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Subject: Defiance Disrespect Author: Laura82 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 11:30:41 05/18/25 Sun Were any of you ever outright defiant to your parents. I mean. You broke a rule, knowing you’d be caught. I never did. I bent the rules. Ten minutes late was the most I got away with. I broke the rules not expecting to be caught - and if I did Waah I sometimes just forgot or didn’t notice the time. I argued and schemed but I never defied them directly. In the same way I was never openly disrespectful. I’d argue and stomp off but II can’t imagine swearing at mum ( and thinking of doing it to dad gives me butterflies even now.) Or the record. I wasn’t remotely a goody two shoes. I did plenty of bad things. Now with hubby that’s a different matter. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Defiance Disrespect Author: Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:34:28 05/18/25 Sun I think i was considered a good kid... respectful and such.. Altho i had my bratty, attitude teen years - especially when i thought i should have more freedom and later curfew and such. We were in a conservative church town, so, spare the rod and spoil the child was the backbone of raising kids.. My mom would approve of stepdad disciplining when i got out of hand.. I am 22 now, and living with my fiance, and he holds me accountable and there is a weekly maintenance session that he refers to as date night.. How is your time now with your husband different? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Defiance Disrespect Author: Laura82 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:51:33 05/18/25 Sun I dont think my childhood was as hardcore as yours. Mum and Dad were pretty liberal about most things but there was a line ... Dad was zero tolerance if we crossed it. With hubby we are equals most of the time. We've been married nearly 13 years. When I've behaved badly I have suggested he punish me and he's obliged so its at least semi-consensual. He did punish me once just after we married and lets just say I deserved it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Defiance Disrespect Author: Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:37:18 05/18/25 Sun sounds like he set the tone right after the marriage - that is good...while no one enjoys it - i find that i get out of my head at times, can have an attitude and severely procrastinate.. So, lets just say i get a reminder [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Defiance Disrespect Author: DD [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:45:57 05/18/25 Sun I don't remember anyone in my family getting spanked for too much defiance. Like you, there was a line we could approach, but it wasn't difficult to stay on the safe side of that line. Why be defiant if a parent can end the discussion with a spanking? Spankings were the result of very bad behavior, but not because we wanted to get caught. In life, sometimes we act impulsively when away from home, or make the mistake of thinking we will get away with something, or believe we are "too old" for a spanking. I became rebellious as I got older, but not too openly. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Defiance Disrespect Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:46:43 05/19/25 Mon I wouldn't dare to backtalk or openly disobey my parents. But because they were so strict with my rules, I took chances every now and then. And every now and then I'd get caught and soundly spanked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Defiance Disrespect Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:01:54 05/20/25 Tue I guess it depends on your definition of defiance and disrespect. Rolling of the eyes or a "whatever" statement would most certainly get you a very sore butt that evening. My brother was upset that he had to cut the grass and set the mower to a couple of inches taller than normal. My father educated him on the proper setting with his belt that night too. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Defiance Disrespect Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:41:25 05/21/25 Wed My mother called me a daydreamer. Then wshe'd give me a spanking to wake me up. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Defiance Disrespect Author: peterK68 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:05:25 05/21/25 Wed If it hadn't been the 1960's I would have probably been diagnosed with ADD. I wasn;t openly defiant, just too slow to listen is mny cases. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Defiance Disrespect Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:29:07 05/25/25 Sun I don't know how any spankings I ever got from anyone resulted in defiant actions during the punishment. Maybe as I got older I could keep from reacting to the first part of the hand spanking, but when the hair brush, bath brush or belt was applied it was impossible show any form of defiance and crying, screaming and kicking were out of my control and a direct result of the punishment being given. Any form of defiance before or after a spanking just resulted in a repeat spanking so that was self-defeating all around. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Defiance Disrespect Author: Deanna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:24:02 05/29/25 Thu I always admitted my mistakes and took my paddlings with out fuss at home and school I layed across the knee at home or school bent over I cried but could hold still . I am that way now with my husband and he appreciates it because it makes it easy I always try to do better in the future after the spanking . Arguing moving usually gets you spanked worse anyway or the spanking takes longer than getting over with [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Defiance Disrespect Author: Jan to Deanna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:33:36 05/30/25 Fri Hi Deanna, I feel the same way. I lay on the table as dad sears my bare with his strap. I do cry and plead and promise to do better but I can stay in position and yes, it goes faster. You just want to get it over with. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]