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Subject: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Mork and Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:42:50 06/28/25 Sat In another thread JanR wrote: "On another note Mindy since I am posting to you. Yesterday, I posted about my parents rule for me when I go out to our pool and leave the pool to go mack to the house. Well, I said something about my parents rule that I should not have which was brought up. As you know, my dad has come on here, so rather than having him come on here and see what I wrote, I told him. He read my post and we discussed it, in his private study. I will not be going to the pool and laying out in my swimsuit for a few days. I do have shorts I can put on. I probably don't have to spell out what happened. Yes, I deserved it and have apologized to mom and dad. All is forgiven. I thought you might be interested in this little update." I have put this here to help keep the other thread focused on birthday spankings. Now ... Well, JanR, I'm sorry to hear about this. It sounds like you deliberately turned yourself in knowing you'd be spanked. Am I right? If so, very brave of you. I'm sure others, as well as myself, would like to know how it all went down. Also, when did it happen? Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:37:48 06/28/25 Sat Dear Mindy, Yes, I turned myself in. You probably saw the posts from Thea. I got to feeling bad and guilty for what I said. I know my parents make rules for my own good so what I said wasn't respectful. Yes I knew it would probably be the strap. It's been a while. So, I went in and confessed to dad about my post. He read it then instructed me to report to his study. Mom read it too. I was in tears when I walked across the hall to his room. Mostly cuz I felt bad about what I said. Dad asked me how we should address this. I just said dad I know what I deserve. Dad instructed me to undress and he cleared off the table. THen he removed the strap from his desk and applied an ample portion of oil to it. I knw then it was gonna be bad. By then I'm undressed and dad escorts me to the table. I got two crisp swats on my bare buttocks. Then onto that table and into position. Then I hear dad say Ann come in here please. Mom isn't always present when I get it, most of the time though. When mom stepped in I felt the burn of the oiled strap across my bare. I screamed. God did that strap burn. I got 15 and OMG I was on fire. This happened yesterday afternoon. I wrote to you about it while laying on my bed, still nude. I still have heavy strap marks across both sides of my bottom. I apologized to mom and dad later and we had a big group hug. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:59:39 06/28/25 Sat Dear JanR, Thankyou for the background. Just to be clear, this was early Friday afternoon? June 27? When you say you got two crisp swats before you got up on the table, was that your dad's hand? Is that usual? I'm wondering if you're (in some ways) glad you had the strap, that you turned yourself in? If so, is that just to have made amends for calling your parents 'lame' or might you have been feeling, at some level that you needed the strap for other, perhaps just a "it's time I got it" reason. When I was at home, older, I sometimes felt the need of a spanking to reset all sorts of family, personal and emotional switches. When thoughts of 'I deserve it' and 'I need it' got too much if there wasn't something to turn myself in for, rather than doing something to provoke a spanking, I'd have a talk with mom. Essentially ask to be spanked. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:18:08 06/28/25 Sat Dear Mindy, Yes, yesterday. I made the post on Thursday and fessed up yesterday. Yes, I have gotten swats on my bare buttocks en route to the table before. It was with his hand. I can't say that I wanted the strap. I didn't God it burns like hellfire. However, feeling bad and guilty about something is no fun either. Yes, the strap is hell and having to undress is never fun but at least it's over and the slate is clean. I don't think I ever see myself asking daddy for the strap. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:56:07 06/28/25 Sat I agree --- not easy even thinking about asking for a spanking! You said you don't think you'd ever see yourself asking your dad for the strap. Well ... I'm sure the strap does burn like hellfire. My mother's did but sometimes my, oh I don't know, guilt? need for a reset? would override the terror and I'd ask. But that would be an OTK bare with brush affair, not likely the strap. As you said, the slate is clean and that's rather nice, comforting. As I see it, in turning yourself in, you really were asking your dad to give you the strap. You knew you'd get it. You knew your slate wasn't clean and you wanted it over, not wait until he might discover another way, and you wanted a clean slate. So, you "asked" for the strap. Does that seem right to you? BTW, does your dad read this group often? In another thread you said your condo was one of many built around a pool and you were one street back. Must be a lot of condos there. Do you have friends with condos? Boys? Girls? Mindy Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:11:51 06/28/25 Sat Dear Mindy, I see what you're saying about "asking" for the strap. Yes, I was pretty sure I was gonna get it and at my age, it's only the strap. Yes, I was scared but the shame and guilt was worse and yes, deep down I knew what I said was wrong and I knew I deserved consequences. As you recal, when dad asked me how do we address this I told him I know what I deserve. I got it too!!!!! Yes there are many condo units in our complex. From my house to the pool is about 5 minutes. We really don't see our neighbors much so no friends from home. Dad comes here from time to time. He would really rather just allow me to post. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Gisela for Jan R [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:27:02 06/28/25 Sat Dear Jan, Of course, there have been numerous occasions in my life when the almost painful tension of a guilty conscience was released after a beating. The account was settled, all debts paid. I was able to look my parents and later, but many years longer, my husband in the eye again with peace. Nevertheless, I don't think I have ever explicitly asked to be punished in my life. My mother and later especially my husband were experts at interpreting my behavior and knowing when it was time again. I remember a thrashing when I was 15... 