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>Siobhan, > >Oh no, your postings haven't been gibberish in any >sort of the sense. I have loved your responses. You >have such a wonderful family, and it is clear you are >a firm, but very loving Mommy and Aunt. Your children >(and niece) are so fortunate. As I know you feel the >exact same. > >Oh, silly me! I have no idea why I said "girls", I >certainly remember Sean and Emma. Maybe because it's >just been awhile since we had talked. But I am so >sorry. > >Thank you for sharing the friendship you and Maria >forged and how you helped her with Amelia, what a >wonderful story. I am glad that each of you were there >for one another, and you were able to bond and form >the relationships you have today. That first spanking >you gave Amelia, I am guessing that hasn't been the >only one you've administered to her? > >Caoimhe sounds so adorable, but also like your normal >mischievous 5 yr old. Giving her that longer than >normal spanking was very much needed, if just for the >safety infraction alone. I have the same rule, not at >those young ages, they are not allowed to get into the >tub filled water without an adult. No reason to take >any chances. I have never joked around with things >like that, and I know you haven't either in reading >your posts. > >I also only have so much patience during bath time >with the little ones. When they are agreeable, we both >have such a wonderful time. They play with their toys >while I wash them down and we both talk about the day, >with their endless questions. :) But when they are >obstinate, it only turns into frustrating time (for >me) due to their behavior and unhappy and painful time >(for them) as Grandma has to spank. > >I handle bath time spankings a bit differently. I am >also a big supporter of smacking a wet bottom (and >thighs) for the extra sting, but when they are little >I have always sat on the pulled down toilet seat, >placing a folded towel over my lap and the naughty >little one turned over my lap (and towel). > >I also wanted to clarify another aspect, this in >regards to spanking the thighs. It sounds like you >will smack the thighs when you want to give something >extra in the spanking. However, I have always included >the thighs when I spank, whether for a standard >spanking and of course with a serious one, as well. >For serious ones, I will just give a little more >attention on the thighs as well as go a bit further >down. But you have probably read my posts that I feel >spankings should always be very sound and thorough, >and I feel reddening the thighs is definitely part of >that. > >Congratulations on your new nephew! But what Caoimhe >is going through is very similar to what Missy had >gone through this past year, as well. She also gained >herself a baby brother last summer, and much like >Caoimhe, she did NOT like that Mommy and Daddy had to >now spend so much time with the newborn. At first, she >was very jealous of him. However, over time, she has >grown very close and even extremely protective of him. >We know that Joey is always going to have his big >sister watching out for him. I rue anyone that comes >at him in school, as they would need to deal with >Missy. > >Speaking of her, she just turned 4 in February and she >moves forward with a full head of steam, she can be >very determined (and stubborn). Which has earned her >spankings from Mommy or Grandma more than once when >she has gone too far. I tease my daughter a bit as >it's very much like Mommy like Daughter. As Kahlan >(her Mommy) was very much the same way at that age and >she found herself over my lap often because of it. > >Siobhan, where is it that you usually spank at home? >Your 'favorite place' as you indicated? I don't have a >favorite place really, but I spank in the living room >a large majority of the time. And that's because the >children misbehave primarily happens downstairs. So >taking them over to the couch, or pulling out a chair >from the dining room table (for the little ones), is >the easiest and quickest way to do so. Unfortunately >(for the children) most of the time it does mean >public spankings because others are often downstairs >and/or visitors are not all that infrequent. Siobhan, >I am much like yourself in the only times I will make >a point to take them to another room to spank in >private is if the witnesses are not comfortable with >it. The child (or children) I am about to spank, >their feelings of of being embarrassed is not a factor. > >When you asked about giving 'my girls' joined baths, >were you just speaking about Kathy and Chloe during >their recent spankings, or my actual girls when they >were little? Yes to Kathy and Chloe, but not my actual >girls. And the only reason I didn't give my actual >daughters joined baths was due to their age >differences, none of them were close in age, so it >really never worked out. They already had to be little >to have two of them in the tub and when one of them >was small, her sibling was way too old (and big). > >With Kathy and Chloe, I did bathe them together up >north, even though they were 12 yrs old (Kathy almost >12). Only reason I was able to get them both in the >tub was because we have a large corner tub in the >master bathroom that easily fits both girls. But Chloe >and Kathy have been friends ever since I began >babysitting Chloe when she was 7. I bathed the girls >together a number of times when they were both young, >so I was able to fit them in the (normal) tub together >easily. We usually had a good time when I did. The >girls playing and we were talking and singing songs, >but like most young children, they got their share of >bath time spankings when they were naughty in the >bath. > >Hear hear Siobhan. I couldn't agree with you more. >I've always said that spanking is a very nurturing >act. Where of course it hurts a lot (it's supposed >to), if it is given over the lap (which I feel it >always should), it is done in a loving position, being >close to Mommy, Grandma or whomever they are being >cared by. Also, even though I've had the kids tell me >they hate going over my lap with how embarrassing it >is, they also have told me they feel safe in that >position. I feel that is very much part of feeling >loved and protected, even though we are doing >something that causes pain. In their heart, they know >we do it because we love them. Never mind the >importance of the post-spanking hugging, comfort and >cuddle time. I always do it with them for as long as >they want and need me to. It's honestly needed for me, >as well. :) > >Thank you so much again for your detailed responses, I >really have enjoyed reading them. > >Siobhan, I'm just putting the offer to you, but to >avoid only having a back and forth conversation on the >thread, you are always welcome to email me. You can >get my email from Mary. I can't promise how timely I >would be able to respond, but Mary can speak that my >emails can be just as long. lol > > >Sarah
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