tee. As far as being fully nude, they believe that my punishment should have an element of embarrassment and shame and boy, being fully naked sure makes you humble. However dad doesn't make a big deal out of it. He doesn't stare or anything like that. Yes, he sees my features but doesn't make a production out of it. BTW, I usually keep my legs together. As bad as that strap is burning I wish to conceal as much as possible exposure wise. So, yes, like you, lots of comforting and support after. With their method, once the punishment is over, the slate is clean. I can't think of a time that I was ever yelled at. I was spanked by hand over daddy's lap up to 11-12. Then the strap. I think the technical name for what dad uses is a Scottish Tawse. It has two tails. Did I mention it is just hell? Google that and what my dad has should come up so you can see what I get it with. JanR [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:33:35 03/29/25 Sat Hi JanR, thank you for your reply. Interesting and helpful. Were your mother and father spanked growing up? If so, do you know how and to what age they got it? Have you ever been able to talk to either of them about spankings they may have had? Do you have any idea how long correction with the strap will continue? As long as you live at home? You mentioned your dad gave you the strap from both sides. Does that mean the table isn't against a wall but out in the middle of the floor? At least away from a wall? To strap from both sides does he give you 6 or 7 and then walk around to the other side of the table to finish? Thanks! Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:00:37 03/29/25 Sat Hi Mindy, Dad got the strap growing up. Mom, as far as I know wasn't spanked but actually felt that her parents were to soft if you can believe that. I believe dad got it in his room over the edge of the bed. I will get the strap as long as I'm at home. My parents don't believe in age boundaries. Behavior is what counts. Yes the table gets moved out away from the wall. Dad wants to ensure that my whole bottom gets equal treatment. I get about 10 from each side. Yes, he steps from one side to the other. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:39:00 03/31/25 Mon Hi Jan R, thanks for the reply. I'm always interested in two things. Just how other families, couples, spank and how they feel about it. I read the other day a great phrase, "headspace" and that's what I mean when I say how they feel about it. I hope your headspace is that as awful as it is to get the strap you find it helpful in becoming the person you want to be and you appreciate your mom and dad loving you enough to give it to you when you need it. I think spanking, the strap, establishes boundaries and growing up, and sometimes as a wife, I found comfort in knowing I could count on my parents to keep me in a safe place where I could grow and flourish. I also liked that we had a way of settling things and after it was over I was forgiven and it didn't drag on. I got on with my mother, who was the spanker, so much better than friends who were grounded got on with theirs. The room you get strapped in, is it on the main floor, perhaps in a bedroom wing, or upstairs? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:22:40 03/31/25 Mon Hi Mindy, I'll respond to this post first. I like your phrase "headspace". Dad often tells me just before he starts that he loves me and he wants this next few minutes to reinforce what we just talked about, meaning in lecture. Then it's are you ready Jan? I do appreciate my parents and yes, I love them very much. I think I mentioned that it doesn't come to this unless I have really earned it. I haven't mentioned this but my parents, especially dad are very protective of me. You can imagine the trouble I would be in for staying out past curfew and not calling in. I also like that when I have paid my debt, it's over. Clean slate. The room I get it in is dad's home study or office. Upstairs across the hall from my room. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:50:34 03/31/25 Mon Hi Jan R I think you have a very mature and what will be for you productive approach to the discipline your parents, dad, give you. Have you any idea where your mother's headspace is with the strap? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:58:18 03/31/25 Mon I have a break now so yes I know exactly what her headspace is with the strap. She is 100 % supportive. She is always there when I am going to get it. Thank you for the compliment. My uncle warned me about phone violations but I'm on break now. My next class starts in a few minutes. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:04:05 03/31/25 Mon Glad you were on break. I'd hate for you to have a table top experience with the strap because you were talking to me. Do you think your mom wishes she'd had the strap growing up? You said the strap room was upstairs across the hall from your bedroom. Is it the same size room as your bedroom? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:40:57 03/31/25 Mon Hi Mindy, Table top, that is kinda funny. Yes, mom actually told me that she regrets not being held accountable. She turned out fine but still wishes she had consequences. I don't know about the strap exactly but I think she does wish she had been disciplined. My dad did get the strap. Yes, dad's office room is the same size. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:26:35 04/01/25 Tue Thanks for writing back, Jan R. I can't help but wonder if in the past when you're safe away at school your mom hasn't had a turn up on the table a time or two. Probably seems total bizarre to you but it sounds like she recognizes the need for it in the past and might well feel it would have benefits now if, as and when needed. As you know a good strapping can clear the air and deal with stress, anxiety, guilt, all sorts of negative emotions and lead to a sense of peace and quietness better than any drug. I'd be interested to know something about the table. Might you describe it, best you can. Is there an overhang such you're able to grip it, the end above your head? When you're getting the strap does your mom ever say anything before, during, or after? