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Subject: Re: lifelong discipline Author: Gisela to Platinum Ice [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 02:05:27 09/29/25 Mon In reply to: Platinum Ice 's message, "Re: lifelong discipline" on 20:41:41 09/28/25 Sun Thank you very much for your honest opinion, Platinum Ice. And technically speaking, you're certainly right. But I've been comfortable my whole life with my husband imposing punishments for my behavior without asking for my consent. I suppose it's a question of character and, in my case, upbringing. Being punished also means also handing over responsibility for your own behavior to your disciplinarian. The punishment (whether actual or only potential) balances the account for you personally, so that you no longer have any guilt in this regard. At least, that's how it has always worked for me and it has given us 45 very happy years of marriage. I know that this won't be the solution for many women — but it was for me. Warm regards from Switzerland — Gisela [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: lifelong discipline Author: Ross M [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:03:36 09/29/25 Mon If you choose to allow your husband to punish you, then it is consensual, and who's to say you should not accept it? If you didn't want the relationship, you would not be here saying you are happy. The problem for a husband is that, he better be sure his wife is okay with being physically punished. If he simply makes an assumption that doesn't bear out, it could be assault and battery. Though I'm into domestic discipline, the conditions must be negotiated before implemented. Once we know how things are supposed to work, then there is no need to ask for punishment. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]