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Subject: Re: One punishment every other month for 3 teenage girls


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Date Posted: 17:55:53 03/31/25 Mon
In reply to: Bob to Dean 's message, "Re: One punishment every other month for 3 teenage girls" on 02:02:34 03/31/25 Mon
 That still sounds too complicated, and if she is misbehaving, why not just handle it right away rather than waiting for the outcome of the cross system game? Doesn't that give her 24 crosses to play with before she has to mind her behavior?

My parents made their decisions in the moment at hand. If a spanking was needed in their opinion, they didn't have to wait for a game to be over. The way it worked in our house, an earned spanking was right away, or that same evening. There was nothing to think about other than don't do that again. Crime and punishment were always clearly connected, and the association with a specific issue remembered. I think it was effective enough, and life didn't revolve around how many crosses we had.
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