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Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Brittney [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 11:56:42 06/15/25 Sun In reply to: Lexiewheeler 's message, "Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up?" on 09:21:11 01/19/25 Sun I still get the belt. I got a whipping almost two weeks ago. My dad wore my bottom out 😭 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:27:04 06/15/25 Sun Hello Brittney, What did you do to deserve such a punishment from your father? How do you feel about this form of punishment? Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Warm regards, Gisela [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:54:51 06/15/25 Sun How good to see you, Gisela. For a while you seemed to have stopped contributing. I especially noticed your absence and worried that you had permanently departed. I greatly enjoy your direct and honest comments. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela to Alfred [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:43:31 06/16/25 Mon Thank you for your kind words, Alfred. I don't believe in sugarcoating things. Children are naturally reckless and prone to disobedience, and spanking helps them learn to behave and take responsibility for their actions. There's no need to make a big deal out of it, but it shouldn't be shamefully concealed either. I also greatly appreciate your contributions. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Marla to Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:03:23 06/16/25 Mon You and my mom would get along. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela to Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:52:14 06/17/25 Tue I'll take that as a compliment. Your mother seems to be a reasonable, experienced woman. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Marla to Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:01:42 06/17/25 Tue Yeah you would get along alright. I'm glad you aren't around here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela to Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:45:59 06/18/25 Wed Well, Marla, you're not alone in that. Many a naughty girl would have been a lot more glad if I hadn't been there. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Marla to Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:19:41 06/18/25 Wed Reading that literally made me grab by bottom! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela to Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:16:14 06/18/25 Wed That sounds like a guilty conscience, young Lady. If one of my children reflexively put their hands in front of their bottom in my presence, I always knew that it wouldn't be long before the next thrashing was due. Often all it took was a forceful question and the truth would come out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:31:07 06/18/25 Wed NO don't "young lady" me please! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela to Marla [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:58:37 06/18/25 Wed Ok - maybe you'd like to tell us occasionally why this phrase triggers you so much.That sounds like a story. By the way, as I will soon be 70, most people are quite young for me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Brittney to Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:24:05 06/16/25 Mon I was Smart mouthing my mom over chores and that's a guaranteed spanking. I hate getting spanked but I'm ok with it. It's better than getting grounded. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela to Brittney [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:37:13 06/17/25 Tue Well Brittney, maybe you're just saying what your father expects you to say. Then I don't have to judge that. Otherwise, however, I would have to assume that your whipping was not nearly strict enough. None of our children would have honestly said "I'm ok with it..." after I or my husband had punished them with the cane or strap. But of course the question wasn't fair in that respect either. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:39:38 06/21/25 Sat I do admire your approach to discipline. I would describe it as: FAIR and FIRM. When you mentioned that none of your children would assert that they were "OK with it (their spanking) ..." I am sure that what your children would mean is that their spanking was quite firm and that their bottom had not returned to a neutral or OK state. In short, they got a good one and they were still feeling it. As we all know, spanking works both by the memory of getting it AND by the tingling and smarting that is the gift that keeps on giving, perhaps for a day or so. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela for Alfred [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:35:28 06/22/25 Sun Well, if you had given one of our children the choice of having their butts tanned as punishment or being grounded, doing chores, having their pocket money taken away, or something similar instead, they would always have gladly chosen the second option. But of course they didn't have the choice, any more than my grandchildren do today. That was decided solely by my husband or me. A brief reference to the cane was often enough to bring about the desired change in behavior. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:35:37 06/24/25 Tue I am sure that both generations your family have vivid memories of what even one cane stroke does to their bottom. Each stroke is a serious punishment; that is the reason that canings can often be enumerated on the fingers of just one hand. I suspect an explicit, albeit brief, hint that their current behavior might lead to a touch of the cane was highly influential. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela for Alfred [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:48:38 06/25/25 Wed In fact, we could count the number of strokes of the cane we received on the fingers of one or at least both hands. Three, six, eight or ten were the normal punishment levels, in very rare cases a dozen. Sometimes one or two extra, because we made too much of a fuss during the punishment. And of course there wasn't a caning every week or so. On average over the years, I would estimate every three months per child, sometimes more often, sometimes less often. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Alfred22 for Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:08:40 06/25/25 Wed I do hope, given how much even a single stroke of the cane hurts, that you learned how to avoid being in trouble. The thought of four minimal encounters (4 x 3) with the cane every year has me rubbing my bottom and wondering how many cane strokes you have felt growing up in total! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela for Alfred [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:05:45 06/25/25 Wed A question, Alfred, that I have never actually asked myself so specifically. I discussed this with my sister on the phone yesterday, and she said that my estimate (every three months) was perhaps a little high. We agreed on three sessions per year and an average of seven strokes per session over the years. I'm pretty sure I won't have received three cane punishments by the age of 10, and by the age of 19 there was definitely only one – the last one from my father. So, very, very roughly estimated, there were about 180 cane strokes in my youth spread over almost ten years. That sounds much more violent than I remember it. You can avoid trouble simply by strictly obeying explicit instructions and otherwise asking yourself before every decision what your dad, or whoever corrects your decisions on your bare bottom with the cane, would expect of you. You don't always answer this question correctly, sometimes even deliberately. But the expectations and standards of your disciplinarian become a very defining element in your life. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up? Author: Gisela for Alfred [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:16:36 06/25/25 Wed And yes, even a few strokes with the cane can be extremely painful. Even if it didn't always work, we did everything we could to prevent it from getting that far. Being rude to my father would have been unthinkable. And our children also learned in good time to respect our rules and take them seriously. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]