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Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up?


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Gisela
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Date Posted: 22:53:55 06/15/25 Sun
In reply to: Caroline 's message, "Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up?" on 12:22:10 05/29/25 Thu

From my experience, I don't believe that thin cotton underwear makes any real difference in terms of pain perception. At least not when the spanking is administered with a wooden spoon, paddle, belt, or even a cane. I don't have any reliable experience in this area, as in my family we always got spanked / spank on the bare bottom, except for the occasional friendly pat.

First and foremost, there are probably two differences. From the child's point of view, spanking on the underwear at least preserves the visual protection of the rather intimate parts of the body such as the buttocks, genitals, or even the butt hole. This reduces the feeling of shame, total defenselessness, and utter helplessness that always overwhelms you when you are being spanked.

From the perspective of the person administering the punishment, a completely naked bottom makes it easier to assess the effect, as the condition of the skin and bumcheeks is more visible.

And, of course, there is also the combination where the punisher deliberately wants to induce this feeling of shame, helplessness and defenselessness as part of the punishment. Be that as it may, after the first few spanks, I didn't really care about the dress code of my butt anyway. I had other things to worry about.

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Louise Vancisic Vancisic
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Date Posted: 06:44:53 06/17/25 Tue

Ho Gisela. Your observation is spot on. Having to lift my dress and getting spanked on my panties was shameful enough. Having my bottom bared was even more so. Hence my mother used that option for serious offenses such as lying, deliberate disobedience or disrespect.

Spankings for issues of responsibility were almost always over my panties.

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