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Subject: Preventative Spankings


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 13:25:56 04/13/25 Sun

Has anyone ever received a preventative spanking when growing up. This is one big memorable spanking given to you to deter misbehavior in the future.

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Grumpy
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Date Posted: 15:18:56 04/13/25 Sun

Strange concept. I can see a kid saying, “well you already spanked me for misbehaving before I did so, so now I’m going to misbehave.”

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Ivy
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Date Posted: 15:23:30 04/13/25 Sun

I have seen light Pats on the rear and told "be good", etc.

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[> Subject: Re: Preventative Spankings


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Ross M
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Date Posted: 20:31:08 04/13/25 Sun

No. My parents were relatively sane people. What a crazy message to say we're punishing you before you might do it. To be fair and balanced, though, we should then get a reward after committing the offense. Thinking like that would turn the legal system upside down.

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Mark
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Date Posted: 19:35:31 04/14/25 Mon

I learned that it is a method of training a child. To prevent them from exploring boundaries and rules, parents give thec child one memorable spanking. The parents test the child to see if they will listen, and when they fail which he will always do, the child receives the spanking. After this memorable spanking, the child understand an important boundary that he should not cross. Curious if anyone ever received one.

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Ross M
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Date Posted: 20:35:37 04/14/25 Mon

Yes, I wasn't trying to claim that there are no crazy parents or badly conceived methods of raising children out there. I'd be interested to know how these children turned out as adults, and what they think of their parents. Assuming they are telling the truth.

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Florence
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Date Posted: 12:58:58 04/19/25 Sat

Yes, i remember getting one memorable spanking from my parents when i was small. Spanking was not an every day occurrence so the one time spanking I got was impactful.

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Ross M
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Date Posted: 01:13:23 04/24/25 Thu

Florence, the circumstances of the spanking are the issue here. Spankings can be very impactful for children, and in different ways depending on how mature the child is and how sensitive they are to an experience of being spanked. Did you perceive that spanking you got as fair and something you deserved, where your parents were doing their best to guide and protect you for your own good and teaching you that there are consequences for bad behavior? Or did they spank you just to teach you that, no matter how you behave, they must be feared?

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Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 07:33:26 04/22/25 Tue

Mark. You ask a good question. i have corresponded with several women who passionately defended their parents practice of preventive punishment.

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Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 12:00:04 05/09/25 Fri

Hi Mark. Do you approve of preventive spanking?

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College Rob
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Date Posted: 05:22:13 05/03/25 Sat

In the not too distant past, I received what could be called a Preventative Spanking. We were all dressed up and getting ready to leave for a family event. I was wearing a sport coat, tie, and trousers. Also, I really did not want to go and made a big fuss about it. Well, my mom took me by the arm, bent me over while unbuckling my belt, baring my behind. Sport coat and shirt tail held up bending me over with her left arm. Then she gave me several really hard and fast spanks with her bare hand. I did not cry, however, it did sting and then she told me: this is a preview of what you are going to get if I hear one more complaint.

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Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 12:01:09 05/03/25 Sat

Hi Deanna. In what way does it help you?

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Pastor Robertson
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Date Posted: 13:53:51 05/09/25 Fri

Rob, your spanking was perhaps more of a warning spanking than preventive because your whinny attitude was already deserving of a spanking, and what you received was more of a warning that a more painful bare bottoms up session was likely if you didn’t stop your complaining immediately. I think these spankings can be very helpful.

Pastor Robertson

Email: pastorrobertson@mailfence.com

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[> Subject: Re: Preventative Spankings


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Deanna
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Date Posted: 06:59:26 05/03/25 Sat

No my parents believe in spanking only for something you did wrong or were told to do and did not do it my husband though has started maintenance spankings he gave me the first one over the knee with his little paddle it still hurt I have watery eyes but adults are different and I consent because it helps me

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Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 11:58:02 05/09/25 Fri

Hi Deanna. In what way does it help you?

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Deanna for Louise
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Date Posted: 13:35:26 05/09/25 Fri

It seems too but we just started.

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Anna to Deanna
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Date Posted: 06:05:35 05/10/25 Sat

Who spanks the worse, your parents or your husband?
How old were you when last spanked by parents?

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Deanna for Anna
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Date Posted: 06:54:36 05/10/25 Sat

Both my dad and husband can both spank hard my last parental spanking was at 18 a week before my wedding my husband is older I am 20 my eyes are still watery from my maintenance spanking earlier

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Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 08:03:32 05/10/25 Sat

How did he apply the maintenance spanking? How many did you get?

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Deanna for Louise
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Date Posted: 08:24:15 05/10/25 Sat

He spanked me over the knee bare bottom he gave me 12 licks with the small oval paddle he uses for a little paddle it hurts a lot my parents used a similar paddle

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