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Subject: Re: Expecting spankings Author: Anna [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:36:16 08/10/25 Sun In reply to: Karin_ven 's message, "Expecting spankings" on 01:08:23 08/03/25 Sun In questioning and asking questions to my child(ren) about their behavior they know that a spanking is forth coming. There have been a few occasions that they were spared a spanking. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Expecting spankings Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:54:20 08/10/25 Sun If we got in trouble, spanking was an expected punishment where I grew up. Not only was it legal, it was considered by many to be necessary in raising kids. Expectations were not always met, but being in trouble was a time filled with anxiety. Back then, kids didn't run around announcing they had been spanked, and parents tended to keep it within the family as best as they could. Back then, people interacted face-to-face, and honesty was still commonplace in contrast to today's normalization of lying. Do you believe everything you read backed with no evidence from anonymous people online? If you do, then anything is possible. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Expecting spankings Author: Karin_ven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:45:25 08/11/25 Mon I certainly dont believe everything what is said on the internet and even on this forum I have doubts with some storys being told. Some make it sound like it s almost a romantic bounding event getting a spanking. In my home it was a very painful and feared moment getting spanked. My mom was a good and fair spanker so nothing unexpected, it was a punishment, not a beating. Looking back it was for my own good and normal in most households. And like Gisela said I didnt look at that in that way. And I did everything to avoid it, so from that point of view it worked. As my mom said the spanking is to punish you but also to prevent from doing it again. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Expecting spankings Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:42:52 08/11/25 Mon I think the spankings most of us got as children were very painful events that we really hated at the time. We absolutely never wanted it to happen. For some it was also an experience full of shame, and something so embarrassing we did not want anyone to know that we were bad and got punished on the bare bottom. It was effective as discipline because it scared us into obedience and hoping to stay out of trouble. It often had more impact than just as a deterrent — but the negative opens up a can of worms that spanking advocates don't want to acknowledge. It's interesting that what is hated as a child can become a pleasant obsession, even a craving, when one becomes an adult. I believe that is what fuels so much fantasy presented as fact here online in the relative safety of anonymity. In today's culture, if there's a motive to lie, then why would people not take advantage of the opportunity? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]