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:10:20 04/01/25 Tue Dear Mindy, I have no idea if mom has ever been spanked by dad or not. If so, I certainly haven't been made aware of it. The only emotion I can describe is deep regret for what ever I did to get me back on the table before hand. After it's over, relief even though my bottom is now flaming and I am bawling like a 6-year-old. I'm not sure what to say about the table. It has a green top. I don't know exactly how tall it is, I would say similar to a desk. It looks to be the same height as dad's desk also in his study. I'm not sure what an overhang is but when I get into position I am to grasp the edge of the table above my head with both hands. My mom is always present when I'm going to get it. There have been times when she actually goes to dad's desk and gets the strap out as I'm undressing. Maybe dad is clearing off the table. It only has a couple of things on it anyway. The only thing she says to me is Jan I sure hope you learn from this. I'm usually fully naked and getting on or on the table as she hands the strap over to dad. At that point, mom is usually looking at my bare behind as dad is getting ready to start. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:43:03 04/01/25 Tue Lovely to hear from you, Jan. I hope you're not using the phone at school and would get in trouble. Wondering about the length of the table. When you reach forward and grip the edge above you how far is it from the top of your head to the edge of the table? When in position do your legs go out over the other end? If so, from knees down? Ankles down? Then, how wide is the table? Fairly narrow? Where in the room is the table in relation to the door, the desk and likely a window? A lot of questions I know and hope you'll answer. You say you're not sure if your mom has been spanked by your dad. Is it reasonable to conclude you think it a possibility? Your dad sounds like the sort who would give it to her, if she agreed, and she needed it. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:17:06 04/01/25 Tue Hi Mindy, I only check out the forum between class or on break. No ma'am, never during or when I could get in trouble. So, the table is about the same length as dad's desk. It's pretty wide and I'm usually laying length wise in the middle. My head is right up where I'm grasping the edge. My feet do hang off the back at my ankles. So, just my feet off the back. The table is up near a wall with a window. Recall, it's upstairs so impossible to see in. The door to the room is on the opposite wall. Looking through the door you have a full vies of the table and me. If I'm on top. Dad's desk is positioned at 90 degrees to the table I'm on and a little way away. Dad moves the table out so he can go to both sides. I think I mentioned that. Wow, as far as mom. OMG I'm not sure how I would react knowing that she gets the same as I do. I really don't know and I'm not sure I want to. I mean, mom is an adult right? I guess there are husbands that spank their wives. I do think mom would have to agree with it. I can't honestly say it has not happened but I can't say yes either. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:53:53 04/01/25 Tue Hi Jan R. Good to know you're not taking phone risks. Have I got this right ... if you're standing at the door looking straight ahead there's a window and in front of the window a table, the spanking table, and to the left (or is it the right?) is your dad's desk? Other furniture, things, in the room? There are lots of husbands who spank their wives, and some wives who spank their husbands and in some relationships they spank each other when needed although best I can tell you even in those relationships wives tend to get spanked far more often than the husband does. Some might say it's because men are more dominant, thinking it's macho to spank. I believe it's more the opposite. That women think it through and better recognize how they do better if spanked some and more likely to set the stage, perhaps unconsciously, to be spanked. I'd say there's a 50/50 chance your mom has had a spanking from your dad of some sort. Possibly OTK but I'd say the strap more likely. YES she would have agreed and as horrible and distressing as the spanking might be she'd take it willingly. Likely when she was disrobing for the spanking and putting herself in position she was far more willing to take it than your dad was to give it. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:40:23 04/01/25 Tue Hi Mindy, Lunch time. Yes ma'am. You have it right. The spanking table is right in front of the window but there are no buildings behind our house and it's second story so it's private. Dad's desk is to the left. I might just have to work up the courage to ask mom if dad has ever spanked her. Mom is pretty responsible and she handles all our bills and stuff so I would really be surprised. OMG it is so hard for me to even imagine mom on the table like me when I'm being disciplined. Oh yeah, you asked about other furniture in the room. Yes, a couple of chairs, one which I put my clothing on as it comes off. There are a couple of small book shelves as well. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:04:08 04/01/25 Tue Hi Jan R, thanks for the help on table placement etc. With your dad's desk is the room big enough that he can sit behind it and look out, or is it pushed against the wall so when he sits he faces the wall. When he's giving the strap, where in the room is your mother? Sitting, standing? Wondering if there are other homes out behind you? Not that they'd be able to see in but might hear? On talking to your mom about her being spanked, I'd not rush into that. The sort of thing you could talk to Uncle Nathan about and see what he thinks about you asking her and if you did how to best do it. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:16:39 04/01/25 Tue OK, school out. Dad sits behind and can look out. Mom is usually standing by the table. There isn't anything out behind us. Just a big empty field, at least for now. Yes, I hear you on talking to mom. I will talk to Nathan. Thank you for the tip. Great idea. OMG I read what he wrote. I mean, how completely embarrassing that he ENJOYED seeing me getting my bottom scalded. I'm kind of upset. God that's embarrassing and now I'm gonna talk to him about mom. OK, I get he got turned on and I'm not naive. I know he will keep that image in his head for a very long time. It's just that, God, dad was just blistering my bare bottom. I was naked and bawling like a baby. Really Nathan? OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Lindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:29:19 04/01/25 Tue Jan, Thanks for sharing your embarrassing punishments, we know how you feel. It's awful you are naked for it and I was wondering what it feels like across the table, like your boobs are pressed down on it? So at least your nips aren't visible. Also, your dad straps you from both sides! OUCH! Does he give a certain number of strokes then again from the other side? Must be scary when he walks around so your other bare bun will feel the worst part of the strap? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]