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Subject: Re: Plausible punishment spankings Author: Alfred22 for Gisela [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 06:38:26 05/10/25 Sat In reply to: Gisela 's message, "Re: Plausible punishment spankings" on 12:24:03 05/09/25 Fri Greetings Gisela, I think that the social science studies of behavior suggest that punishment works best when it is certain, swift, and severe. A good friend told me that he found that the "certain" component was the most important and that he never spanked all that harshly. The spanking moms that I grew up with spanked when earned, always. In their house rule breaking guaranteed a spanking. For me the "awareness that there are appropriate correction instruments IN THE HOUSE and the certain knowledge they would be used on the bottom of a naughty child or REBELLIOUS TEENAGER if the occasion arose" would prompt extremely careful and conscientious behavior. It is ironic that I seem too polite to you. On my too brief visit to your beautiful mountainous country, I felt that many persons I encountered were very patient and that because I was dressed so casually they were more courteous than I merited. I would greatly appreciate the opportunity to return and perhaps to have a conversation with you over tea. I do believe that the very physical presence of implements whose only reason for being is to spank naughty bottoms firmly makes a highly influential statement silently and a much louder statement when employed. We have a version of the oat statement. We say that a person acting out is "feeling his oats." This is more a causal assertion rather than a warning to calm down and it refers generally to the youthfulness of the actor. There is another expression about "sowing wild oats" but it hints at frequent sexual partners. Stay cheerful, A22 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]