'until you tell us what happened...!' It didn't take many blows before I confessed and got the actual punishment. Maybe I begged for it unconsciously. But I never had your courage to ask for the punishment directly like you. I was always too afraid of the pain. Absolute respect for your spirit. Warm greetings - Gisela [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:16:14 06/29/25 Sun I know your message was to JanR, Gisela, but wanted to say hello and that it was an interesting message. Nice of you to be supportive of her. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:13:29 06/29/25 Sun Thanks for your post, JanR. Your condo sounds lovely. Are there like 200 of them, more? less? around the pool? Is it one of those places that has a gate to check cars coming in? Sorry you don't have any friends right at the condo. Do you have to go far to see them? It's good you know you deserved the consequences and value a clean slate. It's not easy at the time I know but for those of us 'built' this way I found it a smallish price to pay for a clear mind and harmony at home. You say your dad comes here from time to time. Does your mom also check-in sometimes? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Jan R to Mindy and Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:36:45 06/29/25 Sun Dear Gisela, Thank you for the kind words. I do agree with Mindy, in a way I was asking dad to discipline me and take the guilt away. Oh, and welcome. Dear Mindy, Yes, our condo is very nice. I love it. There probably are 200 units. The complex is pretty large. Some units face the pool from two sides. No entrance gate. Cars can just drive in and theres parking for visitors. I did feel so much better after it was over with. I am still a bit tingly and there are some faint strap marks still. About my friends, this is a little embarrassing but I'm sure you will be interested. Like I said, no condo friends but my BFF who happens to be named Mandy lives close by. Actually in another set of units across the street from ours. So we hand out a lot. Me at her house and Mandy at mine. Well a couple months back Mandy is over and we are hanging out in my room. Dad was home and downstairs with mom. Mandy has to use the bathroom so she goes down the hall past daddy's study. His door was open. When Mandy comes back she says Jan come here I want to show you something. She takes me into the hall and down to dad's study. OMG Mindy, the strap was resting on top of his desk. Mandy was shocked. Jan does your daddy use that on you? Mindy I wanted to just DIE!!!!!!!!!! You have no idea how hard it was to hold back tears. I had to confess. Thank God she didn't ask for details but I told her yes, I get that strap when I'm bad. Mandy did ask how he does it. I just said I have to lay on the table which I pointed to and then dad straps my bottom. Mandy asked if I cry. God yes I cry, like a baby. Mandy just hugged me and said Jan I'm sooooo sorry for you. Mandy gets scolded and grounded or devices taken away, stuff like that. Her parents don't spsnk. I love Mandy and I trust her with this but OMG was it embarrassing. Later I asked daddy why it was out. He had just oiled it. I did confess to Mandy that I just got it for posting what I did. Yes, Mandy knows I post online but doesn't know anything about Voy. OMG if she saw some of the descriptions of how I get spanked I WOULD DIE!!!!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:23:34 06/29/25 Sun Hello JanR, thanks for your message. Always nice to hear from you. Being in a condo I'm thinking the units must be close together, perhaps share a wall? Are you comfortable that the sounds of your getting the strap won't be heard by neighbors? Lovely you have Mandy close by although I'm sure it was embarrassing when she discovered the strap. Does anyone else, friend or family, know you're punished with spanking? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:34:47 06/29/25 Sun Dear Mindy, We hardly ever see neighbors and so fas as I know, nobody has ever commented on hearing anything so I'm guessing that even though the units are close together, no neighbor has ever said anything. God, I would die. I love Mandy like a sister. Mandy knows and of course, my uncle does. Outside of mom and dad, those are the only two that know. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:48:44 06/29/25 Sun Glad to hear the neighbors aren't aware. That would be embarrassing! Is your pool open 365 days a year or does it have to get drained in winter? How long has Mandy known? How long has your uncle known? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:03:34 06/29/25 Sun Dear Mindy, Our pool is open all year. Our winters are mild here so the pool area stays open. OMG if a neighbor ever said something I would truly DIE. Embarrassing is an understatement. Mandy has know for maybe a couple months. My uncle has known for several months. You read my posts about him spying one time when I was getting spanked right? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:00:50 06/29/25 Sun Hi RanR, I do remember someone here, a number of months ago, sounds like it was you, telling about an uncle who had witnessed one of her spankings. I know the post was back awhile. Was this you? When did he get to see? Can't remember, had you offended him and he was invited to witness? Must be wonderful to have a pool open year round. Friends go to Palm Springs in the winter and the pool at their condo is open year round. Pools here in the Twin Cities become skating rinks. Not that anyone skates on them, but they do become ice. Will you be swimming today? Do you mom and dad go over for swims as well? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:40:00 06/29/25 Sun Dear Mindy, Yes, that was me. If you scroll down you can find some of my posts about it. No he was not invited to watch and no I didn't offend him. He saw me fully nude on the table and watched dad applying the strap to my bare bottom. It was just awful. So it gets real cold where you live. I might go out to the pool. Not sure yet. Yes mom and dad go out sometimes. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:11:55 06/29/25 Sun I'll scroll down and see what I can find about your uncle. Yes, real cold. The Twin Cities are Minneapolis and St. Paul. We're right across the Mississippi River from each other. I'm on the west side, not far from the MSP airport while St. Paul is on the east side of the river. Minnesota is right up against Canada. There are 10,000 lakes in this State and 22 of them are right in Minneapolis! Do you have a lot of snowbirds, us northerners looking for warm in the winter, in your area? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:31:08 06/29/25 Sun Dear Mindy, We probably do. When you said twin cities I knew it was Minnesota and I know it gets beyond cold there in winter. Uncle and I have since talked and made up and I've seen him a few times since then but OMG it was just awful looking over and seeing him watching. He left as soon as we made eye contact and mom, uncle's sister really yelled at him for peeking in like that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: ts92 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:56:26 06/29/25 Sun Disrespecting my parents or any elder for that matter would be an automatic trip over mom's lap with panties down and hairbrush in her hand. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: TNGal40 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:35:31 06/29/25 Sun Same. If I was really disrespectful especially around other adults, I might expect a slap across the face. Was pretty rare (and I don’t condone it) but I sure had that coming [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:43:00 06/29/25 Sun Well, in my youth (the late 1950s and throughout the 1960s), it was not uncommon for a child to be slapped in public. Especially if they interrupted a conversation between adults. Often accompanied by comments such as, ...You keep quiet when adults are talking, or ...You only speak when you are asked. Or the dreaded, ...We'll talk when we get home... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Vicky for Jan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:58:27 07/03/25 Thu Jan: That takes a lot of guts to ask for it like that. I've never done it myself but friends of mine have as has my son. The common element is a feeling of guilt that you just can't get rid of. I hope the strapping relieved the guilt for you? When my son did what you did I was half impressed he had the guts to do so while still being disappointed in his lack of judgment. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Jan R to Vicky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:15:49 07/03/25 Thu Dear Vicky, Thank you ma'am. Yes I felt guilty. I wasn't dead sure I was going to get the strap but I was pretty sure. Yes ma'am. I was relieved when dad finished. Dad actually told me he was proud of my confession as he rubbed my back while I was calming down. Happy 4th tomorrow Vicky. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Becky to Jan R [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:17:31 07/04/25 Fri Hi Jan R. I must say you are a brave teenager to know that you are going to be spanked when you confess a bad behavior that you have committed. Does your dad ease up on the swats of the strap when you confess a bad behavior? Does he give you less swats when you confess your bad behavior? May I ask you how many spankings you have received this year? What age would you say you were spanked the most? Has there ever been a time when you have received more than one spanking in a 24-hour period. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Jan R to Becky [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:23:13 07/04/25 Fri Dear Becky, Thank you for calling me brave. Yes, it was hard to confess but I felt bad about what I wrote and I just knew I had to tell dad. I don't know if he eased up any but I think I got less than I would have gotten had I not told him what I wrote and then he came here and found it. So far this year,2. One a few months back for giving mom attitude and this one. I'm currently 16 so I guess still in my spanking years. I've never been spanked more than once in 24 hours. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Alfred22 for JanR [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:54:38 07/04/25 Fri I do apologize, Jan R, for posting accidentally under your handle. I would like to support Becky when she asserts that you are courageous making your confession. Teen spankings are always intense and that can prompt a person to take chances doing things to avoid detection such as driving fast or otherwise rushing to meet a curfew or promised arrival home time. Making spankings so intense is risky. Spankings unfortunately have to be unpleasant but making them so intense that the recipients want to avoid them "at all costs" seems counterproductive to me. My two best friends got harsh encounters with wide straps and avoided them diligently. Not quite at all costs but sometimes taking chances that had a serious probability of big trouble. As luck would have it, both lived to spend a lot of time in the Navy and, sadly, both became smokers and died young. This is not a criticism of your parents or of your spankings. If you only have had a couple this year, that seems reasonable and as we are discussing, they are not so intense that you can't confess to what will earn one. I do know all too that they hurt. We all here know all too well what it is like. But. that's why we are admiring your maturity and courage demonstrated by clearing the slate with the confession. Brava for Jan. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Consequences of disrespecting parents Author: Jan R to Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:40:11 07/04/25 Fri Dear Alfred, Again, thank you. I hear everything you are saying and I agree. My discipline is intense enough to prevent me from taking a lot of risky chances and well, isn't that the whole point. We also know that I have been on the spanking table more than once, and I'll live. Yes, it's very unpleasant and embarrassing but again, I am being disciplined for a bad choice. Interesting you bring up curfew. Yes in this house it's the strap. Not for missing curfew but for failing to call and let them know ahead of time that I'm running late. I won't have the speeding issue as I don't drive. My parents are reasonable. If I'm at my friends and I'm gonna be late, I call. As long as I do that, I'm good. I'm very sorry about your friends. As you can imagine there is a strict no smoking or drinking policy here. Break that and yes, it will be the strap long and hard. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]