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Subject: Re: What is said

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Lessja

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Date Posted: 01:16:20 05/25/25 Sun
In reply to: Louise Vancisic Vancisic 's message, "Re: What is said" on 08:59:40 05/23/25 Fri

> Trying to stay silent can come across as defiance.

That was a bad experience I made as an adult spankee. In my kinky circle, silence was usually seen as an expression of submission just like staying in position and following instructions. There's a limit to how long you can suffer in silence, but an effort to stay quiet as long as possible was expected and demanded. Eventually, I got punished by someone who saw it just the other way around. It hurt when she called me a "defiant little bitch" for not showing enough reaction. In that case, the problem was a lack of communication and clear expectations.

Parental spankings are probably different. My own parents didn't spank, but I imagine you quickly learn what your parents expect from you during a spanking and you can adjust to that. What might be difficult is switching "modes" between parents if they have different expectations of how you should react to a spanking.

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Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 11:42:38 05/28/25 Wed Lessja. I didn't have that problem with my parents. They both demanded total submission. I suspect that my crying and pleading and promising to be a good girl was quite pleasing to them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]