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Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Dean [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 05:17:50 03/26/26 Thu In reply to: Allison to Dean 's message, "Re: Shower after paddling" on 06:44:38 03/25/26 Wed Hi Allison. As many a student knows, a school paddling can still burn right through the seat of your pants. So even when you don't have to remove your jeans and step out of your panties, I would still be feeling sorry for you. We always got it bare growing up. I'm not sure why, but I think my parents might have approached it like a doctor, nurse, or surgeon. They had to see what they were doing, and there can't be anything covering the area on which they were operating. So having to take pants off was not a measure of the punishment. The more serious the misbehavior, the longer the spanking. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:22:00 03/27/26 Fri Hi Allison. That is interesting your dad targets your lower buttocks because that is exactly how mine spanked too. I also saw it on my siblings. The bulls-eye marks were lower than center. While nothing was ever explained, it seems the only reason for that is to punish where the body is padded better for absorbing the impact of the paddle. I think schools regulate it, and why the procedure is to have the one being punished bend over so that the under curve of the behind is presented as the target. The downside is that all the swats or spanks are narrowly focused, and those spots can get burned badly. What I find interesting about this is how spanking can be deliberately and carefully applied. The parent isn't just lashing out all over the place in anger, and the one being punished must stay in position. The punishment is a rigidly controlled procedure that is very painful but also safely administered. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Allison to Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:45:33 03/27/26 Fri Hi Dean, I think I mentioned that my dad paddles slowley. He takes his time with each swat and sometimes when I'm really starting to react to the intense burn I am reminded to remain in position. If I do reach back and grab by bottom dad simply tells me sorry Allison that swat doesn't count. It's hell on earth but remaining in position gets it overwith sooner. I've noticed that the "bulls-eye" paddle marks are also lower than center for mine as well. Sitting is really difficult for at least the next couple days. It's interesting that you mention a spanking is carefully and deliberately applied. That is exactly the case here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:45:59 03/28/26 Sat Allison, with a slow paddling like you have received, the desperation to grab your spank spots must have been incredibly high. With the smaller paddle, my dad spanked pretty fast. Oddly, I don't remember any of us having to be told to stay in position. If the paddlings had lasted longer, I'm not sure anyone could have managed it. At older ages, I actually could have refused a spanking, or resisted it more, but for some reason, I did not dare to disobey. There were times I tried to plead my way out of a spanking, but once the take your pants off command was spoken, that was the end of all bargaining. As you say, after the paddle, you will have to be sitting directly on your bulls-eyes. There's the old parental saying, "You won't be sitting after I'm through," or words to that effect. Does your dad ever tell you that? Some parents will deliberately take away your sitting privileges. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Allison to Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:28:51 03/29/26 Sun Hi Dean, The desperation to reach back is very high but I know better. Another thing I may or may not have mentioned is that often dad informs me ahead of time just before he begins. "Ok Allison, 12 swats young lady." So I know where I am in the process. My dad's paddlings are awful enough that you don't need a lot of swats, as he calls them, for the point to sink in. I'm in desperate tears by like number 3. Yes, dad reminds me to stay in position. I firmly think he doesn't like this any more than I but sees it as his fatherly duty when I have messed up. Yes, sitting after a paddling is close to hell, especially right after. No dad has never said anything like you won't be sitting after I'm through. We both already know. When it comes paddling time dad is usually very kind, almost sorry. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:46:23 03/31/26 Tue Wow, Allison. 12 swats is horrible. The max at schools I went to was 5, and that was with your pants on. As you know, each successive swat is worse than the one before, as the wood is punishing already tenderized spots. It was about at 3 that the burn got bad, so when sentenced to 5, and you knew what you were in for, the tears could already be flowing before the first lick. When you are in for a paddling on the bare from your dad, I imagine you are in panic mode. It must be terrible for a parent to have to administer the paddle. I can understand why your dad would hate doing it to his precious daughter. Does that make it worse for you, knowing you did something that made him have to punish you? It sounds like you have a huge amount of incentive to be good. When you get in trouble, is it usually by accident, or do you intentionally misbehave? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Allison to Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:39:22 03/31/26 Tue Hi Dean, Yes, 12 ia horrible. I've read about school paddlings and they also sound awful and embarrassing but as you mentioned, it's over your clothing and far less swats. At home there are no restrictions. So yes, 12 and on the bare for a serious offense and yes the tears are flowing before the first lick. I think it's more dread and being ashamed than it is panic mode. I'm sure dad hates it but probably also feels he is doing me a service by holding me accountable. Yes, that makes it worse for me because I know this is my fault and now here we are again. At the paddling wall as dad is instructing me to remove my jeans and step out of my panties. I don't think I will ever get used to hearing that. It's awful every time. No I don't intentionally misbehave but sometimes I really don't think clearly and have been talked into doing stupid things like cutting the last class at school to go hang out with some friends that graduated last year after I have been at school all day. Is taking a little time off going to hurt my grade? No, not mine but rules are rules and after my parents are notified that I'm not there for last period and the school just wants to make sure I'm ok or we haven't had a family emergency. Stuff like that. I go quite a while and really do excersize more caution right after a session at "the wall" if you know what I mean. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:24:52 03/31/26 Tue Hi Allison. I can relate to the influence of your peers causing bad decisions. One moment you feel all grown up, hanging with your friends, doing something you're not supposed to, but what it leads to is an embarrassing spanking from your father. You get a harsh reminder that you are not independent, and that you must listen to your parents, not your friends. You hope your friends don't find out what happened to you at home, that the next time you see them, they don't know about those bull-eyes under the seat of your pants, and why you no longer have an interest in any risky ideas they are having. I'm sorry you got caught cutting class. You must have thought you could get away with it but, sadly, you ended up at "the wall." It sounds like you are trying hard to be good, so I hope your dad appreciates that. I would bet overall, he is a very proud father. I think I turned out okay, but at times things were more rocky for me. I went through a phase in adolescence where I was rebellious and arrogant, and that rebellion was eventually put down quite emphatically. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Allison to Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:55:58 03/31/26 Tue Hi Dean, Yes peer pressure. Amazing how easy it becomes to resist it after a recent trip to "the wall". Oh I got a harsh reminder, very harsh. I won't soon forget and that was a while ago. No my friends don't know how I'm dealt with at home other than those girls that saw some evidence under my panties in the locker room some time back. I mentioned that right? It's a real challenge sitting with fresh "bulls-eyes" on your lower cheeks. I don't know what I was thinking when I agreed to cut class. I guess I was just caught up in the moment and didn't think ahead. I knew Cutting that one time wasn't going to impact how I was doing in the class but rules are rules and I paid. Yes, dad is proud and he is very happy when I'm on the straight and narrow, me too. Amazing how the paddle can help turn bad behavior into good. I assume that's how your rebellious behavior was changed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Allison to Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:54:01 04/01/26 Wed Hi Dean, Interesting how your parents kind of just stopped keeping close tabs as you grew into your teens. I have always been raised strict. For me it seems to be the opposite. I was also raised strict when younger but it seems to be even stricter now. Yes, my parents pay close attention to what I do, where I am, and with whom. If I mess up, not very likely I will pull it off. I happen to be very sensitive and I feel guilt easily. So when I have done something I know would not be approved it isn't long before the guilt is showing. I guess you could say I wear my feelings on my sleaves. I typicall do think about "the wall" and the potential consequences and that helps alot. I'm not that concerned with fitting in with the cool kids, not if it's going to get me in trouble. My parents really do parent so they spend a lot of time talking and I know I can come to them with anything that I'm thinking about. This is kind of embarrassing but unlike most 17-year-old girls I still love being in my daddy's lap. I am a daddy's girl for sure but that doesn't mean he won't fullfill his duty as dad when necessary. I hear you on the threat not always eliminating misbehavior. I guess my class cutting is a good example. So, on that note, when I did come home that afternoon mom asked me how school was. I probably already looked guilty. I was smart enough not to lie. I confessed. I was sent to my room until dinner. Mom had already texted dad so he knew everything by the time he got home. As you can guess, dinner was a little tense that night. Dad actually asked me if it was worth it. "No sir." Right answer. After dinner was over we headed to the "area". Yes to "the wall" Dad brought the paddle from the kitchen where it is kept. I was given a strong lecture on cutting class , school policy and the rules are still rules for everyone whether you are an all A's AP student or not. I had nothing to say in my own defense. I was asked if I had a full understanding of why I needed to be disciplined. "Yes sir." "Very well Allison, remove your jeans and step out of your panties." God I hate that. THen after undressing completely from waist down including shoes and socks I was told to face the wall with hands on head. Meanwhile mom is making sure the windows are closed and the blinds closed. After several minutes I hear dad enter again and pick up the paddle off the coffee table. "Ok Allison hands with palms flat on the wall feet apart." "Are you ready Allison?" " Crying now, "Yes daddy." "12 swats Allison remain in position until we are finished." Then "THWAP". God the burn is just awful. Nice and slow until all 12 have been applied. So, no, I think pretty hard about "the wall" before I go ahead with any behavior that will end me up there. That is the point right? BTW thank you for your kind words and I'm glad you have turned out good as well. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:11:21 04/02/26 Thu Allison, the way you describe your punishment, it is almost like being there to witness it. It is very sad to see a good girl in such a bad situation. I know you feel you deserved a spanking, but that is because you are so conscientious. The irony is that many bad kids get away with murder, while you break a rule that did not really hurt anyone, and you get a 12-lick burning without any protection whatsoever that has you probably crying your eyes out and unable to sit down for awhile. I trust that you are at least back in your daddy's lap and all is forgiven. Thank you for your kind words as well. I like to think I turned out okay, though I had some rough stretches where maybe a spanking like I got as a younger teenager would have been the better influence needed. It is difficult to imagine at 17, when you are so close to adulthood. One other thing you have in your favor is that you should not grow up with regrets. You will not forget your paddlings at the wall. You will make the best of your adolescence, and not look back on what might have been. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Allison to Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:47:59 04/02/26 Thu Hi Dean, I like how you described it. A 12-lick burning that had me bawling my eyes out. That would have been at number 3 sir. I like to think of how I'm being raised as having parents that care. No I won't forget my paddlings at the wall. I do not have any regrets so far at least. Well, yes I do, cutting class to go hang with friends and not just because I ended up at the wall. Mostly because I really let mom, dad, and myself down by caving in and saying ok. Trust me those were my thoughts facing the wall, nude from waist down with by bottom bare and ready for my paddling. Yes, actually I was back in dad's lap that night. It's kind of funny how a session at the wall turns me into a little girl again who just wants to comfort with daddy. In this house once that last burning swat sears across by bare backside, all is forgiven. The slate is clean again. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:06:09 04/03/26 Fri You are a very good girl, Allison. When I say you will have no regrets when you look back on your youth, I mean that you won't think about bad things you did that went unpunished. Everyone makes mistakes. You feel bad now about letting yourself and your parents down, but there is an authoritative end to this story — the burning consequences on your bare bottom. There will never be doubts that you got away with anything. The slate has been wiped clean because you have paid the full tangible price for your misbehavior. Seated on your dad's lap, I hope comfortably, he must have been so proud of his little girl. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Allison to Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:58:52 04/03/26 Fri Thank you sir. I would like to think I'm good and dad makes sure to emphasize that. Even after a session at the wall, dad will tell me that I'm a very good person. I just made a bad or foolish decision. Yes sir, I did feel bad but I also realized that there are still consequences to face. Yes, 12 burning swats later my debt was paid. It's nice to know that once the discipline has been administered the slate is clean. Well, it wasn't the most comfortable lap sitting I have ever done but I still wanted to be there. Yes, dad was / is proud and it gives me such joy to make my parents feel that way. BTW have a very nice Easter weekend sir. I like talking with you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:21:35 04/05/26 Sun Thank you, Allison. I have enjoyed talking with you too. Stay out of trouble, young lady, and have a wonderful Easter. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Allison to Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:55:34 04/05/26 Sun Will do. So far, so good. I will. Thank you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Shower after paddling Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:46:47 04/01/26 Wed Hi Allison. Peer pressure was the most common cause of my problems growing up. Like you when you cut class, I sometimes did not think ahead, but many times I knew what I was doing. I was not the type to look for trouble myself, but looking cool in the eyes of other kids was way too important to me in my teen years, and I was often hanging around with rebellious kids. I was raised strict when younger, but then my parents started to not keep close tabs on what I was doing. Except for some minor screw ups, I did not get caught, so that only encouraged me to follow along with the misbehavior around me. This went on for a few years with no punishments whatsoever. Do your parents pay close attention to what you do, where you are, who you are with, and so on? If you mess up, what is your chance of getting away with it? I imagine when you are tempted to misbehave, you usually think about "the wall", your dad's paddle, and where the bulls-eyes burn, but if you do get caught up in a moment, or believe you can get away with something, it can turn out very badly like when you cut class. You did mention how the girls had seen some embarrassing evidence in the locker room. It must be a relief to you if they know nothing about what they got you into this time. Even under the threat of harsh corporal punishment, misbehavior is not always eliminated. My years of acting out for my rebellious peers eventually came to a head, and a bad boy got the spanking of his life. My attitude got changed for real, but not really because I wanted it that way. As it turned out, I later became rebellious again, and the only thing that put down that rebellion was that I grew up and wasn't a child any more. You and your parents are very lucky that you are not a problem child, and that your future is not in jeopardy due to rebellion or anything self-destructive. It sounds to me like you would turn out fine whether your dad spanked you or not, but the strict parenting is still good for you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]